The Art of Toughness

By John Danen

The art of toughness is the art of staying cold and hard when you flirt with a girl and after flirting with her. Thanks to this art you will make her fall in love with you and not the other way around, you will attract and fascinate her, you will no longer suffer for love, you will be valued and coveted. You will be valued and coveted, you will be a bad ass.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Jonh Danen
• Release date: Aug 6, 2022
• ISBN: 9798201521240

John Danen

Me considero un hedonista. Disfrutar ha sido siempre mi meta. También me considero un cachondo mental. Licenciado en ciencias empresariales con formación en coaching, pnl, habilidades sociales, crecimiento personal, técnicas de visualización, liderazgo, seducción. Puedo decir qué he dedicado prácticamente toda mi vida a la seducción, la cual ha sido mi gran pasión. He plasmado en estos libros todos los conocimientos fruto de mis experiencias. Espero y deseo que os sirvan cómo inspiración y guía para todos vosotros.

Book preview

Introduction.

Iam writing this book because I realize that despite having written a lot about it, there is no book that guides you and deals with all about toughness. I have talked about it a lot in practically all my previous books. Now I want to create this book and have it serve as a manual of behavior once you have managed to pick up a girl. The act of picking up a girl is only half of it, once you have picked her up you have to deal with her. This is the part where the problems arise, where you are alone because no one prepared you for it.

Because of this lack of preparation, you are confronted without knowledge or weapons to experts in manipulation and you fall into their trap. We men have been socially manipulated to show softness and to have a pleasing character, that is why many times unintentionally, subconsciously, we end up putting them as prizes without realizing it. This is an absolute mistake and it pays dearly.

I hope that through this book you will be able to brutally increase your toughness to harden and fascinate the girls you pick up. This will allow you to dominate yourself and not be manipulated or softened.

If you don't practice this art they will completely destroy you and you will be their unhappy slave, or worse, you will end up getting into relationships that maybe you didn't even want to be totally manipulated by them and they will do whatever they want with you.

In order to be really tough you have to know the softness well. Those who have suffered the devastating effects of softness, who have become so strong and so tough that they have also reached super high because of it, know what they are talking about.

Toughness and extreme and merciless toughness are not good either. We have to practice toughness in the right measure.

Part 1. Toughness

The soft ones of the antiquity. The medieval knights.

If there is any human group that throughout history has stood out especially for its toughness, it is undoubtedly the medieval knights.

Not all of them of course, but a great part of them yes. They fell into an exaltation of a ridiculous love, which led them astray. Courtly love.

They were in the habit of extolling their sweetheart, who was a woman who often did not even know them, or who had only seen them and had not even spoken to them. This lady whom they wanted was courted in a very strange way, flaunting their masculinity, courage and bravery, challenging to a duel anyone who did not praise their beloved. Many times they would stand on a bridge and would not let anyone pass if they did not recognize the enormous beauty of their beloved. With this they pretended that her deeds would reach their ears and that in this way she would be conquered. This is the strangest way to conquer that ever existed. It is as if to get a girl you went to war. Then others would tell her about your deeds and seeing how brave you are, she would fall for you. Well, as incredible as it may seem, this happened.

To transmit well the deeds and duels of these men were the medieval troubadours who were their spokesmen. They sang in the courts of the great marvel that the lady was supposed to be and the great deeds that the knight did. They also preached a chaste and pure love, rejecting carnal love. This chaste love was what the knight intended without thinking of anything else. There were several states regarding the relationship between the knight and his lady. The classification is as follows:

Fenhedor. The one who has not manifested his feelings for the lady.

Pregador. The one who has manifested them.

Understander. The lady smiled at him or gave him garments. With this the man was very excited, ready to kill anyone.

Drutz. The one who has culminated the relationship with an intimate contact. Another thing is what this meant, it could be a mere physical contact, such as rubbing his hand or a complete fuck. The normal thing was, considering the idealization of love, to spend the night together without touching.

Assag. Those who sleep together but with a sword between them.

In general the medieval knight practicing courtly love sought chivalry, courtship and above all idyllic love without physical contact, total chastity. So these last two were less used. The ideal was to die for love in some duel for his beloved.

Have you ever seen anything more absurd, sillier and more ridiculous than this? Well, this is what happened.

Courtly love is a literary concept that emerged in medieval Europe that expressed in a chivalrous way, comparable to the relationship of vassalage between master and servant, the relationship between the lover and his beloved. Generally this love was secret, because courtly love was an impossible love. This love was produced in the mind of the knight and almost never materialized in reality. These fools were already happy and did not aspire to fuck, kiss or anything else. This courtly love had its heyday in the 13th century when numerous troubadours sang love songs throughout the Christian kingdoms of Europe.

These troubadours had such curious names as Marcabrú, Bernard de Ventadorn, or even King Alfonso the chaste composed such poems.

It is the love of Don Quixote for Dulcinea.

In short, a folly of colossal proportions. And this folly has remained there in the collective memory as something purely good and praiseworthy. This has influenced society and permeated minds many centuries later, dumbing men down and putting them on pedestals. It was because of these imbeciles that women believed it. It was because of them that gallantry, politeness and all expressions of men's vassalage to women appeared. What a favor they did us!

Not all of them were like that, the first one a man named William IX of Aquitaine, (1071-1126) was an old time fucker who was called the carver of maidens. This first troubadour, emerged in Occitania in the south of France. The first troubadour was not the one to blame for all the gallantry bullshit, for he was a fucker. It was the following ones who did not follow his example well and began to praise the ladies. This first troubadour was a funny womanizer and fucker. How things changed with his successors! This did not begin as we thought.

William IX's compositions were erotic and carnal in tone. They were successful, were made known and thus spread the troubadour poems and songs. They were humorous and erotic. His granddaughter Leonor of Aquitaine was the most important diffuser of the movement together with Mary of France.

Soon appeared Marcabrú another troubadour of the time who said that women were the main source of evil and the instigator of widespread adultery at court.

So at first it was a fantastic movement of fun-loving, misogynistic fuckers, but it gradually changed to chaste. There must have been a very foolish fool who was the first to praise them.

These first ones did not praise them at all. I am finding the search for this first soft-hearted troubadour very difficult, after much research I have not yet been able