When To Come Clean And Apologize -- Say Sorry Or Let It Go?

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When To Come Clean And Apologize -- Say Sorry Or Let It Go?

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When do you apologize for something you've done? When is it appropriate to come clean in a situation, versus letting things go and moving on? In today's episode I'm replying to a listener message about knowing when to come clean, clear the air or let it go. This is such a common thing for all of us, and my intention is to give some perspective on fully owning your decisions.

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