What do you wish you had known before becoming a mom?  This week, Kaanji and Tara each discuss 5 things they wish they had known before having kids.  The discussion runs through a wild range of topics, including how hard it is to keep kids in shoes that fit, the complexity of postpartum emotions, and the importance of those pelvic floor muscles.  They also talk about The Four Agreements and how they are each striving to pause and be more present with their sons.  Wait until you find out the one thing that they both agree they had no clue about before they were moms. Share with us what you wish you had known before having kids!  Follow and interact with the show on IG: @blackandwhitemomcastIf you are enjoying the conversation, please take a moment to rate, review, subscribe and share with your friends.  Tara IG: @tatstarKaanji IG: @kaanji_irby