Ever wondered why sex used to feel easy and pleasurable and gradually, or suddenly, that stopped? Or wished you could experience orgasms or great sex in the first place?    Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus, sex therapist and author of SEX POINTS, believes everyone who wishes to can have “rockin’ sex” and that all related challenges are surmountable. She spoke with August about her personal journey and lessons we can all learn from challenges she’s encountered in the lives of her clients, as well as her own.   A few things you’ll learn about in this episode:   Unforgettable sex-talk stories from Dr. Marcus’s childhood Why it’s important to consider sexual arousal, desire and functional challenges beyond the psychological Ways birth control can influence sexual desire and orgasms What many of us get wrong about fantasizing  The myth that women do better with monogamy than men Common factors that can lower what Dr. Marcus calls “sex points” What led her to “lose her orgasms” twice, and how she found her way back to that pleasure Dr. Megan Fleming’s thoughts for a listener who wants to experience orgasm (and for her partner to, too) during intercourse, versus only through masturbation   Stream an exclusive bonus segment, and get more rewards, by joining August’s Patreon community: patreon.com/girlboner.    Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! Free, discreet shipping over $75.   Join us on Instagram:   @drbatsheva  @GirlBonerMedia  @dr.megan.fleming @pleasurecheststores   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.