100 Words of Affirmation Your Son Needs to Hear

By Matt Jacobson and Lisa Jacobson

Every one of us has tremendous power to either build others up or tear them down through the words we speak every day, and nowhere is this more evident than in our families. Are you being purposeful in how you use the power of your words to speak encouragement, strength, and love--breathing life into the heart of your children? Or are careless words having a negative impact on both your kids and your family legacy?

Matt and Lisa Jacobson want you to discover the powerful ways you can build your children up in love with the words that you choose to say every day--words that every son and daughter need to hear. These books offer you one hundred phrases to say to your son or daughter that deeply encourage, affirm, and inspire. Start speaking these words into their lives and watch your children--and your relationship with them--transform before your eyes.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Baker Publishing Group
• Release date: Jun 8, 2021
• ISBN: 9781493430598

Matt Jacobson

Matt Jacobson is teaching elder/pastor of Cline Falls Bible Fellowship and founder of FaithfulMan.com, an online social media community focusing on marriage, parenting, and biblical teaching. He is the creator of Freedom Course, teaching men the powerful, biblical path to getting completely free from porn and sexual sin (Freedom-Course.com). Matt is the author of the bestselling Loving Your Wife Well and 100 Words of Affirmation Your Wife Needs to Hear. He lives with his wife, Lisa, in the Pacific Northwest, where they have raised their eight children. Together Matt and Lisa are cohosts of the popular Faithful Life podcast.

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100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear

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Contents

Cover

Half Title Page

Also by Matt and Lisa Jacobson

Title Page

Copyright Page

Introduction

1. I have great confidence in your future.

2. You’re the kind of friend I wanted when I was your age.

3. God blessed me by bringing you into the world.

4. You offer such comfort with your gentle strength.

5. You faced a big challenge, yet you refused to give up.

6. I love hearing your ideas and dreams for the future.

7. Son, that was a kind thing to do.

8. I believe the hand of God is on your life.

9. You have a terrific sense of humor.

10. What you decide to do today is building the future you will enjoy.

11. I admire the kind of man you’re becoming.

12. You have an important place in this family.

13. Your thankful spirit is a true encouragement to me.

14. I enjoy talking with you.

15. You’ve matured so much over the past few months.

16. You have a sharp mind.

17. I applaud the way you look out for others.

18. You stepped up and took responsibility. That’s what a good man does.

19. You inspire people.

20. I admire how you demonstrated self-control in that moment.

21. You have so many wonderful ideas.

22. I commend you for being such a hard worker.

23. You have a creative mind, and I’m amazed by what you build.

24. You’re like a deep river—calm but powerful. That’s what I see in your quiet confidence.

25. I appreciate how you show me respect.

26. That took a lot of courage. You are becoming a man!

27. Son, you could run a small country. Maybe even a large one!

28. You’re going to be successful in whatever you choose to do.

29. I respect that you are your own man who’s not swayed by the crowd.

30. Wow! Look at those strong muscles!

31. I’m grateful for your determination to protect those in danger.

32. I like spending time with you.

33. You are polite. I really appreciate that.

34. You are very good at figuring things out.

35. Although it’s a difficult challenge, I’m convinced you can figure it out.

36. The Good Book says a man skilled in his work will stand before kings. That makes me think of you.

37. You’re loyal to those you love.

38. It’s not easy to conquer your fear, but you did it.

39. I have complete trust in you.

40. You ask such great questions.

41. I can see you’re choosing to be strong.

42. You’re a real go-getter!

43. I’m fascinated by how resourceful you are.

44. Life brings many battles, but you can count on me to have your back.

45. I am so pleased with you.

46. You showed real patience, a fine quality in a young man.

47. Son, you’re such a handsome young man.

48. I can see you’re growing strong on the inside.

49. Whoever you marry is going to be one lucky woman.

50. You are very different from me, but that’s a good thing, and I love your unique personality.

51. Thank you for taking care of that with a cheerful spirit.

52. You’re not weak; you have the power to make right choices.

53. I believe you can do it!

54. When you acted in that way, you demonstrated genuine leadership.

55. You worked hard until the job was done. Impressive!

56. You are as bold as a lion.

57. God knows the number of hairs on your head. He sees you and has a plan for your best life.

58. You see what needs to be done and do it without being asked.

59. I like the way you notice and care for those who could use a little extra love.

60. You’re sure looking sharp today.

61. You demonstrated an obedient heart when you responded that way.

62. You are highly capable, and that’s why I depend on you to do it well.

63. You stood for the truth, regardless of the consequences. That’s what good men do.

64. Thank you for listening to our advice. That means you’re growing in wisdom.

65. Your dad and mom will always stand with you.

66. I am your biggest fan.

67. You took on that big responsibility and performed well.

68. I’m super impressed to see you working so diligently at your studies.

69. You’re a man of your word. That means people will trust what you say.

70. I like your competitive, fighting spirit.

71. I love listening to you. What you have to say is always interesting to me.

72. I’ve got to hand it to you—you’ve sure got guts.

73. Wow, son, you’re so smart.

74. You are a young man with self-discipline!

75. You have a winning smile.

76. You have vision: the ability to see past what is to what is possible.

77. You are such a tender warrior.

78. You don’t let obstacles stop you, and that’s why you’re going to go far.

79. I love your creativity and how you think outside the box.

80. Apologizing and asking forgiveness take real humility. You chose God’s way, and it was awesome to see.

81. You’re a good sport.

82. You’re learning to save your money, making you a wise man who will have options in the future.

83. You have a passion for justice, and this world is in desperate need of people like you.

84. I love that you’re ambitious and can’t wait to see where it will take you.

85. You’re learning to manage your time, and that’s a mark of maturity.

86. Your impulse was to show mercy, and I know that pleases God.

87. I admire your eager mind.

88. You have a positive influence on others, and that’s powerful.

89. Your enthusiasm and energy bring life to the room.

90. I appreciate how you are learning to work things out with others.

91. I like how careful you are in choosing your friends.

92. You’re a real team player.

93. Your generosity is a loving gift to many.

94. You are a strong role model for those around you.

95. I appreciate the way you’re careful not to talk negatively about other people.

96. You