394: TOTALLY EXHAUSTED

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394: TOTALLY EXHAUSTED

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Sep 19, 2017

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The truth is that we spend so much time being exhausted that often we don’t even realize that it’s impacting our marriages. | Survival mode is supposed to be a phase that helps save your life. It’s not meant to be how you live your life. —Michele Rosenthal

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Sep 19, 2017

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Is your marriage everything that you want it to be? Are you ready to make a change? Join Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to create a strong marriage so you can have mind-blowing intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. Marriage is not always easy but it's so worth it. Come and make your marriage EXTRAORDINARY!

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013 – The Difference One Week Can Make in Your Marriage: Can 7 days really make a difference in your marriage? We are placing bets that it can. Decide that for one week your spouse is going to be your number one priority and see what happens. Celebrate as you rediscover the communication in your marriage. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
37 min listen
012 – Fireproof: "Never leave your partner, especially in a fire." - We are a little behind the times but better late than never. This is an amazing movie that will dramatically impact you wherever you are in your marriage. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
30 min listen
004 – Listener Feedback: In this episode we answer a number of questions from one of our listeners about ONE Extraordinary Marriage. Click here to read the email. Some of the questions we answer are: - Who we are? Why we are doing this? Where did ONE come from? by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
55 min listen
024 – When It’s Not On The Radar Screen: What does your marriage look like when intimacy is not on the radar screen? We had a personal case study last week and it wasn't pretty. It is never too late to make intimacy a priority in your marriage, it just takes making a decision and making the e.. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
47 min listen
023 – Get Unplugged and Find Your Connection: We spent Memorial Day weekend unplugged out at Agua Caliente State Park...no phones, no computers, no video games. It was an amazing time of re-discovering the joys that we have in each other. It was a weekend of togetherness, laughter and conversations. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
53 min listen
008 – Eyes Wide Open: Are you able to communicate your desires to your spouse? How do you react when he/she suggests trying something new. In this podcast Tony and Alisa talk about one of Tony's ideas and how it played out in the bedroom. - by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
35 min listen
003 – Rejection: Our McDonald’s Theory: Have you ever given any thought to the power the word NO has on your marriage? What might be a minor decision for a wife/husband (do we or don't we make love tonight) can have a larger impact on our marriages, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
37 min listen
034 – Can We Talk?: Week 2 - Stripped Down 13 Keys to Unlocking Intimacy in Your Marriage Small Group Podcast - Communication is vital to any marriage and it's importance cannot be overstated. You need to work past the surface conversation and learn about what is really... by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
55 min listen
006 – Power of Prayer: The Power of Prayer...change is possible, are you willing to ask for what you want and wait for it to happen? - In our microwave society we want what we want RIGHT NOW! The reality is this: we can't change our spouse or their actions no matter how muc... by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
31 min listen
022 – Is It Safe To Share My Emotions: Have you created a marriage where it is safe to share your emotions-both the good and the bad? Are you willing to let the person, who is supposed to love you the most, in on what is truly going on with you? by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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032 – Home Sweet Home: We spent last week in Morro Bay on our family vacation. We had a lot of fun together and a few not so fun times. Just goes to show that we are still a work in progress and that this thing called marriage takes on-going effort. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
59 min listen
021 – All is Fair in Love and Marriage…: Do you feel like things aren't fair in your marriage? Are you busier keeping track of who did what than how you are serving your spouse? - Listen as we respond to a twitter question about whether marriage is fair or can be fair. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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007 – Pornography: A Secret That Can Destroy Your Marriage: Are you aware of the destructive force that pornography can have in your marriage? 28,358 individuals are viewing porn every second Internet porn generated $2.84 billion in 2006 70% of porn is viewed between the 9-5 eight-hour workday (LJ INdex, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
61 min listen
