My Struggle My Truth: My Battle with Polymyositis
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I faced challenging situations as a single parent. Learn of the events that led to my misfortune and how I overcame and adapted to a new way of life.
Life doesn’t end, you just have to adapt to a new way of living and accept the hand you were dealt with. Despite my many challenges, I went on to pursue a master’s degree in social work while maintaining home and caring for four children. Although I have been told that I’m an inspiration, I would not have done it without the Grace of God. And it is because of Him that I’m still standing.
Diamond Sapphire
Diamond Sapphire holds a masters degree in social work. After a fifteen-year career in social work and devoting her time to helping others faced with difficult times and helping them to cope, Diamond can speak on the struggles of life from varied backgrounds. This book is about how Carmen learns to cope with changes in her life. Diamond was inspired to write this book to hopefully inspire others who are dealing with unexpected changes in life. To let them know that life doesnt end, you just adapt to a new way of living and accept the changes in life. If this reaches just one person, Diamonds hope will have been fulfilled.
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My Struggle My Truth - Diamond Sapphire
Copyright © 2021 by Diamond Sapphire. 827751
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Rev. date: 05/22/2021
CONTENTS
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
LIFE GROWING UP
MY FIRST BOYFRIEND
RELATIONSHIPS
RAISING CHILDREN
DEATH OF MY FATHER
EVENTS LEADING TO MY DIAGNOSIS
DIAGNOSIS/HOSPITALIZATION
REHABILITATION
RETURN HOME
COPING WITH A NEW WAY OF LIFE
WORK EXPERIENCE AND DISABILITY
FEAR OF FALLING
MARRIAGE/RELOCATION
CLOSING
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
I give thanks for God’s Love. His Grace and Mercy. I thank Him for walking with me each and every day. Without Him I would not be here today.
I thank my beloved Mom and Dad for their support and love.
My strength came from my Dad. He’s my hero. He was a quiet man with great strength. I saw that strength even when he was in pain. Dad taught me how to survive with whatever I have. Mom was there when I needed her the most. She was always caring and giving and became of her we never went without. I will be forever grateful for you both.
I thank my brothers and sister for the role they played in my life. I thank my children, who are my life. I thank them for their patience with a mom who didn’t have it all together. I thank them for their love and support. I could not have asked for better children. I thank my extended family and friends who also provided their love and support.
I give special thanks to my cousin Tony Wingfield for the cover illustration.
24958.pngLIFE GROWING UP
I am Diamond, and this is my story. One of my first childhood memories was growing up on the Northeast side of town. I grew up in a two parent household with my brothers, sister, and my Uncle, who lived with us for a short time. I remember the house vividly as it was a huge red brick house. It was the biggest house on the street. It was the first house on the street. When you walked up the stairs and entered the front door there was a hallway leading directly to the kitchen. On the left was a flight of stairs leading to all the bedrooms. To the right was the living room that we always called the front room. Straight back was the kitchen, pantry, and bathroom. To the right of the kitchen was the dining room and den area, where we spend majority of our time. Mom would not allow us to play in the front room. To the left of the kitchen was the basement. When you go into the basement there was a small room off the right. As you go further to the back it was open space. There was a room we called the coal room off to the right. We never stored coal there but it always smelled like coal. Now that I think about it. I think it was used for cremation. The upstairs had four bedrooms, bathroom and a junk room
where mom stored everything.
My sister and I shared a room, and my brothers shared a room. We were told by people in the neighborhood that our house used to be a funeral home. We didn’t seem too bothered by it. However, we did notice some strange things happening during that time. For example, while playing in the basement sometimes we’d hear footsteps upstairs. Mom and Dad were at work so it couldn’t have been them. So, we grabbed a baseball bat and creeped upstairs quietly and looked around. No one would be there, and we just laughed it off and went back to playing.
Dad said he saw the shadow of someone standing at the foot of his bed. Then it disappeared. My sister said she saw a man standing in the coal room. She went to get Mom and when they got to the coal room, he was gone. These type of situations made us believe that there could have been some truth to what people were saying. But what could we do? It was our home.
Across the street from our house was a gas station. I used to steal change out of mom’s purse to buy soda, chips, and candy. Soda was only twelve cents. Mom kept her purse on a table in the hallway. I’d grab a handful of change when no one was looking to buy pop at the gas station. We lived near a busy street with a few small businesses. Next to our house was a Barbershop. I remember the owner of the shop being a man with green eyes. He was also a friend of my fathers. We called him green eye Jimmy whenever we spoke of him. His eyes were very light. Mom started that nickname. There was also a craft store where we bought paper dolls, stick on dolls, puzzles and games. I can’t recall what the other stores were. They weren’t important to me, I guess. We had fun growing up in the neighborhood. As kids we teased each other a lot. We didn’t take what was said seriously.
We also went into abandon houses. We wanted to see what type of things people left behind. Sometimes we’d take things depending on what it was. We also played with other kids in the neighborhood. The neighborhood was decent with friendly people. I was called a tomboy because I loved hanging around my brother and his friends. My oldest brother was always serious and didn’t joke much. He was either involved with the Boy Scouts or hanging out with friends. The times he was home we did have fun.
My sister and I played together a lot too. We loved playing with Barbie dolls, paper dolls, and misc items that Mom had around the house. Mom never knew we played with them. By the time she got home from work, everything was put back the way she had them.
I also have fond memories of my Uncle. How he used to drink a lot. He was constantly tripping and falling . My sister and I would hide and laughed at certain things he did. However, he mostly kept to himself. One time he cooked a rabbit and wanted us to taste it, but we didn’t want to. He claimed it taste like chicken, but we had our doubts. Those were the last memories I have of him.
When I attended Elementary School, we were bullied a lot by a group of girls. I assumed they envied the way we dressed. Mom used to match our tops with our tights. Our outfits were never the same color. I’m sure people thought we were twins. We are only a year apart in age and we were about the same height. These same four girls used to follow us halfway home. They called us names and pushed us as we walked. We just kept walking. One girl even rubbed a booger on our back. We never said anything back to them or saw any of them alone. Although there were times we stood up for ourselves.
My brother had his share of bullying also. One time this boy chased him home from school. My brother got fed up and was tired of being bullied. He taught that boy a lesson.
My incident took place with a boy from my home room class. He had a crush on me but I didn’t like him. He was always playing around