Tales of the Weddinglike Thing: In Which the Large Main Bride and the Small Auxiliary Backup Bride Survive Their Own Wedding
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Tales of the Weddinglike Thing - Jessica Weissman
Tales of the Weddinglike Thing
In Which the Large Main Bride and the Small Auxiliary Backup Bride Survive Their Own Wedding
Jessica Weissman
December 2014
Street to Street
Epic Publications
Tales of the Weddinglike Thing: In Which the Large Main Bride and the Small Auxiliary Backup Bride Survive Their Own Wedding is published by Street to Street Epic Publications, Washington, DC, under the direction of Dr. Carolivia Herron.
Text copyright © 2014 by Jessica Weissman
Cover designed by Carolivia Herron
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Published in the United States by Street to Street Epic Publications, Washington, DC.
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Weissman, Jessica
Tales of the Weddinglike Thing: In Which the Large Main Bride and the Small Auxiliary Backup Bride Survive Their Own Wedding
Summary: In 1997 there was no legal same-sex marriage, and thus no weddings for two women. Louise and Jessica decide to call their commitment ceremony the Weddinglike Thing, or WLT. Laugh with them them as they prepare for the WLT with assistance from family and friends, including their deceased mothers who help them find the right shoes and a good deal on wine from beyond the grave.
Paper ISBN: 978-1-938609-27-5
Ebook ISBN: 978-1-938609-28-2
Dedicated to
Maud Hart Lovelace
and her devoted readers
Author’s Note: This is a memoir, as true and accurate as I can make it, told for humorous effect. But I am looking through my own eyes, from my own point of view. Others may remember things differently, or with different emphasis.
The Beginning
This is the story of how Louise and I survived our commitment ceremony, told in real time as it happened in the form of postings to an email listserv dedicated to fans of Maud Hart Lovelace’s Betsy-Tacy books. Maud-L was, and still is, a tightly-knit group of articulate and interesting women who discussed this compelling series of books that takes its heroines from when they meet at age 5 until the last of the group marries. There are a few references that make more sense if you know the books. If you’re confused by any of them, I heartily recommend that you find and read these beautifully written books set at the turn of the 20th century.
I met Louise in April 1996, after a series of misadventures in life and in love. An extended trip with a friend to India, Italy, England and Portugal ended in dual disasters in 1995: the friend and I no longer spoke and my girlfriend, who had a disease that made her connective tissue weak, died of a burst aorta.
At the suggestion of my bereavement group, I looked in the Washington Blade for a personal ad to answer. This was intended as a distraction, not as the start of a serious hunt for a partner. But it would get me out of the house for something other than work and cultural events.
The ad that caught my eye was distinctively straightforward and unapologetic. Either it was written by the woman’s friends, or she was totally obnoxious. Or both. Here is how it read:
Skinny white woman with an attitude in search of a full-figured woman with a library and a sense of humor. Must be willing to be interviewed by a committee of my closest friends.
I draw a veil over the courtship and its slow rise. Neither of us intended anything more than being casual company to the other. How that changed and how we realized that we wanted to have some kind of public commitment is of much more interest to us than it could possibly be to anybody else.
At some point we began referring to ourselves as the Large Main Bride and the Small Auxiliary Backup Bride.
So the story picks up here, with the planning of the Weddinglike Thing, or WLT. But first, here is how my Betsy-Tacy friends learned about the upcoming event. I was responding to someone wailing about the creative last name her cousin acquired.
June 4, 1996
Katie, no need to feel sorry because your gay cousin is stuck with that last name you describe as horrible. I noticed you didn’t tell us what it was so we could groan with you.
Anyway, plenty of lesbians change their birth names, often in