218 What Fantasies Reveal About Your Mindset – Group Coaching Call

Spiritual But Not Religious? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier: Does your BS meter keep you from having a spiritual life? Are mystical experiences just our brain chemicals fooling us to believe we have a connection with God? And is spirituality something you can cultivate on your own or should you depend on a tra... by The New Man

46 min listen

Is Marriage Killing Your Aliveness? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier: Is marriage a death sentence for the part of you that is wild? Alyson and I dive into the topic of domestication. We explore how responsibilities and structure are necessary, but they don’t have to kill what makes us feel alive and free. https://www. by The New Man

38 min listen

Is it Cheating to Watch Porn? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier: Is watching porn the same as cheating on your partner? Alyson and I try to help someone who is at odds with his partner about porn. Instead of debating who is right or wrong, what if we understood what’s driving us to seek porn in the first place? by The New Man

32 min listen

Is Healing for the Weak? – Jeff Boss (fmr Navy SEAL turned therapist): Navy SEAL Jeff Boss struggled to find his way as a civilian. Self-medicating with booze and women, he believed healing was for the weak -- until he couldn’t take it anymore. Today he helps those who struggle with the demons that plague us all. by The New Man

48 min listen

How to Tell if You’re Soul Mates — Alyson and Tripp Lanier: Do you believe in soul mates or is that just some rom com BS? And what relationship advice would have helped your younger self avoid a huge headache? Tripp and Alyson discuss past relationship failures and what it may really mean to have a soul mate. ... by The New Man

54 min listen

Going to War with Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier: Alyson and Tripp discuss trying to improve ourselves by going to war with ourselves. What really helps us attain the emotional peace we hope that victory will bring? Plus, embarrassing stories about Tripp's many blind spots. https://www. by The New Man

44 min listen

Less Information. More Taking Action. — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier: Do you have an amazing collection of books but suck at taking action? Today’s call is with a personal growth junkie. He can easily spend hours pouring through books and podcasts, but when it comes to taking action it’s like pulling teeth. by The New Man

49 min listen

Commitment Issues: What Would Make You Excited to Commit? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier: Commitment Issues: What would make you excited to commit to a relationship? In today’s coffee date, Alyson and Tripp Lanier talk about radical honesty early on and why being out of alignment on the big stuff dooms us to struggle with the small stuff. ... by The New Man

50 min listen

Getting Your Partner to Change — Alyson and Tripp Lanier: Do you wish you could change something about your partner? Alyson and I flounder through a conversation about commitment, refusing to be the bad guy, and why it’s so important to keep your side of the street clean. https://www.thenewmanpodcast. by The New Man

48 min listen

What’s Wrong with Meditation? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier: Is meditation just a way to escape the discomfort and uncertainty of life? Today my wife Alyson talk about what drew me into decades of spiritual practice. There’s the good and the not so good. So why do I keep doing it after all these years? by The New Man

38 min listen

Making Sense of Science and Spirituality — Alyson and Tripp Lanier: Alyson and Tripp Lanier share a coffee and discuss Tripp’s spiritual path, making sense of science and spirituality, and white guys with dreadlocks. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/12/science-spirituality by The New Man

52 min listen

Needing the Approval of Others — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier: What truly motivates us to be more successful? An emotional call with a guy who has a checkered past plus damage to repair with his family. We start off talking about making money but quickly reveal what’s driving his need for success. https://www. by The New Man

49 min listen

Are You Playing the Wrong Game? — Brian Johnson Areté: Ever feel like you’re playing the wrong game in life? Heroic CEO Brian Johnson on his new book Areté: Activate Your Heroic Potential plus a challenge that nearly sank his business — and millions of dollars — days before the product launch. by The New Man

57 min listen

How to Beat Procrastination — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier: How to Beat Procrastination. Today’s call is with a guy who’s sick of allowing procrastination to get the best of him. He sets tons of goals but doesn’t follow through. We look at his mindset, his excuses, and punch through his resistance. by The New Man

37 min listen

The Workaholic Curse — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier: Do you feel like everything will fall apart if you don’t bust your ass everyday? A workaholic with no life beyond the office and home is tired of the never-ending grind. We challenge his fears so he can free up his time and live more purposefully. by The New Man

47 min listen

Stop Running Away from Your Problems — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier: When today's caller feels challenged he numbs himself with weed or food. This may provide temporary relief but it's making his anxiety and marital problems worse. We discuss his self-sabotage and lay out steps to live with more integrity and peace. by The New Man

49 min listen

Putting Yourself Out There — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier: Are you stuck professionally because you’re afraid to put yourself out there? Today we talk with someone who’s limiting his opportunities because he’s afraid of criticism. We put fear in perspective, find courage, and even have fun taking action. by The New Man

38 min listen

Feeling Like You’re Not Enough — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier: A retired entrepreneur feels like sh*t because he thinks he hasn’t accomplished enough. We explore a future where he’s no longer bullied into proving he’s enough, and he’s finally allowed to create what brings deep satisfaction. https://www. by The New Man

46 min listen

Fighting Resistance and Laziness — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier: Is it okay for someone to do whatever they want with your partner, your kids or home? Today’s coaching call is with a man being pushed around by laziness. I challenge him to fight for his life force the same way he would fight for his family. by The New Man

54 min listen

Rat Racer Mentality: When the Best isn’t Enough — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier: Do you spend more time worrying about the future vs enjoying the present? Do you fear that your success could be snatched away at any moment? This rat racer biz owner never feels like he's done enough. We clarify a success he can actually enjoy. by The New Man

67 min listen

Moving from Anxiety to Confidence — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier: Are you wasting time on the wrong path? An ER surgeon wants to change careers. We identify the limiting beliefs killing his confidence and learn how clarity and integrity provide satisfaction — even if he hasn’t crossed the finish line yet. by The New Man

42 min listen

The Need to Be Legit — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier: On this coaching call, a former client with too many options but not enough time. Luckily, we identify the mindset that’s draining her energy and provide a new way of approaching work so that it doesn’t devour her life or peace of mind. https://www. by The New Man

46 min listen

The Pressure to Succeed — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier: How do you deal with the pressure to succeed? In this call, I talk with a father who feels an immense fear of failure. We take a look at what drives his perfectionism, and find a more playful way to provide. https://www.thenewmanpodcast. by The New Man

46 min listen

From Rumination to Mental Strength – Anson Whitmer (Calm/Mental App): Is Huberman's approach over the top? Why should we never go "full Goggins"? And is there a better way to train our minds than the macho-achiever-bro-approach? Neuroscientist/Founder Anson Whitmer (Calm, Mental apps) walks us through Mental. by The New Man

62 min listen

Imposter Syndrome and Proving Your Value — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier: Is imposter syndrome driving you nuts? In this conversation, we talk with a guy who’s convinced his success will come crashing down if he doesn’t constantly prove he’s legit. We reveal what’s truly driving his exhaustion and an unlikely solution. by The New Man

67 min listen

Coaching Call: Why Goals Are Exhausting You — Tripp Lanier: Is the pursuit of your goals exhausting you? Are you unwilling to relax because something bad will happen? I talk with a high achiever who’s uncertain about where to go next in his business and life. https://www.thenewmanpodcast. by The New Man

63 min listen

Coaching Call: Dealing with Burnout — Tripp Lanier: Are you dealing with burnout? Stuck in a "same sh*t different day" routine? In this coaching call, we see how one man reclaims his fire when he sees through his own BS. Plus, what life lesson can we learn from a six-year-old girl? https://www. by The New Man

49 min listen

Coaching Call: “I’m Stuck and I Don’t Know Where to Go Next” — Tripp Lanier: In this coaching call I talk with a high achiever who doesn’t understand why success isn’t as satisfying as expected. Instead of helping him pursue a life on “easy street”, we visit the place he’s been fighting like hell to avoid. https://www. by The New Man

67 min listen

Coaching Call: Dealing with Marriage Money Drama — Tripp Lanier: Dealing with Marriage Money Drama -- I coach a married guy facing financial challenges. We discover there's something far more toxic poisoning their relationship. We discuss ways to shut down the drama so that both partners can have what they want. by The New Man

61 min listen

Coaching Call: Fear of Failure | Why Is It So Hard to Commit? — Tripp Lanier: Does the fear of failure keep you from making a commitment? And what can the honey badger teach us about getting over ourselves? In today’s coaching call, we explore a strange way to overcome the fear of failure and truly commit to our work. by The New Man

60 min listen

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218 What Fantasies Reveal About Your Mindset – Group Coaching Call

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