Religious Sensibilities in Pursuit of Sexual Well-Being: African Diasporic Communities in the Netherlands
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The self-identifying Ghanaian-Dutch and Somali-Dutch communities residing in the Randstad area of the Netherlands are deeply impacted by religious beliefs and cultural factors in their approach towards sexual health practices, well-being and pleasure. This book shows how religious sensibilities shape the physical activities, beauty practices, and gendered roles that are adopted into the daily lives of these communities in pursuit of their sexual and general well-being. Through an ethnographic account, it explores and challenges the assumptions held around the complex relationship between religion and sexuality.
Amisah Zenabu Bakuri
Amisah Zenabu Bakuri is a research associate at the Faculty of Religion and Theology, Beliefs and Practices, Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam. Before this, she worked as a Postdoctoral fellow at the Dalla Lana School of Public Health, University of Toronto.
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Religious Sensibilities in Pursuit of Sexual Well-Being - Amisah Zenabu Bakuri
RELIGIOUS SENSIBILITIES IN PURSUIT OF SEXUAL WELL-BEING
Fertility, Reproduction and Sexuality
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Soraya Tremayne, Founding Director, Fertility and Reproduction Studies Group and Research Affiliate, Institute of Social and Cultural Anthropology, University of Oxford.
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Philip Kreager, Director, Fertility and Reproduction Studies Group, and Research Affiliate, Institute of Social and Cultural Anthropology and Institute of Human Sciences, University of Oxford
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RELIGIOUS SENSIBILITIES IN PURSUIT OF SEXUAL WELL-BEING
AFRICAN DIASPORIC COMMUNITIES IN THE NETHERLANDS
Amisah Zenabu Bakuri
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Names: Bakuri, Amisah Zenabu, author.
Title: Religious sensibilities in pursuit of sexual well-being : African diasporic communities in the Netherlands / Amisah Zenabu Bakuri.
Other titles: Fertility, reproduction, and sexuality ; 55.
Description: New York : Berghahn Books, 2024. | Series: Fertility, reproduction and sexuality: social and cultural perspectives; 55 | This work was funded by the Dutch Organization for Scientific Research (NWO) under Grant 360-25-160.
| Includes bibliographical references and index.
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Subjects: LCSH: Sex--Netherlands--Religious aspects. | Sex role--Netherlands--Religious aspects. | Well-being--Netherlands--Religious aspects. | Ghanaians--Sexual behavior--Netherlands. | Somalis--Sexual behavior--Netherlands. | Ghanaians--Religion. | Somalis--Religion.
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To Daniel Antwi-Berko
—For love, laughter and care
And to our 3D’s:
Daniel Laurence Antwi-Berko
Dora Maria Antwi-Berko
Dromo Amisah Antwi-Berko
—To many adventures together
CONTENTS
Acknowledgements
List of Abbreviations
Introduction. Stereotypical Representations: Religion and Cultural Encounters in the Netherlands
Chapter 1. Researching Religion and Sexuality among Ghanaian-Dutch and Somali-Dutch in the Netherlands
Chapter 2. The Biopolitics of Physical Activities, Sexuality and Health
Chapter 3. Practices of Beautification: People’s Gendered Sense of the Self and Belonging
Chapter 4. ‘We Will Do What Works Best for Us’: Redefining Masculinities within the Domestic Space
Chapter 5. Piety and Pleasure in the Cultivation of One’s Religious Self and Sexuality
Conclusion. Rethinking Religion in the Context of Sexual Well-Being
References
Index
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
This acknowledgement is intended to name the people who have contributed to this work in various ways. I admit that it will be challenging and perhaps impossible to name everyone.
At the top of the list of people who have made this book a reality are the men and women whose stories and life trajectories form the foundation of this book (i.e. the research participants). As I promised them anonymity, I can only thank all the study participants from the Ghanaian-Dutch and Somali-Dutch communities I met during my fieldwork. I encountered supportive, friendly and courageous people. Although I met some people only once during interviews or conversations, their stories have stuck with me until today. Others opened their homes and families to me; some became friends and family and made me feel at home in the Netherlands. Profound thanks also go to the leadership of CMI Amsterdam, particularly Pastor Elias Agyemang, Mama Doris Appiah-Asante, Mama Emelia, Mama Barbara, Mama Victoria, Mama Mary, Sister Doris Manu, and all the congregants at CMI.
I am incredibly grateful to my academic teachers and supervisors for their time and support. Rachel Spronk is a supportive, thoughtful and friendly supervisor. Throughout the years that I worked with her, she devoted her time and energy to helping me refine my arguments. Her scholarly insights, friendly relationship, careful attention when reading my drafts, and her critical mind have inspired and guided me through the uphill process of writing the book. Rachel, thank you for all the times you spent reviewing my drafts together with me, making time for those little but necessary conversations, the dinners and lunches, and, at the most critical moments, providing me with those uplifting conversations when I needed them. Rijk van Dijk has been an unceasing source of intellectual inspiration and academic know-how and always asked questions that challenged and encouraged me at the same time. I will forever be grateful for his valuable comments that helped me to refine the arguments of this book. I also appreciate the many informal conversations we had travelling together to Groningen. Medase paa Rijk!
I am most grateful to the NWO RELISEX team, Kim Knibbe, Brenda Bartelink and Jelle Wiering. I learned so much from you and enjoyed our reading groups, meetings, conferences, travels, lunches and dinners. I appreciate all the feedback you provided for my drafts and your support throughout the research for this book and even beyond it.
My gratitude goes to Eileen Moyer and the Becoming Men group. I am deeply grateful for the reading and writing seminars. I thank you and the Becoming Men team (Gavaza Maluleke, Jeroen Lorist, David Bukusi, Lucy Mugala, Sarita Fae, Katlego Disemelo, Carolyne Egesa, Jasmine Shio, Linda Musariri, Emmy Kageha and Wasike Chris) for all the love and support.
For their careful reading, excellent comments and questions on this book, my gratitude goes to Eileen Moyer, Kristine Krause, Trudie Gerrits, Jasmijn Rana, Mulki Al-Sharmani, Apostolos Andrikopolous, Gavaza Maluleke and my sisters in the ‘write that thesis group’. I am grateful to you all. I thank the anonymous reviewers of this book for their helpful feedback and suggestions.
While researching and writing this book, I was privileged to work with and meet inspiring minds at the Anthropology Department, Amsterdam Institute of Social Science Research (AISSR) at the University of Amsterdam. There are too many to mention here, but I would especially like to thank Annerienke Fioole, Leo Douw, Dina Zbeidy, Julie McBrien, Peter Miller, Shahana Siddiqui, Tara Asgarilaleh, Chia-Shuo Tang, Vita Febriary, Thijs Schut, Jordi Halfman, Retna Hanani, Kevin Singh, Uros Kovac, Mark Hann, Arsenii Alenichev and the members of Rachel Spronk’s VIDI reading group in which I participated – Apostolos Andrikopolous, Dilys Amoabeng, Peter Miller, Janine Häbel, Loes Oudenhuijsen, Annerienke Fioole, Lieve de Connick, Iris Kolman, Carole Ammann and Karlien Strijbosch – thank you for your intellectual support and friendship.
My special gratitude also goes to all those involved in the functioning of the Anthropology Department, especially Muriel Kiesel and Danny van der Poel, as well as the staff of the AISSR bureau, including Janus Oomen, for ensuring a vibrant and stimulating environment and supporting me throughout my research for this book.
Whilst finalising this book, I worked at the Faculty of Religion and Theology at Vrije Universiteit, Amsterdam and met many colleagues who have supported and encouraged me. Miranda Klaver, Samuel Lee, Jessica Roitmans and Mariecke van den Berg deserve a special mention. Thank you all.
