Was I Your First?: Progression of America's First African-American General Manager for a Major Brand Hotel in USA History
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"Was I Your First?: Progression of America's First African-American General Manager for a Major Brand Hotel in USA History" by Derk R. Mattocks
Derk Mattocks was raised during a peak time of social justice movements in the United States. Rather than shy away, he challenged his circumstances and refused to let t
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Was I Your First? - Derk R. Mattocks
Copyright © 2024 by Derk R. Mattocks.
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Library of Congress Control Number: 2024914504
ISBN: 979-8-89228-206-2 (Paperback)
ISBN: 979-8-89228-205-5 (Hardcover)
ISBN: 979-8-89228-204-8 (eBook)
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Dedication
I dedicate this book, in loving memory, to my mother, Katie Mae Bell, who set the standard for my focus, my drive, and my ability to manage myself on the path I chose with humility, integrity, generosity, and kindness. And, to my daughter Jessica, co-author of this book, who too, like her grandmother, is focused, strong, kind, humble, proud, and smart, who inspired me to write this book.
Acknowledgements
I would like to acknowledge everyone who helped and supported me in writing this book, including some adversaries. My story started under the influence of my mother, Katie Mae Bell Mattocks, who, since before my birth, was my everything. She taught me that God would advance and promote me through his love and appreciation. She would say, Stay calm and in command of yourself, and you will find out just how easy it is to get along, get things done, and grow.
I learned not to accept anything less. My mother’s wisdom tips saturated the frontal lobe of my brain.
My daughter, Jessica (who not only encouraged me to write this book but wrote it with me) for whom, asserted that the whole episode of my past was no less than a piece of American history. She wanted me to unfold the story behind being the first African American Hotel General Manager of a white own major brand hotel.
Aracely, my loving wife of 43 plus years and counting, whose partnership continues to provide me with steadfast support, keeping me balanced and focused while serving as a sounding board of brutal but objective feedback couched in love and admiration.
Adam Mattocks, my first cousin, mentor, and friend, who gave me insight into what life could be like. His mantra Challenging the status quo and changing the course of history requires work. So, the fight continues…,
is what he instilled in me.
Peter Schruender, German-born, senior hotel executive and my mentor, was less influenced by the racial bias directed against Black Americans. Mr. Schruender did not allow his skin color to contaminate his mind with hate, ignorance, and stupidity, as it had done and continues to do to a significant portion of the white population of the U.S.
James L. Wilson has been my number-one friend since we met in Chicago, Ill, in 1967. Jim, now Dr. James L. Wilson, DDS, has practiced dentistry for the last 50 years, and I have sustained the best friend relationship for 55 years. To date, our two-way honest and objective council to each other during those 55 years has supported and kept each other balanced and focused both personally and professionally during turbulent times.
And, of course, I wish to acknowledge that significant portion of the white Jim Crow population
on the white side of town who, with their racist and privileged temperament and a disdain for sharing, motivated me to understand that I didn’t need their validation.
So, my mother’s wisdom on self-motivation engaged me to plow ahead, taking on that government-supported open and stealth-structured racist system with an open mind and strategies for my life’s success.
Those privileged attitudes and behaviors became my Petri dish, enabling me to study and practice many of my mother’s wisdom nuggets, stay calm and in command of self, and you will find out just how easy it is to get along, get things done, and grow.
I continued striving to live my life, minimizing judgment, anger, hate, and stress, but never foregoing my focus, even though the pain was unbearable at times. Fortunately, during the process, I was able to convert some privileged souls into friends, allies, and at times, accomplices. While many experiences still haunt me and make my stomach churn, my life of hope, happiness, and success have proven worthy of my mother’s council.
About the Author
img_1.jpgDerk Mattocks, a veteran, corporate executive, government executive, college professor, and entrepreneur, is the author of Was I Your First? The Progression of America’s First African American Hotel General Manager of an all-white-owned hotel, on the white side of town, in the United States of America.
Derk started his hotel management career in the late 60s, which lasted for 16 years. He then took on an assignment with a Department of Defense (DOD) agency working for the U.S. Army Community and Family Support Center (USACFSC) for 25 years.
He retired, reinvented himself, and joined Prince George’s community college as an adjunct professor, where he taught for almost a decade. Again, Derk reinvented himself and started his business, Turning Point Coaching, LLC, where he earned certifications in Business, Executive, and Life Coaching, serving the government, non-profits, and the private sector.
