023 SelfWork: Do You Have FOMO (the Fear of Missing Out)?

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023 SelfWork: Do You Have FOMO (the Fear of Missing Out)?

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You may not believe you experience FOMO, the recent acronym for the “fear of missing out.” But wait until you hear actual quotes from people who do, and you may hear yourself! Here’s one: “I can see from her SnapChat that she went out with all of our friends. I ended the friendship with her, but […] The post 023 SelfWork: Do You Have FOMO (the Fear of Missing Out)? appeared first on Dr. Margaret Rutherford.

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