I am eternally grateful to all my friends, particularly Colette Santa, Yvette Ruzibiza, Carolyne Egesa, Jasmine Shio, Linda Musariri and Dilys Amoabeng, for their encouragement, thoughtfulness, support, sensitivity and care. Your dynamic and positive presence in the office and beyond (often accompanied by culinary delights, gifts and discussions) has always brightened my days. I thank you all for our friendship.
Among my family, I am deeply indebted to my father, Alidu Alhassan Bakuri, of blessed memory for all the love and for believing in me. I am super grateful to my mother, Maria Amankwa Mumuni, who has helped and supported me throughout my education regarding finances, prayers, encouragement and moral support. Mama, God bless you for everything. I thank my mother-in-law, Dora Dadebo, for all the support and love. Thank you Kennedy Bakuri (my little brother) for genuinely being interested in my academic pursuits and running several errands for me.
To my husband, Daniel Antwi-Berko, the man who always sees in me my potential, I appreciate everything. You promised to create an environment for me to pursue my well-being with ease and you have constantly delivered on that promise. You read the draft of this book with your critical eye and meticulous attention to detail and precision. Daniel, I am also grateful for the conversations about my ideas and for having ears to just listen to my numerous stories and complaints. I cannot thank you enough for your confidence in my ability, your continued support, and for your generosity, patience, humour and intellectual companionship, I am grateful.
To our children, Daniel Laurence Antwi-Berko, Dora Maria Antwi-Berko and Dromo Amisah Antwi-Berko, your presence and love prompted me to remember every day that there is more to life. Thank you, my 3D’s, for giving me reasons to write this book.
To God be the glory for the great things he has done for me. God, thank you for your grace and mercies.
Note
This work was funded by the Dutch Organization for Scientific Research (NWO) under Grant 360-25-160.
ABBREVIATIONS
Introduction
STEREOTYPICAL REPRESENTATIONS
RELIGION AND CULTURAL ENCOUNTERS IN THE NETHERLANDS
On the late evening of 17 June 2016, I went to an Ethiopian restaurant in Amsterdam West to meet with Eden, an Ethiopian-born Amsterdam resident, regarding data collection for this study. I was referred to her by a mutual friend, with whom I had shared some of the struggles I had encountered from the early days of my fieldwork. One of the major struggles was identifying locations to select mainly persons with a Somali background. In my friend’s bid to assist me in identifying the hangouts of Somali-Dutch people, she had recommended that Eden would be resourceful to me.
At the restaurant, while we waited for our food and sipped on our little cup of tea, Eden asked me, ‘So what is your study about?’ I answered that I was working on a research project that focused on Ghanaian-Dutch and Somali-Dutch residents in the Netherlands. ‘Are you a Ghanaian?’ she asked. I responded in the affirmative. ‘You know where to find Ghanaians, right? Many of them live in Bijlmer, and as a Ghanaian, it should not be difficult. They have several churches and shops there. But why Somalis?’ she added. Before I could respond, Eden continued, ‘why will you want to research Somalis? You are in for a huge challenge’. The series of questions and insinuations scared me because I had already encountered some major challenges since the onset of my fieldwork and was looking for ways to address them.
Eden asked me more about the subject I was focusing on. I then told her that my focus was on religion, health and gender. During our conversation, she remarked that ‘Somali men are lazy, and some are drunks, and they spend all their time-consuming alcohol or chewing khat.¹ In fact, many of them have neglected their religion. Men from Somalia burden their women… you know what, because of religion, their women are compelled to be submissive… they suffer a lot in marriage and take care of their children alone. It’s such a pity’. At this point, I began to wonder where Eden had acquired all her information on Somali-Dutch men and women. Later, I understood that Eden personally had very little interaction with Somali-Dutch people and most of her comments were borne out of assumptions from rumours and hearsay. She demonstrated little knowledge about Somali culture and the Islamic religion she had referred to during our conversation. This notwithstanding, Eden proved to be resourceful as she provided me with a list of places where I could potentially meet Somali-Dutch people in Amsterdam. Most of the locations she provided were places she had never been.
Eden’s comments in the vignette above highlight some of the major stereotypical representations of ethnic minority communities regarding issues of religion, gender and sexuality in the Netherlands. While I struggled to understand why such representations of Somali-Dutch were common even among other people I interacted with during my fieldwork, I also observed that media representations of ethnic minorities in the Netherlands were often negative. Like Eden’s comments, these media representations project women, mostly Muslims from minority ethnic groups, as the primary victims of religion. Indeed, several research works on representations of Muslim women in different European countries have often portrayed them as oppressed and pitiable (Salad et al., 2015; Shadid and van Koningsveld, 2005; van Es, 2019; Vintges, 2012).²
Religion is portrayed as the main driving factor making women submissive and controlled mainly by men. Paradoxically, Eden’s comment that ‘many of them (men) have neglected their religion’ and ‘men from Somalia put the burden on their women’ appeared to suggest that it was the men’s neglect of religion which created these behaviours among Somali-Dutch men. However, her comments also seemed to suggest that religion could help to re-orient men on how to behave towards women. Thus, by implication, the men are not helpful and supportive to their women because they have neglected religion.
This study is not intended to be a general discussion about stereotypes and misrepresentations of minority ethnic groups in the context of the Netherlands. Although certain representations of minority ethnic groups are prominent in the Netherlands, I show instead how religion is not static and its influences on people’s practices are rarely straightforward. There is a lot to learn about the practices of minority ethnic groups regarding issues of gender, sexuality and religion. I show how the lived experiences of research participants in the pursuit of their well-being also particularly respond to dominant representations and stereotypes. In this light, this study takes participants’ life stories as an analytical point of departure to illustrate the complexities of the ways religious lifestyles are gendered and intersect with how people experience and navigate their sexuality. The study shows how the everyday lives and decisions of participants on sexuality and health are shaped by, on the one hand, cultural-historical religious notions/sensibilities, and on the other, by the structures that have emerged from polarised debates around these themes in the Netherlands.
This research focused on two sub-Saharan African diasporic communities in the Netherlands: Ghanaian-Dutch and Somali-Dutch. Among both the Ghanaian-Dutch and the Somali-Dutch communities in the Netherlands, religion remains central to their way of living (Dietz et al., 2011; Frederiks, 2010; Frederiks and Grodź, 2014; Open Society Foundation, 2014; van Dijk, 2004a; van Liempt, 2011). Thus, people with Ghanaian and Somali backgrounds are often regarded as religious because they belong to many religious groupings (Al-Sharmani, 2015; Bakuri et al., 2020; Egeh et al., 2019; Grodź and Smith, 2014; Mensah, 2009; van Dijk, 2002a). While people could be religious, being part of a religious group does not mean they respond only to spiritual dimensions in the pursuit of their well-being. Many also draw on pragmatic reasons which include identity formation, economic coping strategies, community participation and welfare (Ebaugh and Hagan, 2003; Hunt, 2002; Nakonz and Shik, 2009; van Dijk, 1997).
Historically and in contemporary contexts, religious institutions in the context of the African diasporic communities in the Netherlands play an important role in providing health and social protection services for many people. It is often assumed that religion mainly influence the African diasporic communities in the Netherlands approaches to issues of gender and sexuality (Egeh et al., 2019; Salad et al., 2015). As a result, there is increasing discussion about the role of religion among minority ethnic groups in matters of gender and sexuality in the Netherlands (Knibbe, 2018; Sunier, 2010; van Dijk, 2002a; van Es, 2016). For instance, research on Pentecostal healing reveals how discourses of many Dutch people appear critical and distrusting about the entanglements of cultural and religious practices (Knibbe, 2018). This often leads to critique and dissuasion of religious practices, especially relating to concerns about the impact of religious views within minority ethnic groups in the Netherlands vis-a-vis the promotion of anti-gay views (Knibbe, 2011; Knibbe and Bartelink, 2019) and the promotion of female genital circumcision (Gele et al., 2012; Vloeberghs et al., 2011; Exterkate 2013). Also, regarding Islam, matters such as the wearing of headscarves and the treatment of women are often public and media concerns (Mepschen, 2016; Bracke, 2012; Ünal and Moors, 2012; Sandıkçı and Ger, 2005; Gökarıksel and Secor, 2009; Moors and Tarlo, 2013). Although the emphasis has been on Islam, public discourses on Christians from minority ethnic-religious communities are not left out in such debates, representations and discussions. Generally, women of African backgrounds in the Netherlands tend to become topics of discussion as victims of sex trafficking, female circumcision and alleged abuse concerns within churches (Knibbe and Bartelink, 2019; van Dijk, 2001; Vloeberghs et al., 2011).
Concerns about religion and its implications for gender and sexuality issues have to be understood within the historical and cultural context of these minority ethnic groups, particularly with regard to the development of secular progressivism in the Netherlands (Schuh et al., 2012). Discourse on secular progressivism in the Netherlands drastically polarises positions between liberal and conservative ideas. Commonly, the secular is considered tolerant and progressive, in sharp contrast to the religious, which is portrayed as conservative and perhaps not progressive or slow to accept progress (Knibbe and Bartelink, 2019; Wiering, 2020). Progressive, liberal positions emulate and relate to ideologies from the 1960s and 1970s, advocated for sexual freedom, and were consolidated by projecting themselves in opposition to religion, Islam and Christianity (Knibbe, 2018; Rana, 2017; Roodsaz, 2018).
Public discourse repeatedly projects mainstream Protestant and Roman Catholic groups as fragments of a largely vanished Christianity, foregrounding their conservative positions on issues such as abortion, same-sex marriage and women’s political leadership as non-progressive (Exalto and Bertram-Troost, 2019; Knibbe and Bartelink, 2019; Schrijvers and Wiering, 2018). Thus, some Christian and Muslim practices are often portrayed as outdated and even dangerous to progressive secular liberalism. Their practices come under even greater scrutiny and rejection in the Dutch public and political discourse, to the extent that they are portrayed as a stumbling block to their integration as full Dutch citizens (Balkenhol, Mepschen and Duyvendak, 2016). As a result, the relationship between religion and sexuality continues to be an ongoing debate in the Netherlands, focused on particular cultural matters and rooted in political questions.
The dominant Dutch approach to sexual health programmes that focus on religious organisations has moral contestations and tends to transfer public health knowledge, while implicitly pitting science against belief (Bartelink, 2016). The approach to gender and sexuality in the Netherlands is set as the ideal standard compared to that of the minority ethnic groups who need to be brought up to date in order to fully belong to Dutch society (Butler, 2008; Scott, 2009; Verkaaik and Spronk, 2011). The dominant representation of the Dutch society as a secular progressive nation implies and fosters the idea of the absence and/or privatisation of religious influence on people’s lives, particularly on their gender and sexuality.³ In this dominant discourse, most religious people in the Netherlands run the risk of being portrayed as intolerant, suppressive, violent and aggressive, particularly to women, and naïve about sexuality issues (Morey and Yaqin, 2011; Rana, 2017; van Es, 2016).
These assumptions about religious communities on gender and sexuality are often (re)produced through heated debates about the role of religion in Dutch society (Knibbe and Bartelink, 2019). The debate on multiculturalism in the Netherlands has specifically been focused on religion and its importance. Bracke and Fadil (2012) argue that debates about cultural differences are linked to belonging and national identity issues. Multicultural debates in Europe show how multiculturalism is seen as problematic when migration and questions of integration, cultural identity, Islam and secularism are brought together. For the Netherlands, debates on multiculturalism have led to the formation of a particular sexual nationalism (Bracke, 2012; Bracke and Fadil, 2012; Mepschen et al., 2010; Scott, 2009). The dominant discourse about being a modern and progressive nation is closely tied to an ideal of liberal values about sexuality, against supposedly backward and primarily Muslim migrants.⁴
Due to this understanding of religion, people with a religious background are often viewed with suspicion regarding issues of gender and sexuality (Knibbe, 2018; Wiering, 2020). Because of this, I look at how and when religion influences gender and sexuality practices and approaches in the daily lives of ethnic minorities. It is crucial for research to go beyond the assumption that ‘being religious’ automatically implies that religion is the only source of influence or resource for people to address their life issues.
