Failure Is Not Final
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The authors story portrays the essential keys needed to overcome shame and guilt and to be transformed by the love of Jesus Christ. The crucial key is true repentance, like the story of the prodigal son in the Bible: I will arise and go to my father, and will say to him, Father I have sinned (Luke 15: 1718). This true repentance involves humility (I will arise), acknowledgement of sin (I have sinned against heaven and before thee), and faith in action (And he arose and came to his father) (Luke 15: 20).
No matter how serious the case may be, in spite of failure, shame, guilt, and rejection in life, we can overcome, recover, and be transformed by the love of Jesus Christ.
Kaeren McGrowder
Kaeren McGrowder was born on the beautiful island of Jamaica. She is a serving member of the Christ Mission Church (Christ Mission Outreach Inc.) in the United Kingdom and is actively involved in the leadership, women’s ministry, and missions departments. Having more than six years’ experience as youth president and in the women’s ministry, she is an established preacher with a prophetic mantle and apostolic ministry. She is highly gifted in the dancing ministry, a founder of the First Fruits Dance Ministry, and she trains leaders to enhance their ministries in the kingdom of God.
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Failure Is Not Final - Kaeren McGrowder
© 2015 Kaeren McGrowder. All rights reserved.
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Published by AuthorHouse 07/15/2015
ISBN: 978-1-5049-4602-5 (sc)
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CONTENTS
Foreword
Acknowledgement
Introduction
Chapter 1 Where It All Began: A Test Failed
Chapter 2 Preparation: David’s Story
Chapter 3 Riding through the Storm
Chapter 4 Don’t Let the Wounded Soldier Die: Back Benching
Chapter 5 Fighting to Stay in the Race: The Fight with Myself
Chapter 6 My Salvation: The Power of the Cross
Chapter 7 After the Birth
Chapter 8 Embracing God’s Grace and Mercy
Chapter 9 My Apologies
Chapter 10 Forgiveness
Chapter 11 It Will Work Out for Your Good
Chapter 12 Failure Is Not Final: The Evidence
FOREWORD
In this book, the author brilliantly portrays a commendable, honest, and non-judgmental attitude; she courageously conveys the significances of hope and God’s love in spite of any catastrophe.
The book carefully expresses godly admonition and warning against the consequences of sin but also consciously demonstrates the attribute of a winning spirit, declaring that ‘Failure is never a failure when you fail, but it becomes a failure when you fail and refuse to rise and move on’.
To the glory of God, I believe the author, Kaeren McGrowder, is a confident and passionate writer.
With a delightful confidence and profound humility, I passionately endorse this book. I believe it will unfailingly enhance the awareness, knowledge, and strong faith in God’s transforming grace and power. And it will bring more hope to the despondent in churches, homes, and communities.
Rev. Festus O Akinfemiwa
Director and Principal Consultant
Christ Mission Outreach Inc., United Kingdom
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
I would like to give honour, praise, and glory to my Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ, without whom I would have been nothing. I thank Him for His never-ending love and greatness. Lord, You are amazing! Words are not enough to articulate my love for You.
To
Rev. G E folks for supporting and encouraging me throughout the rough paths of my journey.
To
my daughter Naomi for being my inspiration to write this book and for being my joy and my strength. Mommy loves you dearly.
To
Rev. (Apostle) Festus O. Akinfemiwa for being the driving force behind me and for believing in me and the future of this book. Thank you.
To
everyone who supported and encouraged me throughout and after my pregnancy at Calvary Church of God in Christ.
To
All my extended friends and family for believing in me and for seeing me in my mess and stretching forth your hands to help me walk in the fullness of God. Thank you all for your positive words of encouragement and for speaking life into me.
INTRODUCTION
Oftentimes we quote scriptures, parables, and other old wives’ tales because we either grew up hearing our parents, grandparents, or even friends saying them. I often hear the quote ‘trials come to make us strong,’ and we repeat it because it sounds good. We also share it with others to bring them comfort.
In whatever way or form it is used, this statement cannot prove true unless you have being through trials and come out strong.
Trials are the acts of trying or testing in any manner. This may be the act of testing by experience, proof, and test (the authenticity of someone’s faith in God in the midst of problems). It is also the state of being tried or tempted; exposure to suffering that tests strength, patience, faith or the like; and affliction or temptation that exercises and proves the graces and virtues of men. Trials are temptations or adversity, the enduring of which proves the merit of an individual’s faith. For the Christian, it is to undergo a trial in which one’s faith is proved either true or false before God, the highest judge. Since many positive things have come about through such trials, Christians are urged to rejoice at their occurrences (James 1: 2; 1 Peter 4: 13).
We all have tests and trials; they come in different ways and forms. No trial is the same; everyone’s experiences are different. We are like students taking a test in a classroom. Some may fail, some may pass, and some may give up for different reasons, maybe because they are unprepared or just don’t know what to do. So it is in our walk with Christ. Our trials are to prove the graces of the virtues of humanity. Some may undergo sickness, some may lose loved ones, marriages maybe torn apart, and our values and morals maybe tested. We may even lose our integrity with Christ Jesus. These trials do not come to destroy us but to prepare us. The exams that we take are only there to prepare us for the future careers we may pursue. However, when these exams are failed, the only solution is to take the test again. So it is with our walk with Christ. We are never satisfied with an F on our report cards; we always strive to get a better grade, especially if it is something we really need. We will not stop until we pass it. Falling is not failure, and failure is not final. It is not the end; take the test again!
James 1: 2–4 speaks of patience and endurance in trials. It says, ‘my brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.’ James regards trials as inevitable. He says when, not if you fall into various trials. At the same time, trials are occasions for joy, not discouraged resignation. We can count it all joy in the midst of trials because they are used to produce patience. Patience is the ancient Greek word hupomone. This word does not describe a passive waiting but an active endurance. It isn’t so much the quality that helps you sit quietly in the doctor’s waiting room as it is that quality that helps you finish a marathon. The ancient Greek word hupomone comes from hupo (under) and meno (to stay, abide, and remain). So at its root, it means to remain under. It evokes the picture of someone under a heavy load, resolutely staying there instead of trying to escape. Faith is tested through trials, not produced by trials. The purpose of trials is to reveal what faith we do have, not because God doesn’t know how much faith we have but to make our faith evident to ourselves and those around us. If trials do not produce faith, what does? Romans 10: 17 tells us ‘so then faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God’. Faith is built in us as we hear and understand and trust in God’s word. Trials don’t produce faith, but when trials are received with faith, that produces patience. But patience is not inevitably produced in times of trial. If difficulties are received with unbelief and grumbling, trials can produce bitterness and discouragement. This is why James exhorts us to count it all joy. Counting it all joy is faith’s response to a time of trial. The work of patient endurance comes slowly and must be allowed to fully bloom. Patient endurance is a mark of the person who is perfect and complete, lacking nothing.
There is no way around the trials that we fail when it comes to our faith in Christ or living the Christian life. When we fall short of the glory of God and give into fornication, adultery, lying, stealing, or whatever other area of failure, there is no way around these things. The only solution is to take the test again!
If a student driver sets a target for himself or herself to pass a driving test by a particular time and that student fails the driving exam, this does not mean it’s over for that particular student; it only means he or she has come to a moment of setback.
Matthew 7:13–14 speaks of a narrow way. Many of us may have chosen the narrow way but few find it. The narrow way is not smooth sailing. (Oh, life is so sweet, amen.) There are some trials on the way. There are diversions such as sickness, heartache, and pain. There are some demons trying to get us to fornicate, tell lies, steal, backbite, and kill each other with our words along the narrow way. Whilst there are these things, we don’t always overcome all these obstacles. We may have given into some, but the ones we give into should not stop us from pursuing eternal life.
The reason why the gate that leads to eternal life is so narrow is not that it is paved with blessings but that we have to fight the good fight of faith. There are some setbacks and some mind-attacks that await us on the way. This is why Paul, in Philippians 3: 14, encourages us to ‘press towards the mark towards the price of the higher calling in Christ Jesus’. We may have dropped the baton in the race, but we need to stop, pick it up, and keep going. The race is not over until we win. It is not for the swift but for those who endure to the end.
When we encounter setbacks, we should try our best not to see them as full stops but rather as