Angel on the Inside
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is a memoir illuminating the unlikely places where we find mentors from whom we learn
our most valuable lessons.
From white privilege to prison, it is only through incarceration that Shinagel is gifted her
freedom. In solitary confinement she is alone and invisible; in D Block she is scared and
vulnerable; in C Block she is curious and willing; in minimum she is still scared; she finds
hope; she learns to trust; she begins to understand; and finally she finds freedom.
Victoria Shinagel
Victoria Shinagel was 51 years old when a dramatic turn of events altered the course of her life. Born in Cambridge Massachusetts, in the heart of Harvard Square to academic parents, She had all the intellectual opportunities at her hand. Educated at the University of Vermont and Harvard University she excelled in physical achievements as a marathon runner, body builder, Black belt in Tae Kwon Do, and competitive down hill ski racer, these accomplishments are not what made her. Her career as an executive in the furniture industry in Asia and the U.S was a turning point for women in business. Only a six by nine foot cell of cinder block and concrete could do for her what her privileged life could not.
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Angel on the Inside - Victoria Shinagel
Copyright © 2021 by Victoria Shinagel.
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted
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Certain stock imagery © Getty Images.
The drawings found in the book were drawn by the author herself during her
time in prison.
Rev. date: 06/14/2021
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This memoir is
dedicated to all the women on the inside.
CONTENTS
Chapter 1 Inmate 142027
Chapter 2 Six-by-Nine
Chapter 3 D Block
Chapter 4 C Block
Chapter 5 The Menu
Chapter 6 The Yard
Chapter 7 Lockdown
Chapter 8 Excluded
Chapter 9 Minimum
Chapter 10 False Hope
Chapter 11 Taking the Rap
Chapter 12 My GED
Chapter 13 Their GED
Chapter 14 Guilty
Chapter 15 My Angel
Chapter 16 Bend, Stretch, and Cough
Chapter 17 The Librarian
Chapter 18 Brown Plastic Rectangle
Chapter 19 Picasso
Chapter 20 Victory
Chapter 21 Come Together
Chapter 22 The Twelve Days of Christmas
Chapter 23 My Bid Was Up
CHAPTER
1
INMATE 142027
Hey, kid, take these!
Mama D. walked away after handing me a toothbrush, a bar of soap, and a carefully folded brown paper towel containing instant coffee, powdered creamer, and sugar.
I was in prison. I would be there for the next five months of my life.
This had not been part of my plan.
I had a successful career.
I had a great education.
I had a loving family.
I had a wonderful marriage.
I had trusted friends.
I had fancy cars.
I had lavish homes.
I had affectionate cats.
I had traveled the world.
I had flown in private jets.
I had, I had, I had, and I had no idea I was about to learn exactly what I did not have.
Three weeks prior, I’d found myself in solitary confinement, not knowing why I was there. A six-by-nine-foot cell of cinder block and concrete. No windows, no pillow, and no sheets. A steel bed bolted to the floor, a one-piece metal toilet and sink in the corner, and a locked door with a bean slot, a locked slot to be opened only by the guards and to be unlocked only for a guard to push a tray of food in or for me to put my hands out to be handcuffed.
There was no way to know what time it was or how much time had passed. There were no sunrises to breathe in as I anticipated the day, no sunsets to breathe out as I considered the day, no dishes to do, no phones to answer, no televisions to watch, no radios to listen to, no dogs to walk, no litter boxes to empty, no plants to water, no beds to make, no meals to prepare, no laundry to fold, and no garbage to take out.
I was scared. I was hungry. I was thirsty. I could not breathe. I was tired. I was alone.
My thoughts were not clear. I was certain of only this:
I could not get out.
I could not escape.
I could not remove myself.
I could not change.
I could not negotiate.
I could not argue.
I could not debate.
I could not manipulate.
I could not control.
I was alone in a six-by-nine cell. I had no idea what day it was or what time it was. The cell smelled of dirt and urine. The fluorescent light on the ceiling flickered as though it were poorly connected or had a short. The metal-gray paint was chipped on the cinder-block walls, and there were scratches in the door with the locked slot, as if those before me had been clawing to get out. The concrete floor was smooth, yet the stains of years of pain seem to afford it texture. It was cold. I was wearing orange. Later, I would learn that the color designated an inmate in segregation—in prison speak, SEG. The bra was too small, the underwear was too big, and the socks were dirty. I had no shoes.
Suddenly, I was jolted out of my assessment of my situation.
Shinagel!
she bellowed, unlocking the slot in the door.
My heart raced, my breath shortened, and my back stiffened as I faced the door.
It was my first tray of food. What time was it? How long had I been there? How had I gotten there?
Take it, or you don’t eat!
she barked as she banged the rectangular brown plastic tray in the slot.
I leaped forward to grab the tray as fear raced through me. I gasped as I dropped it onto the floor. I was too weak and disoriented to manage it. The tray of food, the smell, the cell, the loud commands— it was too much.
I started to cry. I said, Ma’am, it’s on the floor.
Then eat it off the fucking floor!
she barked as she slammed and locked the slot in the door.
I sat on the pain-stained concrete floor, crying, staring at a pile of slop, a carton of milk, and four slices of white bread strewn on the floor in front of me.
I had been in many cities in the world, and I had witnessed hunger and desperation. I felt grateful I had never eaten out of a garbage can or dumpster or off the street. I felt grateful I’d never had to wonder when my next meal would be.
But as I sat there considering what would be the inevitable, I realized I had not given any consideration to those people—the children, the drug addicts, the teenagers, the homeless, the drunks, and the mentally challenged, or 5150s in prison speak. You know, those people. The ones you walk by as you say to yourself, those poor people, or that is so sad. You hand them the change from the bottom of your purse or a dollar from your pocket, and you say, Here. Take this.
But as soon as you pass by, they are out of sight and out of mind. Did you really help them? No. You acknowledged that they were not invisible—that is all. In solitary, I was invisible. In fact, my existence was recognized only by whatever correctional officer (CO) was on duty at the time to push the brown rectangular tray through the locked slot in the locked door.
Suddenly, I found myself faced with hunger, not knowing when I would get my next meal, and the one available was on the floor in front of me. I was alone. I was invisible.
I ate it.
We are all in prison, whether a correctional facility because we got caught by the authorities or a mental prison because we have a conscience. The prison is of our own making, whether determined by a court of law or our own moral compass. We make assumptions; we pass judgment. We are who we are because of our menu. A menu offered to us as we learn to talk, walk, pee in a toilet, say please and thank you, and understand right from wrong. A menu we are offered to navigate life. Those who provide this menu were offered a menu too. They pass on the menu they accepted and have used to make decisions and choices. We accept that menu to be truthful and right. We are taught that information is absolute. We operate in the world