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More Than I Can Bear If Not for God is part autobiography and mostly personal memoir of the author and his family. The tragedy that destabilized and tested the faith of the author and his family in God is discussed. The valuable lessons of leaning on God in the face of conflict with his academic mentor, medical doctors, and the immigration authorities, strengthened their relationship and trust in God. The family’s ordeal devastated them and revealed to them that the events and trials they dealt with were proof of God’s power and ability to purify believers, even through the fiery oven, for the glory and fulfillment of God’s plan and purpose.
Dr. Philemon Topas PhD
As an Entomologist and a Creationist Scientist the author has spent over 20 years in various institutions of higher education. His MSc dissertation was on the distribution and identification of predatory bugs in apple orchards. His PhD dissertation focused on illuminating the biological fluid mechanics, of the feeding process, in immature medically important insects. He has also worked on vector-borne disease control. His Post Doctoral research was on termites. He has published in important and widely read scientific journals. His belief in and devotion to God have been the pillar and the anchor that have enabled him and his family to endure the ongoing ordeal. He and his wife have been married for 35 years and are the proud parents of four children and eleven grandchildren.
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More Than I Can Bear If Not for God - Dr. Philemon Topas PhD
MORE THAN I CAN
BEAR IF NOT FOR
GOD
Dr. Philemon Topas, PhD
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I dedicate this book to my dear wife, Luba, who made love meaningful to me and our four children. Thanks for giving me the courage to stay focused in adversity.
To my four children, Naomi, Zevin, Jael and Marko, your zeal and dedication to the Word of God in the midst of adversity inspired your mom and me. Remain blessed.
To my late mom and dad, whose sacrifice, hard work and love for the Bible taught me and my seven siblings to honour and serve God; my late sister and my late nephew, whose companionship enriched my life; and my late father-in-law for his generosity and support during our times of need. I missed the burials and funerals for all of you, but I know we will see each other again. Rest in peace.
To all the friends, pastors, professors and research fellows who encouraged me and continue to teach me about the love that overcomes trial and difficulties, thank you.
To every believer and unbeliever going through trials and difficulties, I pray you continue to rely on and seek help from God, respectively.
To my Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ, who is the solid rock on which my family and I stand, be glorified. Amen.
Contents
Preface
Acknowledgments
Chapter 1 Life in Nugget River
1.1 Preuniversity Education in Nugget River
1.2 The University of Nugget River
1.3 National Service
Chapter 2 Preparation for Journey to Multizone
2.1 The Journey to Multizone
Chapter 3 Amicus University in Luxville
3.1 Sunnydale Campus
3.2 The Department of Entomology (Sunnydale Campus)
Chapter 4 The University of Flatland, Dusty Rose
4.1 The Department of Entomology (U of F)
4.2 First Field Season in Hill Point
4.3 Second Field Season in Hill Point with Luba
4.4 Marriage
Chapter 5 Knee Surgery
5.1 Postsurgery Medical Problems
5.2 Other Postsurgery Events
5.2.1 Department of Entomology
5.2.2 Joy in the Midst of Adversity
5.2.3 PhD Candidacy Examination and Language Proficiency Test
5.2.4 Application for Multizonian Immigration Papers
5.2.5 Defense of PhD Dissertation
5.2.6 The Birth of Our Second Child
5.2.7 Convocation Ceremony
Chapter 6 Postgraduation Events
6.1 Problems with Application for Multizonian Immigration Papers
6.2 Relocation to Looney Bay, December 1985
6.3 Accommodation at Halfway House
Chapter 7 Assistant Professorship:
University of Benhur, Kolaland
7.1 The Trip to Kolaland
7.2 Arrival at Kondey International Airport, Socan
7.3 The University of Benhur
7.4 Reunion with the Rest of My Family
7.5 The Trip Back to the University of Benhur and Breach of Contract
Chapter 8 The Journey Back to Multizone
8.1 The Trip Back to Dusty Rose
Chapter 9 Further Medical Treatment
9.1 Correspondence with the Doctors’ Control Board of Flatland (March 1986)
Chapter 10 Further Search for Employment
10.1 Problems with Employment Search
10.2 Employment Interview: Hope Laboratories in Rich Town
Chapter 11 Medical Lawsuit against Dr. Cutworm
Chapter 12 Medical Examinations and Letters to Support Immigration Application
Chapter 13 Protest at Immigration Office
in Dusty Rose, Flatland
13.1 The Trip to Modez: Change of Immigration Status (June 1989
Chapter 14 Research Associate Position at Shoreline University, Redberry
14.1 Research at Shoreline University
14.1.1 Research in the Department of Biology and Physiology
14.1.1.1 Visit by Luba’s Parents
14.1.2 Research in the Department of Entomology
Chapter 15 Cornea Transplant at Grapevine University
Chapter 16 The Trip Back to Multizone
16.1 Denial of Employment: Back on Welfare
Chapter 17 More Eye Problems
Chapter 18 The Effect of Our Ongoing Ordeal: Glory to God
Preface
This book is about my educational studies at five academic and research institutions that trained and equipped me for a professional career in entomology. Sadly, because of a crisis beyond human tolerance in my life, I was unable to realize my dream of having a productive career. My ordeal started with the sudden onset of eye problems and inflammation of my lymph nodes shortly after I had knee surgery at the University of Flatland Hospital in January 1983. Subsequently, the immigration department used my health problems to declare that I was inadmissible to Multizone. The department mistreated me prior to my becoming a citizen of Multizone.
