This BDSM episode is a perfect primer for those dipping their toes into the kinky pool for the first time or for experienced kinksters looking for a little renewed inspiration. Ken & Sunny’s approach to kink is quite different than what’s typically depicted. Nearly every stereotype, archetype, and “rule” you thought applied to BDSM is about to be broken. In this episode Sunny talks with Lexi Sylver of the Seek, Discover, Create podcast about all things BDSM. They cover: the roles of a dominant and submissive, how to start communicating and experimenting with your partner to discover what your kinks are, tips for playing safely, the importance of consent and safe words, what “aftercare” is really all about and how it works, the potentially therapeutic benefits of BDSM play, and more. Get ready for a new spin on a popular subject! ___________________________________ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 80 Links Seek Discover Create Podcast with Lexi Sylver https://bit.ly/SDCRadioLexi Lexi Sylver Website https://lexisylver.com Lexi Sylver Facebook https://www.facebook.com/getlexual Lexi Sylver Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lexisylver/ Lexi Sylver Twitter https://twitter.com/lexisylver Lexi Sylver Youtube https://www.youtube.com/user/TheSylverScreen SDC.com Twitter https://twitter.com/sdcmedia SDC.com https://www.sdc.com/ Ken & Sunny on Dan Savage’s Savage Lovecast https://www.savagelovecast.com/episodes/600#.XIKDmohKg2w Ken & Sunny on Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/sex-out-loud/e/49169668?autoplay=true Ken & Sunny on The Sex with Emily podcast http://sexwithemily.com/kinky-fun-sex/ Ken & Sunny on A Touch Of Flavor https://atouchofflavor.com/how-to-execute-an-interrogation-scene-with-sunny-megatron-and-ken/ Ken & Sunny on Sex Nerd Sandra, Clown Sex episode https://nerdist.com/2013/05/sex-nerd-sandra-92-clown-sex/ Ken & Sunny on Sex Nerd Sandra, Golden Showers episode https://archive.nerdist.com/sex-nerd-sandra-146-golden-showers-with-ken-melvoin-berg-sunny-megatron-and-damon-holzum/ Yes/No/Maybe & ROUGH BS Scene Negotiation tool http://bit.ly/bdsmynm Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We’re sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 80 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info XTaxPros.com specializing in taxes for the adult industry & more https://xtaxpros.com/ or (702) 253-7499 Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed