When you are expecting a baby, there are so many decisions to make before, during, and after labor. Having a midwife can be a true source of comfort throughout this time. What exactly is a midwife though? How does it differ from an OB or doula?  My friend Ailsa is on the show to shed some light on what exactly a midwife does. I know you will feel Ailsa’s passion for helping women feel comfortable and stay safe during pregnancy, labor, and delivery.     Ailsa Emmel is a certified nurse midwife and a huge advocate for women empowerment. Previously, she was a commissioned officer and Navy Nurse. Once she had her twins, she attended the University of Miami to complete Midwifery school.    In this episode we discuss: -The difference between an OBGYN, midwife, and doula -Making important decisions during labor and after birth such as epidurals, VBACs, and delayed cord clamping -The motherhood comparison game that begins during pregnancy  -Black maternal health disparities   Resources mentioned: -Ailsa's Instagram: @_happygocurly_ -Irth: Birth Without Bias -Hear from the founder of Irth -Talking to Strangers: What We Should Know About the People We Don't Know, Malcolm Gladwell -The Coddling of the American Mind, Greg Lukianoff and Jonathan Haidt  -blackmamasmatter.org   Connect with me on Instagram @motherhoodmeetsmedicine. For full show notes, head to lynzyandco.com/motherhood-meets-medicine-the-podcast/   Join the Motherhood Meets Medicine community at patreon.com/motherhoodmeetsmedicine.   Disclaimer: This podcast does not provide medical advice. The information on this podcast is for informational purposes only. No material on this site is intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.