Last time, we talked about the recent trend of folks reaching out to their exes, why it’s happening so frequently and why it can be comforting to try to rekindle an old relationship. But it's far too easy to fall back to old patterns and old routines with your ex, which means you're going to make the same old mistakes that lead to new pain. Today, I'm going to teach you the RIGHT way to get your ex back. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why the most popular ways to get your ex back DON'T WORK What you need to do before you try to reconnect with your ex How to reach out to an ex without feeling forced, fake or manipulative What to say to make your ex want to take you back Why so many relationships fall apart for the second time... and how to avoid it ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: How To Deal With Your Ex Why You Will Never Get Closure How To Stay Friends After The Break-Up Ask Dr. NerdLove: We Were On A Break The 5 Things You Need To Get Over Your Breakup When You SHOULDN'T Get Back With Your Ex (And When You Should) Transcript available here Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books