In the following section, I present brief notes on migration, religion and the ways in which people are ‘othered’ in the Netherlands. I also draw on the relevant literature about the anthropology of Islam and Christianity, to show how religion influences people’s sense of being and their practices, thus showing the complexity of lived religion regarding the themes of gender and sexuality. I also present short notes on the methodologies employed in data gathering for this book.
Secularised Dutch Identity – Migrantisation and Racialisation in the Netherlands
The Netherlands is historically a society characterised by migration (Lucassen and Penninx, 1997; Zorlu and Hartog, 2001). The transnational migration since the 1970s has given rise to a discourse on differentiating between citizens who are ‘native Dutch’ (autochthony) and others who are ‘non-native Dutch’ (allochthony) (Geschiere, 2009).⁵ In the Netherlands, the terms allochthonous (‘from foreign soil’) and autochthonous (‘from this soil’) have been mostly used in categorising residents and citizens since the 1990s. Efforts to form an idealised notion of Dutch identity, and the use of the terms allochthonous and autochthonous, have resulted in the creation of stigmas and stereotypes about an ‘Other’ in relation to migrants. Migrants are people with certain political, social and economic backgrounds. This leads to ‘migrantisation’ which involves setting up and/or keeping power relationships and exclusionary dynamics within a nation state.
These developments led the Dutch government in November 2016 to decide not to use these terms anymore (Rana, 2017). The government has shifted to the use of ethnic backgrounds and so citizens are now categorised as ‘having a migration background’, for example stated explicitly as ‘having a Moroccan background’ or a ‘Turkish background’ (Rana, 2017: 25). As discussed by de Koning and Ruijtenberg (2019: 4), ‘in everyday conversations and public debates, others
are readily named in ethnic terms, for instance as Moroccans
or Surinamese
, while the white Dutch subject functions as a silent, implicit norm, which may become explicit in references to ordinary Dutch
’. However, this has also led to increasing attention to religious belongings and has not changed the Othering of certain citizens.
In addition to the othering of minority ethnic groups in the Netherlands, public debate and integration policies continue to scrutinise people when it comes to issues of race, resulting in the moralisation and culturalisation of citizenship and belonging. Many scholars have argued that citizenship is moralised in this context (van Houdt et al., 2011) and culturalised (Tonkens and Duyvendak 2016), i.e. the cultural and moral dimensions of citizenship become more pronounced than legal nationality. The cultural and moral citizenship agenda is explicitly aimed at the non-native Dutch, persuading them to accept what are described as Dutch cultural values fully (de Koning, Jaffe and Koster 2015; de Koning and Ruijtenberg 2019). It influences the racialisation of Dutchness, which is expressed in contrast to a group of non-white migrants often portrayed as Others. Minority ethnic groups are Othered in multiple ways through categorisations of ethnicity, religion and race.
Some activists have continued to champion discussions about race and racism in the Netherlands, thereby placing issues of racial inequality on the agenda. The efforts of these activists have been strengthened by findings from studies that show widespread discrimination in the areas of education (Gemeente Amsterdam, 2007), employment (Andriessen et al., 2012; van den Berg, van Witteloostuijn and van der Brempt, 2017) and policing (Leun and Woude, 2011). For these reasons, people turn to distinguish between white Dutch and non-white Dutch as a way of showing the racialisation of Dutchness. Such forms of Othering in the Netherlands become a process to produce particular citizens, characterised by increased monitoring of migrants and their way of life.
This has been described by Dahinden and Manser-Egli (2023) as gendernativism: a gendered and racialised form of xenophobia that mobilises the notion that states should be inhabited exclusively by members of the native group and that non-native persons and their ideas are fundamentally threatening. Gendernativism constructs the ‘Other’ as the opposite of the free, progressive, gender-equal, liberal citizen. I do not reject the possibility of oppression associated