Spare Parts: Kindergarten Bacchanal

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Spare Parts: Kindergarten Bacchanal

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How young is too young to masturbate? Scarleteen's Heather Corinna helps a listener and in the process pulls back the curtain on what really happens at naptime. Plus, inspired by feedback on last week's All The Parts Are Good Parts episode, Jaclyn shares resources for adults who want to teach the young people in their lives well about sex. And: we're going on a summer vacation! For information regarding your data privacy, visit acast.com/privacy

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Jul 12, 2016

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