People Pleasing (The Unlearning) - Episode 3 (Season 3)

Welcome to Jesus & Jollof! - Trailer: Jesus and Jollof is a podcast featuring Luvvie Ajayi and Yvonne Orji, two proudly Nigerian women (who have no behavior) talking about the things they love, their stories, and life in general. Why “Jesus and Jollof?” Those are the two things they cannot do without. Besides, the other option was “2 Goat Queens.” by Jesus and Jollof

2 min listen

The Grime Before the Glow - Episode 3: In this episode, Luvvie and Yvonne talk about the struggle to where they currently are, with a deep dive into their journeys. How did it all happen when it wasn't the original plan? From starting out as aspiring doctors to following their purpose even when the roads got rough. They also bless one another with African prayers while discussing the importance of power naps, character, and why Luvvie hates comic sans font. by Jesus and Jollof

49 min listen

White Loafers and Heartbreak: The Dating Q&A Episode - Episode 7: In this bonus episode, Luvvie and Yvonne answer your questions about dating. What’s the best way to recover from a heartbreak? Should you date a man who doesn’t share the same religious beliefs? From tips on where to find a Nigerian man to their parents’ silence about sex, tune in to hear their answers to your most pressing questions! by Jesus and Jollof

34 min listen

Immigrant is the New Cool - Episode 2: In the second episode of Jesus and Jollof, Luvvie and Yvonne explore how being immigrants affected them growing up and the struggle of having two identities, being both Nigerian and Nigerian American. They also dig into bad nigerian pickup lines, the effect of Black Panther on the immigrant experience, and why Delta needs to stop sending their worst planes to Nigeria. by Jesus and Jollof

38 min listen

The Five Nigerian Love Languages - Episode 1: in the inaugural episode of Jesus and Jollof, Yvonne and Luvvie introduce themselves, how they met and became friends, and how this podcast came to be. Also, ever heard of the Five Love Languages? Well, Luvvie and Yvonne have created the Five Nigerian Love Languages, exploring the ways Nigerians communicate and show affection. by Jesus and Jollof

38 min listen

Boo’d Up: The Nigerian Dating Rules - Episode 5: In this episode, Luvvie and Yvonne do a deep dive into the joys and perils of dating. Why do Nigerian parents prohibit dating but expect marriage? What should a non-Nigerian expect when dating a Nigerian man? Tune in for answers to those questions plus learn how each host approaches sharing their relationships on social media and what their stripper/rapper names would be. by Jesus and Jollof

78 min listen

From Bottom to Breakthrough - Episode 4: In this episode, Luvvie and Yvonne chat about their breaking points and the seminal events that moved them from the grind to the glow. How can one have 36 cents in their bank account yet be fortunate enough to have a meeting with Oprah? Or turn a case of plagiarism into a New York Times Bestselling book? Join the ladies as they dig deep into the challenges that ultimately led to their breakthroughs. by Jesus and Jollof

61 min listen

Pursuing Passion and Purpose: The Career Q&A Episode - Episode 9: In this bonus episode, Luvvie and Yvonne answer listener questions about careers and believing in yourself. How do you deal with the “not your time yet” season? What are the steps to deal with imposter syndrome? Tune in to hear everything from how to deal with rejection to learning how to manage money and fame. by Jesus and Jollof

33 min listen

Rings and Things: Lessons on Love - Episode 2 (Season 2): Love is in the air. Luvvie and Yvonne share their lessons on relationships past and present, why you need a girl who is classy enough to go to Paris and down enough to not spend all your money there and what they would do if they had Teyana Taylor’s body. This is their Valentine's Day to you. by Jesus and Jollof

77 min listen

Foolish Goats LIVE! - Announcement: Our people! SURPRISE! We are dropping hot pepper soup on you with our first ever LIVE Jesus and Jollof show. We can finally all be together in one room, talking about the foolish goats of the world and debating which jollof is the best! We cannot wait to see you all there. Oya listen and get details. by Jesus and Jollof

11 min listen

Roof Leaks and Water Bills: Homeownership - Episode 4 (Season 2): In this episode, Luvvie and Yvonne discuss the joys and perils of homeownership, further exploring how adulting is a scam: a necessary one. But a scam nonetheless. They share their personal stories of getting their finances and credit in order to become homeowners and also why you can’t underestimate the power of personalized letters. by Jesus and Jollof

80 min listen

Robes So Hard: Stubborn Goats Clock-in - Episode 1 (Season 2): Luvvie and Yvonne are back for season 2 of Jesus and Jollof! On this episode, they talk about how the Jollof warriors (their listeners) verbally abused them until they were forced to get back into the studio. They catch everyone up on life's happenings, their feelings on DMX’s new album, and why they’re saying "OK" in 2019. by Jesus and Jollof

46 min listen

The Fine Print of Success - Episode 6: In this episode, Luvvie and Yvonne delve into the very real challenges faced after the “glow” is achieved. What does it look like after you “make” it? What does “more money, more problems” even mean? From turning down six figure deals that don’t fit the brand to struggling to stay connected with friends, tune in to hear how success can come with its own set of frustrations. by Jesus and Jollof

60 min listen

Sticks in a Bundle: Our Tribe - Episode 8: In this episode, Yvonne and Luvvie discuss their tribes. Would your friends tell you if your weave was busted? Should you be the only successful person in your group? From tackling jealousy to celebrating wins, tune in to hear why having the right people around is so important and vital to success. by Jesus and Jollof

