093 SelfWork: A Second Betrayal: When You Say #MeToo and You Get Hurt Again

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093 SelfWork: A Second Betrayal: When You Say #MeToo and You Get Hurt Again

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It’s a huge risk to reveal sexual abuse. A second betrayal occurs when you say “MeToo” and you’re not believed, it’s ignored or somehow you’re hurt all over again. Fearing this is what keeps many people from revealing what happened either years ago or in this very moment. Here are real people’s stories about what […] The post 093 SelfWork: A Second Betrayal: When You Say #MeToo and You Get Hurt Again appeared first on Dr. Margaret Rutherford.

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