001 – 60 Days of Sex: Eleven years and our marriage had gone through a lot and yet the pain we endured didn't have to be there forever. So on a fateful day Tony & Alisa began an adventure that would forever change their lives. - by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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041 – Is Your Marriage an Adventure or a Burden?: Have you taken the time to think about how you view your marriage? Every relationship has highs and lows but the difference is all in your mindset. Do you choose to look at the future wondering what is around the corner or do you dread every day. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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027 – The Whole Enchilada: Are you loving your spouse with your whole self, serving them in all areas or are you just giving them a part of yourself? Intimacy involves more than just the physical intimacy we think of most the time. There is emotional, intellectual, recreational, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
52 min listen
031 – Queen Size Bed: This week we are not in the studio aka the garage, but instead podcasting from a rock overlooking Morro Bay. We used our digital recorder and Tony's portion is a bit crackly. Sorry about this and we'll make sure to have this corrected the next time. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
16 min listen
010 – Can You Admit When You Are Wrong?: Can you admit when you are wrong? Or are you quick to jump on the defensive when your spouse brings up an issue? Listen in as we share our less than perfect week. I (Alisa) was moody and irritable, quick to dismiss anything that Tony had to say. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
34 min listen
036 – What If?: What if we had never done the 60 Days of Sex Challenge? Where would our own marriage be today? Where would the ONE Community be? We talk through the last two years and challenge you to stop asking the "what if" question and start doing something today .. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
58 min listen
018 – Interview: Facebook and Your Marriage: We are pleased to have had the chance to interview Jason & Kelli Krafsky authors of Facebook and Your Marriage. - Jason & Kelli have been married since 1994 and been on Facebook since 2008. They have written a number of articles, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
39 min listen
055 – Happy Anniversary: Sponsored by: - This episode marks one year of the ONE Extraordinary Marriage podcast. It’s hard to imagine how far we have come in the last year, growing deeper in our marriage and helping you to grow deeper in yours. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
62 min listen
019 – God Wants You to Make an Impact: Small acts done with great love can transform the world. -Jill Todd - Do you realize the power that you have? Every day we are presented with opportunities to change someone's life be it through a conversation, a situation, a prayer. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
53 min listen
062 – In Sickness & Health: When we take our vows we don’t necessarily think about the bad stuff that might happen, especially sickness. The thing is that eventually you or your spouse will become sick. How do you handle life when sickness does happen? - by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
50 min listen
025 – Getting Away: It's time to get away with your spouse and reconnect. Getting away gives you the opportunity to have those deep conversations, to sleep late and explore new places with your one and only.Getting away allows you to refocus your priorities and make your ... by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
54 min listen
043 – I Don’t Want the World, I Want YOU!: Have you stopped to think about what your spouse and family really want from you? Do you know that most of them would be willing to have less “stuff” if it meant more of you? Part of making your marriage extraordinary is investing in the relationsh by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
61 min listen
056 – The Strain of Change: Over the years we have attended large churches and very small churches and it’s never been an easy decision to change churches. Sometimes, though, it’s been necessary for the welfare of our marriage. Listen in as we talk about the ups and downs of c by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
65 min listen
016 – An Attitude of Service: Do you have an attitude of service in your marriage? You can make a difference in your marriage, in your life, in the world. By choosing to serve, without expectation or requirement of a return, you free yourself to fully enjoy intimacy. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
55 min listen
033 – From the Top Down & More…: This is the first of our small group podcast on Stripped Down: 13 Keys to Unlocking Intimacy in Marriage. Each week we will be coving the different Keys that you can use in your marriage today, tomorrow, and into the future to build passion, romance, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
56 min listen
011 – Our Beginning…How the Romance Started: We step back in time to talk about how it all started for us. It was the summer of 1994 when Alisa came to the University of Colorado at Boulder on an internship program. I was a student, cook, and maintenance man around the fraternity house where she ... by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
50 min listen
020 – Shaking Things UP!: Has your marriage fallen into a rut? Do you want to break out of the routines both emotionally and sexually? Join us for the 1st Annual 7 Days of Sex Challenge. Today we talk about the details and how this can be transformational for your marriage. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
56 min listen

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