Episode 154: Not My Circus, Not My Monkeys

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Episode 154: Not My Circus, Not My Monkeys

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Jan 14, 2014

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TOPIC: The Attention Stack

This week, Dan and Merlin talk about—what?—maybe the attention stack. How what we pay attention to (and, yes spend our time on) can't help but affect how we see, think, feel, and decide.

Not happy with any of those things? Start working your way down the stack.

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Jan 14, 2014

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Back to Work is an award winning talk show with Merlin Mann and Dan Benjamin discussing productivity, communication, work, barriers, constraints, tools, and more. Hosted by Merlin Mann & Dan Benjamin.

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Episode 154: Not My Circus, Not My Monkeys

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