Intimacy Coach Stella Harris is a healthy communication rockstar and just released a new best selling book on the subject. In this episode Stella teaches us: what to do when one partner isn’t putting in the effort, boundary & expectation setting in the early part of relationships, how communication differs for vanilla & BDSM situations, navigating consent without ruining the mood, sexual improv tips & communication exercises for improving your sex life & more! Sunny shows her appreciation for Bi Visibility Day and endures a lot of pounding while Ken is away. Catch Stella’s bonus story about a very unusual first date on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/21592544   Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/tre Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 60 Links Stella Harris’  Website www.stellaharris.net Stella Harris’  Twitter https://twitter.com/StellaErotica Stella Harris’ Instagram http://instagram.com/StellaHarrisErotica Stella Harris’ Facebook http://.facebook.com/StellaErotica Stella Harris’ Book, Exposure: Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink & Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Tongue-Tied-Untangling-Communication-Relationships/dp/1627782664 Screw the Roses Send Me the Thorns book http://sunnymegatron.com/product/screw-the-roses-send-me-the-thorns/ Sunny’s Bi Visibility Day Article http://sunnymegatron.com/happy-bisexuality-day-why-its-so-hard-to-be-bi/ Patreon Wall of Thanks http://sunnymegatron.com/sponsors/ Midori American Sex Podcast episode http://sunnymegatron.com/midori-erotic-roleplay-finding-your-dominance/ Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Episode 60 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Jimmyjane Love Pod Tre giveaway ($149 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/tre 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY