Where Have All Our Values Gone?: The Decline of Values in America and What We Can Do About It
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In Part Two the author makes a recommendation by war of an ethical discussion as to how the decline in values can be rectified.
Andrew Schoedinger
Andrew B. Schoedinger, Ph.D. is presently professor and chair of the Philosophy Department at Boise State University, Boise, Idaho. He earned his B.A. degree from Hobart College and his doctoral degree from Brown University. Dr. Schoedinger’s other publications: Our Philosophical Heritage (Kendall/Hunt) Readings in Medieval Philosophy (Oxford University Press) The Problem of Universals (Humanities Press International) Metaphysics: The Fundamental Questions (Prometheus Press) Wants, Decisions and Human Action (University Press of America)
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Where Have All Our Values Gone? - Andrew Schoedinger
Copyright © 2005 by Andrew Schoedinger.
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CONTENTS
INTRODUCTION
Part I
CHAPTER ONE
CHAPTER TWO
CHAPTER THREE
CHAPTER FOUR
CHAPTER FIVE
CHAPTER SIX
CHAPTER SEVEN
CHAPTER EIGHT
CHAPTER NINE
Part II
CHAPTER TEN
CHAPTER ELEVEN
CHAPTER TWELVE
CHAPTER THIRTEEN
CHAPTER FOURTEEN
BIBLIOGRAPHY
INTRODUCTION
The writing of this book was motivated by concerns we all
seem to share about American society and the apparent disappearance of what has come to be known as family values.
We can hardly get through a day without hearing or reading about family values in one context or another. Politicians, religious leaders and educators all seem to be concerned with this subject yet they never seem to have a reasonable definition of family values.
The constituents of these leaders, the grass roots of our society, feel a similar concern about family values. When the question is asked of them, however, What are family values?
no one seems to have an answer that makes sense. Nevertheless, these concerned people share a certain frustration, a feeling that things
are not as they should be in America. They also seem to share the sense that if we could just return to the family values of an earlier time, things would once again be all right. Yet few people, if any, that I know or know of, are anti-family or against the values that traditional families embody. Surveys taken conclude that most people enthusiastically support marriage and raising families, they generally seem to disapprove of adultery, and they want their kids to grow up to be law-abiding members of society. Along with the underlying frustration, there seems to be a bit of nostalgia. People seem to want to return to:
A past time that was more tranquil and stable.
A time when drugs and crime were not rampant.
A time when parents didn’t have to worry about their children’s safety at school.
A time when providers of entertainment were not obsessed with gratuitous sex and violence.
A time when people were civil and good manners were typical.
A time when kids could play unattended by an adult without fear of being abducted or molested in some way.
So, precisely what is it that people mean by family values? I submit that we have adopted this phrase to describe moral and social well-being. I believe, our country has a crisis of moral and social well-being on its hands. We seem to be entering the 21st century in a state of moral and social decline. People sense this and are concerned. Some talk show hosts submit that we are facing this problem because we no longer spank our children. Other concerned people say institutions have taken our rights as parents away. Still others blame the decay on video games, comic books, and other media. But what all of America seems to share is frustration because we don’t know what precisely to do about it. People feel helpless about what they can do to turn things around to put a halt to the moral and social decline. That an overwhelming number of people feel this way is understandable. I submit that we cannot find a solution to this moral decline and halt the vanishing of our values unless we first understand the complexity of causes that have brought us to where we are today. Only then can a coherent solution to the problem be developed and carried out. This book seeks to do both; to review the causes and recommend solutions.
Although it may appear that the causes for the decline of values in our society are isolated and independent, they are the result of many contributing factors. These are interconnected much as are the overlapping fibers in a length of rope. Once we come to understand how we got ourselves in the mess that we are in, we can begin to construct a way out of it. The good news is that we, as human beings, have the power to right the moral and social course of this country. But to reverse our moral decline will require widespread personal commitment on the part of the American people.
Such a commitment, first and foremost, requires individuals to take full responsibility for their behavior. We all make mistakes. When we do, we must refrain from pointing a finger at someone else. We must own up to our mistakes and willingly pay the price. Furthermore, people must give up the all-too-pervasive victim mentality, the mindset that I am not at fault because I suffer from some physical or psychological handicap.
And people need to stop blaming society at large for all their ills. Ultimately, what all this means is that people must take back control of their own lives and understand that they own their behavior and are therefore responsible for it. As the saying goes, The buck stops here.
And here means each one of us. Without such a personal commitment, the future of this country is highly questionable.
Moral values vs. culture wars
Practically everyone in this society will agree that we have experienced over the past several decades a crisis of values. To appreciate this book’s analysis, it is necessary to establish the distinction between the decline in the moral and social values within our society and the culture wars
also raging within it. The battles over the right to an abortion versus the right to life, the conflict over capital punishment, the hostility surrounding disputed rights of homosexuals and controversy over physician-assisted suicide are examples of the culture wars that presently are taking place.
These culture wars are different than the decline in moral and social values in that culture wars have their roots in religious doctrine. Take religion out of the mix and these conflicts would dwindle. The present culture wars are relatively recent and even though some would argue that it is the decline in religion that has been the main factor in the destruction of family values, the demographics of religion do not substantiate such a claim. Whereas such demographics have shifted over the course of the 20th century, it nevertheless remains the case that Americans, by and large, are adherents of some religious persuasion or other. Religion and the values it promotes are not in decline. That there is no universal consensus concerning these religious values is at the core of our culture wars. Two very devout religious people can be on opposite sides of the fence concerning abortion, capital punishment, euthanasia and homosexuality.
There is a tendency on the part of some people to think that all of our troubles are the result of a decline in moral values. This contributes to the confusion between the decline in values and our culture wars. This tendency exists because all religions advocate a moral code; for example, the moral codes of Judaism and Christianity are rooted in the Ten Commandments as found in The Bible. There is no doubt that there has been a decline in moral values over the course of the 20th century. That, however, is only one aspect of the crisis of values we are experiencing. Many of the values that have declined have nothing whatsoever to do with morality. Patriotism, for example, is a value that exists independently of a moral code. As Chapters One through Nine demonstrate, non-moral values play an integral role in our present values crisis. Yet, these non-moral values play absolutely no role in our culture wars.
The values that define our present culture wars are moral values. These culture wars are disputes over moral values. Typically, the side of the fence one is on in such quarrels is dictated by the religious viewpoint one takes with respect to issues being disputed. A difference of opinion over the morality of physician-assisted suicide is a dispute between the presumed right of self-determination and the sanctity of life. Culture wars, as with every other kind of war, are battles between two viable sides.
The decline in values throughout the course of the 20th century has not been the result of a culture war. Such a decline has developed in an evolutionary way with values being chipped away a little at a time. The concern over the decline of any one of the values discussed in Chapters One through Nine has been after the fact of that decline, not as a defining feature of the decline itself. This book is not about culture wars but rather is an analysis of the decline of both moral and non-moral values over the course of the 20th century.
Religious And Other Authority
We do not develop our values in a vacuum. They come to us from some authority with God being the ultimate authority. But just what is authority? It is a power to influence thoughts and opinions and the outward behaviors of individuals. Such influence is either mental or physical or both. All authority dictates some value or set of values. There is no authority that can successfully dictate, however, unless it has the power to enforce those dictates. Influence and enforcement, either real or imagined go hand-in-hand. Genuine authority gives clout to values.
There are many sources of authority. Aside from God, there is the authority of parents, educators, and government. When a source of authority is called into question, the values that authority dictates are challenged and to some extent undermined. The decline of values in 20th century America has a great deal to do with the challenges presented over the last hundred years to the traditional sources of authority in our country.
There is a price to be paid when authority is undermined. If it is not adequately replaced, people typically assume that they are accountable to no one or no institution. Such lack of accountability undermines freedom. It sets the stage for anarchy, a state in which there are no rules governing behavior and, therefore, anything goes. In addition, it leads to normally law-abiding citizens feeling threatened by the lack of certainty in their everyday lives. What they have always relied upon as being safe no longer feels that way to them.
If one source of authority is not replaced by another traditional one, the only option is to place oneself in that position of authority. To assume authority, as an individual, requires a great deal of self-discipline because it entails allowing reason to rule our passions. It entails a commitment to doing what we ought to do even though at the time we would really rather not. If, however, we can regulate ourselves and take personal responsibility for our actions, we can arrive at a better society for all of us. Such