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Length:
32 minutes
Released:
Oct 22, 2018
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

Faith Salie's recent commentary on Breaking News and its meandering into becoming of lesser and lesser importance for the viewers to be interrupted sparked my attention when Salie offered a simple suggestion: more depth, less drama.  As soon as she said it, my ears and mind perked up.  What a simple approach to living well. An approach to welcome more substance, less stress, more enjoyment, less unnecessary conflict and more tranquility and less anxiety. Could it really be that simple?  Let's start with the drama we unnecessarily welcome into our lives and what we might potential replace it with to improve the quality of our everydays: 1. Viewing Entertainment Less . . .  drama on the television shows, reality programming or films that further perpetuate stereotypes, harm, violence or simplification and/or misguided problem resolution. More . . .  depth offered in exploratory programming, documentaries, well-written, thought-provoking plots that include well-developed characters and unique storylines. Reality programming that exhibits teachable skills and positive relationship styles. ~This & That: October 19, 2018 - Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat 2. Conversations Less . . .  dramatic conversations such as superficial, assumptive and unfounded chitchat such as gossip, judging, and labeling simply for the sake of having any conversation.  More . . .  depth of thought that elevates the conversation, observes possibilities and suggests solutions to frustrations.  3. Daily Routine Less . . .  drama provoked by stretching ourselves too thin when it comes to our schedule, our budget, our emotional well-being. More . . .  depth of reasoning behind the decisions we make that become the framework of our lives - our routines, our relationships, our monetary expenses and investments.  ~18 Ways to Simplify Daily & Weekly Routines ~Archived TSLL posts on Relationships ~Archived TSLL posts on Money ~Today's image is a glimpse of one of my favorite weekly routines as shared on Instagram - Sunday morning.  4. Self-Awareness Less . . .  drama caused by poor engagement with others and letting our worries spill into other areas of our lives.  More . . .  depth of awareness to recognize when we need a "timeout" to recharge, rest, recalibrate and decide how we will positively address any situations in our lives that are causing us stress so that it doesn't bleed into other areas of our life unconsciously. (check out episode #227 for ideas on Self-Care) 5. Understanding Priorities Less . . .  drama provoked by unsolicited responses and commentary on every little event that occurs at work or in your life. More . . .  depth of recognition when it comes to your priorities as you identify which events/conversations requires your engagement and your finite energy. Contribute to conversations that are of importance and you feel you have something unique and positive to offer, otherwise let those who do feel invested in the conversation work through the matter at hand without you.  ~Responding vs. Reacting: The Difference, episode #145 6. Friendships & Relationships Less . . .  dramatic friends or individuals in your life that thrive off of stress, exhaustion, games or manipulation. More . . .  depth of character and integrity in the individuals you choose to spend time with. Sincerity, a healthy sense of self and kind offering of one's time and energy. 7. Mastering of One's Mind Less . . .  drama stirred up in your own mind needlessly due to the inability to master your thoughts, note them and move forward without being hampered by their attempt at distraction or self-doubt. More . . .  depth of self-awareness and recognition of what is going well, an understanding of how you function at your best and how to cultivate a life that helps your best self come to fruition. (check out TSLL's 2nd book which is primarily focused on helping readers attain the
Released:
Oct 22, 2018
Format:
Podcast episode

Titles in the series (100)

The simple sophisticate is someone who prefers quality over quantity, sensible living over mindless consumption, personal style instead of trendy fashions, has an insatiable curiosity for life’s endless questions and a desire to live a truly fulfilling life rather than being led around by the nose. Inspired by her lifestyle blog The Simply Luxurious Life, Shannon Ables (the original Simple Sophisticate) shares with listeners tips on how to live a refined life on an everyday income. From achieving your goals, preparing a memorable meal, creating a capsule wardrobe, traveling the world (Francophiles tune in as Paris is a favorite destination), and living life to the fullest without breaking the bank, living well is really quite simple.