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310: How to Reduce Drama With Kids, with Tina Payne Bryson
310: How to Reduce Drama With Kids, with Tina Payne Bryson
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Length:
41 minutes
Released:
Aug 14, 2017
Format:
Podcast episode
Description
Tina Payne Bryson: No Drama Discipline
Tina Payne Bryson is the co-author, with Dan Siegel, of two New York Times bestsellers, The Whole Brain Child* and No Drama Discipline* — each of which has been translated into over twenty languages. She is a psychotherapist and the Executive Director of The Center for Connection in Pasadena, California, where she offers parenting consultations and provides therapy to children and adolescents.
Key Points
Much of what we do in the name of discipline is counter-productive.
The original meaning of the word “discipline” is to teach.
To effectively discipline (to teach kids skills to do better in the future), children have to be in a state of mind in which they can learn.
Consequences can be counter-productive.
If you’re being an effective disciplinarian, you should be disciplining less over time.
“Time-outs” don’t teach kids anything, but taking the time to step away from the situation to talk to your kids does teach.
Resources Mentioned
No-Drama Discipline: The Whole-Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind by Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson*
The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind by Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson*
The Yes Brain: How to Cultivate Courage, Curiosity, and Resilience in Your Child by Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson* (pre-order)
www.tinabryson.com
Book Notes
Download my highlights from No Drama Discipline in PDF format (free membership required).
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Tina Payne Bryson is the co-author, with Dan Siegel, of two New York Times bestsellers, The Whole Brain Child* and No Drama Discipline* — each of which has been translated into over twenty languages. She is a psychotherapist and the Executive Director of The Center for Connection in Pasadena, California, where she offers parenting consultations and provides therapy to children and adolescents.
Key Points
Much of what we do in the name of discipline is counter-productive.
The original meaning of the word “discipline” is to teach.
To effectively discipline (to teach kids skills to do better in the future), children have to be in a state of mind in which they can learn.
Consequences can be counter-productive.
If you’re being an effective disciplinarian, you should be disciplining less over time.
“Time-outs” don’t teach kids anything, but taking the time to step away from the situation to talk to your kids does teach.
Resources Mentioned
No-Drama Discipline: The Whole-Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind by Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson*
The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind by Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson*
The Yes Brain: How to Cultivate Courage, Curiosity, and Resilience in Your Child by Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson* (pre-order)
www.tinabryson.com
Book Notes
Download my highlights from No Drama Discipline in PDF format (free membership required).
Activate Your Free Coaching for Leaders Membership
Get immediate access to my free, 10-day audio course, 10 Ways to Empower the People You Lead. Give me 10 minutes a day for 10 days to get the most immediate, practical actions to become a better leader. Join at CoachingforLeaders.com.
Related Episodes
CFL50: Five Leadership Lessons Learned from Luke
CFL190: How to Improve Your Coaching Skills with Tom Henschel
CFL284: The Way to Stop Rescuing People From Their Problems
Next Episode
Kwame Christian of the Negotiate Anything podcast joins me to field some tough situations that our listeners are navigating.
Thank You
Thank you to Learning Leader and BrieGF for the kind reviews on iTunes. To leave a rating or review, visit http://coachingforleaders.com/itunes
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Aug 14, 2017
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