We're talking manliness vs. toxic masculinity this week with our sweet friend, Comedian Stan Talouis as well as an awesome South African Cumpanion named Tom. We discuss how early life experiences and certain cultural ideals about "manliness" effected them both and how much they've grown since unlearning those things. TW: Sexual Assault, Violence, Suicidal Ideation   Follow us at @HowCumPodcast and @RemyKassimir  Follow Stan at @FunnyManStan Sign up for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE Want promo codes for toys, products + more? Check out our "promo codes" highlight on our Instagram!