The Danger of Honeymoon Before the Wedding

By Ezekiel Kofi Yesutor

Book on Pre-marital and marital counseling. A must read Chrstian book to encourage the young and the old who have the desire to enter into marriage. The do's and don't in marriage is revealed in the book

• Language: English
• Publisher: Kofi Yesutor
• Release date: Jan 1, 2021
• ISBN: 9781393657927

Ezekiel Kofi Yesutor

Rev. Ezekiel Kofi Yesutor is a missionary and the president of Yesutor World Outreach Team. He is young, talented and anointed preacher. He provocatively and skilfully preaches the word of God with revelation and authority. God has endowed with special gifts to bring healing to souls, minds and bodies of His people. Within ten years in ministry, people have witnessed the raising of the dead as well as the anointing of the marvellous healing power of Christ upon him. He is married and are blessed with a daughter.

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ACKNOWLEWGEMENTS

Thanks for this book must be expressed to Honourable and Mrs. Atta Akyea, for all that they have done and are doing for my family as well as supporting me to produce this book. I wish to further express my thanks to the following:

• Rev. Simon Degbe and Rev. Titus Amralo both lecturers of Maranatha University College for kindly proofreading this book.

• Mr. and Mrs. Sangmor and family for the use of their laptop.

• Rev. William Kofi Tsinigo, Central University College, whose ideas influenced the chapter on Christian ethics.

• Mrs. Bernice Boye-Quaye and Mr. Kwasi Asemone Edjah who helped me through senior secondary school.

• Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Hanson (Dehans Foundry) who helped me during my first Bible course at Agabus Prophetic Institute and are still there for me.

• Patience Addai (aka Nana Akua Amankwa of USA) a sister indeed.

• Mama Doratha Aniakwa (aka Pastor Mrs. Dora Barnes Arthur), I can’t forget your good deeds to me.

• Mr. Lord Osei Ansah of GBC and Mr. Augustine Nyarko Vodafone Ghana. God bless you so much.

And for all of you who have contributed in the fulfillment of the call upon my life, how can I forget about you:

• Ms. Gladys Kpo of USA,

• Rev. and Mrs. Kwadjo Fordjour of True Vine Foundation Ministry,

• Rev. and Mrs. Isaac Anto of Conquerors Chapel Int.,

• Rev. J. F. K. Mensah of Great Commission Church Int.,

• Rev. Cosby Agyei of Family House Chapel/Happy FM,

• Rev. Osei Kwame of New Testament Assembly,

• Rev. Sunshine A. Adams of Paradise Way Chapel

(Crystal Fire),

• Archbishop Man-God Appiah-Kubi of Heaven Life MINISTRIES, AND

• Prophetess Regina Elorm of El-Elyon Ministry Int.

Contents

Acknowledgements

1. Modern Attitude Towards Sex

2. Adolescence and Libido (Sexual drive)

3. The Danger of Honeymoon Before the Wedding

4. Some Shepherds are Leading the Flock Astray

5. Christian Ethics

6. Some Irresponsible Behavior

7. Return to the Lord

8. Choice of Spouse

A Little Patience

Oh Patience, Patience

You are a father to Success

A mother to Victory

But little brother to Had-I-Known

And little sister to How-Can-I-Go-Back-and-Do-Things-Right?

Patience was close to me but I didn’t see it

It was talking to me but I didn’t hear it

I wish I had had time for patience;

I would have been the happiest person by now.

CHAPTER ONE

MODERN ATTITUDE TOWARDS SEX

All around us these days we see sexual barriers breaking down in all cultures. Among younger people, the original restraint towards sex has diminished considerably and today people indulge in sex much more freely. Many unmarried men and women are living together even those who profess to be born again Christians are caught up in sexual permissiveness. But what people fail to realize is that such casual relationships may not end well.

People need to be able to tell their partners that it is not good to have sex before marriage without feeling guilty. If they say Unless you have sex with me, you don’t love me it means that he or she doesn’t love you. You need no longer be afraid to refuse casual sex but be rather able to talk with the partner about your decision to stay holy for the Lord. Some people who fear the Lord have regretted sexual permissiveness because they believe that it is wrong.

Increasingly, in today’s society, couples decide to live together, and have children (common law marriage). And so, the question is often asked, "If a woman becomes sexually liberated against society’s holy sexual values, will marriage