Diary of a St. Louis Dom

By B.B. Priest

I am a successful business man. I start up software companies and consult with large organizations to improve the way they do business.

As a military brat we moved a lot. My father thought it best to never tell us when a move was going to happen. We would come home and see the car packed up. We knew it was time. I knew there would be no goodbyes. No mailing of letters. No more contact. We were taught to disconnect. New friends would be made. A new home would be unpacked. I lived more and more in the darkness of my mind.

I struggled with women through high school and college. I didn't date much. I was afraid of what I would do to them. It took me a while to come to grips with what I was. What my desires were. I finally found through the BDSM community and accidental meetings of like minded people that I wasn't the only one who felt this way. I discovered I was a Dominant.

This consolidation of short stories chronicles the introduction of people into the BDSM lifestyle. I describe techniques used.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Lulu Publishing Services
• Release date: Jul 28, 2016
• ISBN: 9781483448893

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CONTENTS

Chapter One Introduction

Chapter Two The Kitten

Chapter Three The Professor

Chapter Four The Bartender

Chapter Five The Protected One

Chapter Six The Nubian Princess

CHAPTER ONE

Introduction

THE DOMINANT/SUBMISSIVE (D/S) RELATIONSHIP IS about the mind. If you don’t own the mind you cannot own the body. The mind will consciously and unconsciously protect itself from emotional harm. To further that end, the mind can also shut down the body or free it; allowing it to reach its full potential.

I have had many people men, women, and couples contact me via various alternate lifestyle websites to ask for my help in introducing them to the D/s lifestyle. There are many women who would like to explore it but who cannot convince their partners to partake in their desires. Others are couples who have been together for 20 years and who are looking for variety in their lives or a way to redefine (or reset) their relationship dynamic. There are also many couples who are currently in the lifestyle and who have real relationship issues that a mainstream family therapist may not be skilled in addressing. As a studied strategic interventionist (SI) coach and a person active in the BDSM community I can help you work through or introduce these new relationship dynamics.

If you can’t explore with the person that knows the most about you then where can you find that safe haven?

I wish you all a healthy, happy, safe foray into the world of BDSM. After all, intimacy and kink is supposed to be fun!

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I am one of the lucky few that have known the dominant part of me my whole adult life. To be honest, I have in the past tried to set it aside for a love that I thought more important than my basic desires but as many of us have learned, this lifestyle is not just a kink that you can set aside.

As a young boy of 9 I was playing Cowboys and Indians with the pretty blond 11 year old girl who lived across the street. I caught her or, more likely, she let me catch her. She was quick to explain to me that any real cowboy would tie up his captive. Her speaking to me in that way made me angry so I took the rope off of her mother’s clothes line, pushed her against the chain link fence and tied her wrists to the top parallel post. I was surprisingly good at it. Once tied, she continued to taunt me.