57 min listen

Use Your Words: Conflict Resolution - Episode 6 (Season 2): In this episode, Luvvie and Yvonne discuss why feelings are not facts and how assumptions will leave you friendless. They role-play on how to have difficult conversations and de-escalate conflict in friendships and business. #YoureWelcome by Jesus and Jollof

87 min listen

Cardio For Your Mind: Therapy - Episode 3 (Season 2): On this episode, Luvvie and Yvonne discuss the taboo subject of therapy and why seeking professional help isn’t “airing your dirty laundry in public.” As two Nigerians who are women of faith, they lean on God, but also lean on the doctor whose job it is to help them be their best selves and they encourage listeners to do the same. by Jesus and Jollof

57 min listen

Exhaust Fumes and Tupperware: The Holiday Episode - Episode 10: In the final episode of the season, Luvvie and Yvonne dig deep into holidays in their Nigerian families. What is a Naija salad? Why are parents obsessed with tupperware containers? From Delta flight attendants getting too familiar to the worst Christmas gifts ever received, tune in hear about these topics and how the ladies respond to their parents’ attempts to set them up. by Jesus and Jollof

50 min listen

Blessed Goats Take Over Apollo Theater! - Announcement: ANNOUNCEMENT, Jollof Warriors! We are here with an announcement about the next LIVE show of Jesus & Jollof! We're taking on the legendary APOLLO THEATER stage as part of the Africa Now! Festival! April 13 at 8pm! Come on! by Jesus and Jollof

8 min listen

Adulting FAQ's - Episode 9 (Season 2): In this episode, Luvvie and Yvonne dive into some of your most wanted adulting questions. From advice on marital problems to beginning new friendships, the two goats discuss it all and use their wisdom to help you live your best life. by Jesus and Jollof

47 min listen

Parenting Our Parents: Payback - Episode 5 (Season 2): In this episode, Luvvie and Yvonne discuss why, despite their best efforts at love, parents need to control every aspect of their children's lives. Luvvie shares the reason she's been a useful disappointment and Yvonne challenges DMX to a Christmas duet album. by Jesus and Jollof

67 min listen

Scared Money Don't Make Money: Finances - Episode 7 (Season 2): In this episode Luvvie and Yvonne discuss how they overcame poverty mentality, why haggling is still vital to keeping them humble and share tips on how to save, invest and not fall into the traps of college debt. by Jesus and Jollof

92 min listen

Prioritizing You: Self-Care - Episode 8 (Season 2): In this episode, Luvvie & Yvonne make a quick, but necessary pit stop into self-care, which sometimes is all self care is: quick, but necessary. There’s nothing sexy about burnout, so they share practical tips on prioritizing the most important human in your life: YOU. by Jesus and Jollof

22 min listen

Sheep Don't Run with Lion in Chicago (Live Show Loading): CHICAGO! We are bringing the #HOTGirlSummer to Chi-Town, as our next #JesusandJollof LIVE show is in your city at the legendary Vic Theatre. Join your Foolish Goats @YvonneOrji and @Luvvie for a night you won't forget. August 10 (THIS WEEK)at 6pm! by Jesus and Jollof

14 min listen

Season 3 of Jesus & Jollof is Coming! (Trailer): It's been a while since Luvvie and Yvonne left for season 2 but season 3 is coming! We promise. We're bringing the hot pepper and letting you know what we're up to. Subscribe and we'll be dropping that hot fire any day now! by Jesus and Jollof

4 min listen

Making Up for Lost Time - Episode 1 (Season 3): Welcome back Jollof warriors! In this episode, Luvvie & Yvonne catch us up on what they’ve been up to since season 2. It's their Valentine's Day Gift to everybody! You're welcome o! by Jesus and Jollof

93 min listen

Yvonne's Birthday Wish: Yvonne celebrates her birthday with the announcement of her comedy tour Lagos to Laurel. Get your tickets at yvonneorji.com and can't wait to see you at the show. by Jesus and Jollof

6 min listen

Luvvie Dropping in on the Jollof Warriors: It's been awhile and we know you are missing us small small. Yvonne is shooting season 4 of Insecure and Luvvie just got married. In the meantime, go listen to the episode of Luvvie's other podcast (Rants & Randomness) where she talks about all things wedding! by Jesus and Jollof

1 min listen

From Childhood to Adulthood: Reminiscing - Episode 10 (Season 2): In this final episode of the season, Luvvie and Yvonne take it all the way back to their childhood. They reminisce on their favorite stories to help navigate adulting. Nothing is off limits—from bad beatings to bullying—they use wisdom garnered from every lesson to go boldly towards the journey of adulthood. Join in on the ride back to the future. by Jesus and Jollof

94 min listen

Barks and Battles: Unlearning in Quarantine: Luvvie and Yvonne had to get on the mic after the DMX vs Snoop Verzuz because you KNOW YMX (Yvonne) lived her BEST LIFE during the battle, even though they didn't call her to be hypewoman. Iz okay anyhow. And what have they been up to in this quarantine, and we talk about the smoke Molly has been getting on Insecure. by Jesus and Jollof

73 min listen

People Pleasing (The Unlearning) - Episode 3 (Season 3): In this episode, Luvvie & Yvonne explore their hangups with the subtle art of not giving a DAMB. They share candidly their struggles with unlearning people-pleasing and confront their desperate need to no longer betray themselves, because let’s face it— self-sabotage is an enemy of progress. by Jesus and Jollof

63 min listen

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