Briefly, I am blind in one eye, and I have substantial loss of vision in the other eye. I had 20/20 vision in both eyes prior to my knee surgery. I have also developed a plethora of health conditions that significantly limit my respiratory, ambulatory and other vital functions. It is not easy for me to talk about my medical ordeal. The expectation of finding a solution through dialogue and legal channels was a major contributor to the 20 years it took to write this book. Nevertheless, my moral obligations to society compel me to make the public aware of the hurdles I encounter in my effort to receive compensation and have closure to my nightmare.
When my ordeal started, I was 30 years old and married, and my wife and I were expecting our first child. I am 66 years old this year, 2018. My 36 pressure-filled years of unemployment have taken a toll on my family. My efforts to resolve the ordeal at the regional and national levels of government and through legal means have all been fruitless. My family and I have suffered immeasurable damages. My wife has had several mental breakdowns and is on medication to manage depression. Our 35-year-old elder daughter is mentally delayed due to a head injury she suffered soon after she was delivered at the University of Flatland Hospital in May 1983. We are devastated. Our faith and belief in God continue to sustain us. We are grateful to God for his faithfulness toward us.
Three of our four children reside in different cities in Grandonia. My wife, our elder daughter, and I reside in Looney Bay, Multizone. My wife and I are still unemployed despite being well qualified and making countless attempts and applications for employment. I was a postdoctoral fellow at Shoreline University in Redberry, Shoreline. I have a PhD in aquatic entomology from the University of Flatland in Dusty Rose. My wife earned a bachelor’s degree in education from the same university. My master of science degree in agricultural entomology is from Amicus University, Luxville. The University of Nugget River in Noogle awarded my bachelor of science degree in zoology and botany. I also earned a diploma in vector-borne disease control from Needlepoint, Jasper. I am currently collecting a meagre amount of old-age pension because I barely worked. We have no other sources of income, and my daughter is on disability income.
In conclusion, justice has eluded my family and me. It hurts that we are still waiting for justice in a democratic nation like Multizone. Presently, life is overwhelming to us. It would be more than we could bear if not for God. My daughter’s and my needs would be better met with proper legal and medical assistance. I have limited income and resources to pay for such help.
Acknowledgments
Endeavours that contribute to the advancement of knowledge, wisdom and understanding are usually achieved through collaborative efforts.
The ideas, editing and typing skill of my gorgeous wife and comrade made significant improvement to the contents of this book. I owe her tons of gratitude.
The love, patience and encouragement of my wife and our four children enabled me to have the time, space and desire to complete this book. I am grateful to them.
CHAPTER 1
Life in Nugget River
Preuniversity Education in Nugget River
Sunset on October 14, 1976, was beautiful. I sat on a patch of grass behind the administration building of the University of Nugget River in Beaufort and watched the gigantic arc of the crimson sun descend below the horizon. The beauty of the sunset temporarily diverted my attention from a thought that had occupied my mind for a couple of weeks. I was expecting a letter the next morning, and it was going to bring relief or anguish to the thought. I went back to my laboratory in the zoology department after watching the sunset, and I fed my snails.
Dr. Ziggler, who was the chairman of department, and I were cooperating on a project that involved the effect of photo period on the growth and reproduction of edible snails. I could have spent more time in the laboratory, working on other aspects of the snail project, but my mind was too distracted by the thought.
I left the laboratory and went home for dinner. My mother made one of my favourite dishes for dinner: fried plantain and black-eyed bean stew. Under normal circumstances, I would have consumed more than my usual share, but not on that evening. Anxiety and nervousness adversely affected my appetite. I had to force myself to stay calm. I managed to finish only a portion of my dinner.
I went to bed at nine o’clock, an hour earlier than my usual bedtime, in an attempt to hide my anxiety and nervousness from my family. It was a good strategy, but it was one my mother saw through. She came to my room at about ten o’clock and told me to relax and have a good sleep. She knew that the next morning, I would learn the response to my interview for a scholarship to pursue graduate studies in entomology at Amicus University in Luxville, Multizone.
We talked for about 15 minutes, and I confided in her, as I had done a countless number of times since my childhood. I told her I was not sure I could handle not being awarded the scholarship. She knew I was eager and determined to pursue graduate studies in Multizone. We also talked about religion, and she reminded me that as a child of God, I should cast all my cares on him. Finally, she wished me luck as she closed my bedroom door behind her.
It was about one o’clock in the morning when I finally fell asleep. In the interim, I thought about the various options available to me in case I was not awarded the scholarship. The department of zoology at the University of Nugget River had expressed interest in admitting me to the master of science (MS) program in entomology. I also thought of working for a year in the zoology department or outside the university before pursuing graduate studies. My preference, nevertheless, was to continue with my studies at Amicus University. Without the scholarship, the latter option was unattainable.
Morning came quickly, perhaps because I went to bed late and was up by six o’clock in the morning. I went jogging at seven o’clock, primarily to refresh myself. I also wanted to be alone so I could mentally prepare myself for the important event later that morning. After breakfast, I waited expectantly and nervously for the special mail to be delivered to the local post office. My younger sister went to the post office and collected the mail at ten o’clock. I waited outside the house for her. When I saw her coming with the mail, the rate of my heartbeat increased. The closer she came to our house, the faster my heart beat. I could hardly wait to collect the mail from her. Despite my anxiety and nervousness, I managed to thank her. I grabbed the mail from her with my shaky and sweaty hands. Voila! There was the letter that had virtually driven me nuts for the past couple weeks. I tossed every other piece of mail aside and took a deep breath of fresh air—and then fear seized me. I was scared to open the letter. At that instant, I closed my eyes and offered a brief prayer to God to give me the courage to accept whatever decision the scholarships secretariat had made. When I opened the letter, the first word that caught my eye was Congratulations. Further reading confirmed I had been awarded the scholarship.
My mother was the first to congratulate me. She told me she had been sure I was going to be awarded the scholarship. We had a family party that evening to celebrate my success. When the party was over, I went for a walk around my jogging route. It was a pleasant evening, with a gentle breeze that made the leaves rustle quietly. I was happy to be alone. I spent much of the time on the walk thinking about what life at Amicus University was going to be like.
I’d acquired most of my knowledge of the educational system in Upper Contica at that time from the library at the University of Nugget River. I’d also learned about specific colleges and universities, including Amicus, from the library at the Grandonian consulate in Beaufort, the capital city of Nugget River. Television, radio and news magazines were also useful sources of information. I knew that the system of education in Multizone and Grandonia was not structured like the Derkland system, which I was used to. The academic year at the University of Nugget River was composed of three semesters instead of two, unlike at the universities and colleges of Multizone and Grandonia. The final examination at the end of the third semester was an all-or-nothing affair with regard to the grade for that academic year. Assignments and tests done during the semester contributed little to determine the final grade. I knew that Multizone had two official languages. I knew also that English was the official language of instruction at Amicus, despite the fact that the university was located in the midst of the largest community that spoke Multizone’s other official language.
My knowledge of Multizone’s other official language was passable. I had studied that language in secondary school in Nugget River for five years. I’d scored a passing grade on the final examination. I knew enough of that language to engage in conversation. Photographs and movies of various seasonal festivals had taught me much about the variety of seasonal activities common to both Grandonia and Multizone. I was eager to see and touch snow and experience what winter was like. Hockey, to me, was splendid and magical. I’d learned about the dynamics of skating in my advanced-level physics class. I couldn’t wait to see a hockey game or go to a skating rink. I had seen movies and photographs of the winter carnival in Neauville. I knew there was a lot more to learn and discover about life in Upper Contica, especially in Multizone.
The walk was refreshing. It gave me the opportunity to think about the award and the door it had opened for me to continue with my educational career. I went to bed early that evening. I needed to catch up on the sleep I had missed the previous night. The events of the day occupied my mind as I lay in bed. On the one hand, I was glad I’d been awarded the scholarship. On the other hand, I was sad about leaving my family and Gondwana. I went to sleep knowing I had nine months to resolve most of the questions on my mind. Amicus was not expecting me until September 1977.
I had a relaxing sleep, unlike the previous night. I woke up late the following morning. I called my supervisor and asked to take the rest of the week off from my research work at the university. Luckily, he agreed. The week after I received the award, I began planning the myriad of things I had to do in the months preceding my departure to Amicus. The first thing on my agenda was to submit duplicate copies of medical examination results to the Multizonian embassy in Nugget River. I had to submit the paperwork at least eight months prior to my departure date. The Multizonian embassy required enough time for immigration doctors in Looney Bay to review the results. The next item was to make arrangements for various immunization shots. The other urgent item on my list was to take the Graduate Record Examinations (GRE) and the Test of English as a Foreign Language (TOEFL). Amicus University wanted the results of both examinations prior to my departure for Multizone. The Grandonian consulate in Nugget River administered both tests on behalf of the examination board in Neewton, Grandonia. I made plans to take both tests early in case I did not do well and needed to repeat one or both tests. The arrangement for a Nugget River passport was another urgent and important thing on my agenda. In the midst of maintaining a hectic schedule of research at the university and making arrangements for my departure, I managed to