Derk’s education includes two postgraduate degrees (MBA & MSc. Mgt.) from the University of Maryland University College, College Park, MD, and a Bachelor of Science in Organizational Management from Nyack College, Nyack, New York. He is a United States Army Sustaining Base Leadership Management program (SBLM) graduate from the U.S. Army Management Staff College, Fort Belvoir, VA.
Derk credits his achievements to his ability to stay focused and performance-driven while being strong, kind, humble, and proud, all wrapped in God’s blessings.
Preface
Derk R. Mattocks was born in the United States, a country plagued with racism. He overcame many challenges throughout his life, facing them head- on rather than running away. His upbringing had some challenges in a society of bigotry. Those challenging experiences were tempered in a local community that showed love through actions. Rest assured, in this community, there were no participation trophies, no accolades for a job left half-completed, and there were consequences for bad behavior.
Derk attributes his accomplishments in life to his mother, schooling in Belgrade Elementary, Silverdale Elementary, Georgetown High, and the community he grew up in. He recalls that all-black sequential and progressive developmental environment for what it was, where people cared about youths, and the youths respected their elders as well. The adults looked out for the youths, helping them when they needed help and leaving them be when they knew the youths needed to figure things out on their own. It was certainly tough, but it built character.
Even though racism, leftover from the immoral stain of slavery, permeated Derk’s environment from birth through maturity, he decided that he was not going to let that hold him back. He persevered in his struggles, found mentors, allies, and even accomplices, and excelled in the hospitality industry, where a person of color at top levels of management was previously unimaginable.
Read and find out the life lessons, hard-earned accolades, and principles he employed to push past his comfort zone and win at life.
Contents
Dedication
Acknowledgements
About the Author
Preface
Chapter 1 Introduction
Chapter 2 Impressionable Years
Chapter 3 First African American Hotel General Manager
Chapter 4 U.S. Army Community and Family Support Center
Chapter 5 U.S. Army Community and Family Support Center
Chapter 6 Prince George’s Community College
Chapter 7 Turning Point Coaching, LLC
Chapter 8 Formal Education, Training, and Professional Development
Chapter 1
Introduction
In an effort to frame and capture the essence and significance of my hotel management career experience and the journey that followed, it was necessary that I gain some insight into other African American hospitality experiences that had gone on before me.
Insights gained pointed to African American greats in the hospitality industry during the late 18th century and early 19th century who displayed the highest level of confidence, competence, and courage during turbulent times. Unfortunately, none of these hotel owners were ever given the opportunity to manage an operation in a white-owned hotel establishment. However, they, one after another, were consistently performance-driven and outcome-focused on the colored side of town. So, with the greatest humility and admiration, I pay homage to each of them.
In those times, discrimination and segregation were common and expected throughout the United States of America. Travelers of color were deprived of basic decency and services. Constantly, Blacks were subjected to the inconvenience and degradation of being denied access to services and businesses. And to make matters worse, the possibility of bigoted violence, including lynching, was left open. The landscape of this country was dotted with ‘sundown villages’ where the presence of people of color was prohibited after dark. African American car travelers would carry blankets and pillows, extra food, drinks, and gasoline, as well as portable toilets due to the unpredictability of available lodging, food, and fuel.
As an African American, reading about Victor Hugo Green (November 9, 1892 – October 16, 1964) helped me comprehend, frame, and put my 16 years of hotel management experience (1968–1984) into context. Being the first African American hotel general manager for a global hotel company was part of that experience.
African American male worker Victor Hugo Green, a travel writer from Harlem, New York City, was best known for his writing and developing skills. The Green Book, a renowned and historic travel guide for African Americans in the United States, was written by him. Blacks required a guidebook to help them integrate black-friendly businesses because of the racist conditions caused by segregation. During the era of Jim Crow legislation and racial segregation in the US, Green astutely examined hotels and restaurants that catered to African Americans. The Green Book, also known as The Negro Motorist Green Book, The Negro Travelers’ Green Book, or The Travelers’ Green Book, is a travel guide that was published in the United States between the years of 1936 and 1967 while legal segregation was still in effect. It listed companies that welcomed African Americans as clients. Before the Civil Rights Act of 1964, the Green Book provided a comprehensive catalog of establishments required to ensure that African Americans could travel comfortably and safely. These establishments ranged from restaurants and hotels to beauty parlors and pharmacies. I, a black man, was hired into an exclusively white-owned hospitality (hotel) management industry only four years later, in 1968, shattering decades of racial barriers supported by the government, society, and governmental sanctions.
