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Spare Parts: You're The Tits!

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Apr 5, 2016

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Can a man call someone "The Tits" as a compliment? What's the matter with, "It Just Happened Sex?" Can we all get a little more nuanced about porn? All these answers and more are revealed in this week's Spare Parts quickiesode. For information regarding your data privacy, visit acast.com/privacy

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Apr 5, 2016

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Unscrewing up the sexual culture. Host Jaclyn Friedman and a rotating cast of whipsmart guests untangle the politics and culture of sex, and help out real-world sex advice-seekers.

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