On ep 101 of American Sex, we talk swinging with Dee and Laydee Vee. They answer common questions about the lifestyle-- how do you meet people, what’s the etiquette of attending parties, what do all the acronyms mean, how do you combat jealousy, what are the best ways to start exploring opening your relationship, what are the differences between being a swinger/open/polyamory and do folks that identify differently play well together? We discuss the nuances of swinging in the African American community-- what’s up with the swing lifestyle being so overwhelmingly white, in what areas is that different, and why? Is it true that bias against bisexual men in the lifestyle is more pronounced in black spaces? Dee and Vee also dive into one of their favorite activities, facesitting-- what it’s about smothering, cunnilingus or both? What's the psychology behind it? What’s the proper preparation and technique for the act?  Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 101 Links Instagram: http://instagram.com/dvpassion Twitter http://twitter.com/dvpassionlove Website http://dvpassion.com SDC https://www.sdc.com/ SLS https://www.swinglifestyle.com/ Adult Friend Finder https://adultfriendfinder.com/ Swinging on Eventbrite https://www.eventbrite.com (searching “lifestyle” “swinging” “swing parties” etc) Sex Down South Sexuality Conference https://www.sexdownsouth.com/ Exxxotica https://exxxoticaexpo.com/ Striking Vipers Black Mirror Episode https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Striking_Vipers Sex Educator Skill Share Conference http://sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference Fire Woman Retreat http://firewomanretreat.com/sunny American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast  Episode 101 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off your first order of Native with code SUNNY at http://nativedeodorant.com RopeFlix.com, just like Netflix, but for Japanese erotic rope bondage! 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01