Are you feeling like you're simply reacting to the moment right in front of your face? Yeah, we've been there (and still catch ourselves doing it). It's in our nature evidently. But how can we get out of reaction mode and into planning mode? Nicole and I explore how we've improved as parents and what we're doing to continue that improvement by thinking more than one step ahead. SHOW RESOURCES Firstly:  http://www.marriagekidsandmoney.com/firstly Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids: How to Stop Yelling and Start Connecting: https://amzn.to/3jFKxFk