Saying No Gracefully – TPW008

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Saying No Gracefully – TPW008

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Aug 28, 2014

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Do you find it difficult to say no? I do. The desire to be liked or the sincere desire to help makes it easy to say yes, and sometimes we end up regretting it.

Released:

Aug 28, 2014

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A podcast intended to help busy women find the tools and the encouragement to manage their lives, their time, their stress, and their stuff so they can accomplish the things that matter most to them.

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