Speaking Peace in a Climate of Conflict
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What can we learn from contemporary writers about keeping public conversation compassionate, vigorous, faithful, and life-giving?
Those who want to avoid simplistic partisan rhetoric and use words in a challenging, spirited way need practical strategies. This book offers a range of them.
Drawing upon the work of exemplary contemporary writers, Speaking Peace in a Climate of Conflict shows how to speak and write clearly and generously. For example, we can attend more carefully to the effects of metaphors, recognize and avoid glib euphemisms, define terms in ways that retrieve core meanings and revitalize them, and enrich our sense of history by deft use of allusion.
Contemporary readers are awash in many words that have been cheapened and profaned. But with deliberate use of intelligence and grace we can redeem their “sacramentality”—humanely uttered words can convey life-giving clarity and compassion. Speaking Peace in a Climate of Conflict is an homage to outstanding wordsmiths who have achieved that potential and an invitation to follow them in making well-chosen words instruments of peace.
Marilyn McEntyre
Marilyn McEntyre is the award-winning author of several books on language and faith, including Where the Eye Alights, Caring for Words in a Culture of Lies, Speaking Peace in a Climate of Conflict, When Poets Pray, Make a List, Word by Word, and What's in a Phrase? Pausing Where Scripture Gives You Pause, winner of the 2015 Christianity Today book award in spirituality.
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Introduction
Words are instruments of survival. We hear a lot of them, from routine exchanges with family over morning coffee to the news on the car radio, from song lyrics we barely register as they play on endless loops in stores to discussions in meetings, phone calls, and, if we’re lucky, good conversations with good friends.
As I write this, it’s not yet eight in the morning, but I have discussed dreams with my husband, listened to the lectionary readings, heard the morning headlines, and perused a few paragraphs in preparation for the day’s work. Already I have taken in more than sufficient words for a day’s reflection, but many more are to come. Words, along with images, are writ large on billboards, in shop windows, and on neon signs, filling the urban landscape. On my drive to Berkeley this afternoon I know I will see eye-catching appeals to choose a new healthcare plan, visit a casino, buy vodka or sexy blue jeans or a new smart phone, or repent and receive Jesus’s forgiveness. Really. Those of us who inhabit urban and suburban environments have had to adapt to chronic word and image overload. We are assailed from every direction. Those of us who write, teach, or parent, and who play a part in public life, need, more than ever, to equip each other with words that will help us navigate the confusions and challenges of this historical moment.
Our times,
as a lovely passage from The Book of Common Prayer puts it, are in God’s hands.
Our times are also in ours—the rich, wild internet, the water crisis, widespread warfare, climate change, a polarized economy—these are the conditions in which we are to work out our salvation together, listening to one another, listening for the voice of God in the silence behind all the chatter, and telling stories and singing songs that help, even in the midst of human squalor, to make all things new.
We need to learn new ways to speak peace, reclaiming words that have been weaponized and beating them into plowshares. We need to find words that comfort in the midst of new kinds of distress and sorrow and that sustain courage in the face of large and looming threats. Life-giving conversations require a willingness to wake up, be aware, peer into the darkness, consider and consult and open our imaginations to perilous possibilities. Because it is in that darkness that the Light shines—there where the Word, which was in the beginning, emerges from the deeps of cosmic silence and summons us to listen and learn so that we may hear the word given to each of us to embody and speak into the world while we are here. It is tempting, rather than accept that strenuous invitation, to take refuge in the diverting cacophony, letting idle words wash over us while we float in a river of sound.
Conversation—which once meant walking with
one another—has historically been the warp and woof of community life. It provides (to switch metaphors) rich soil where thought and feeling can take root and branch and blossom. It equips us to venture out from our circles of trust into the fog of word wars, prepared to speak peace, to practice nonviolent communication, to reclaim and sometimes proclaim words that sound a ring of truth that can be heard above the drone of incessant distractions. These days, it’s a little harder to come by—the kind of conversation that does all those things. If we want to make space for it, we have to resist some powerfully erosive forces.
In these pages I offer reflections that have emerged from my own work with words as a reader and writer and teacher, but also from my growing concern about what is happening to words as more and more of them become contaminated and turn into triggers,
as lies go unchallenged and honesty goes unrewarded—or is punished. I have tried to identify a number of strategies for maintaining clarity, integrity, and authenticity in the midst of the morass, drawing examples from contemporary writers and speakers, stewards of words, from whom we can all learn. It is a time to be, as they are, deft and strategic, subversive, surprising, amusing, able to offer the occasional shock of recognition
that reminds and reawakens. I offer my reflections in gratitude to those who have helped me sustain my own efforts to speak and to live with integrity and hope—to be a better reader, writer, and participant in the long, often contentious conversation we’ve been called to.
Let’s start by considering how good stewards of language equip us to cope with a political discourse that consists largely of hyperbole, ad hominem attacks, spin, and sound bites. Increasingly over the past decade, accusations of lies, incompetence, bigotry, and corruption have filled airtime that could have been devoted to much-needed public education on urgent issues, fact-checked, focused, implications made explicit. The airwaves are full of voices shouting at each other from opposite sides of a widening battlefield where arguments over climate change, trade agreements, gay marriage, abortion laws, health care, immigration, and what to do about poverty and homelessness are buried in rhetoric that oversimplifies and obscures what is really at stake. And the battle lines run right down the aisles of churches: congregations split and splinter over how to worship, what the Bible really means, and what faith language to use.
George Orwell famously claimed that one of the reasons writers write at all is to make a political statement, or perhaps to influence political life. It is, in fact, impossible not to write politically: common discourse is charged with political associations that weight the words we use. Common words such as right
or duty
or threat
or American
or great
—along with any ism
you might think of—are difficult to disengage from the partisan contexts in which they’re so loudly spoken. Speaking is not a politically or theologically neutral act any more than voting or buying, and the charge words carry is intensified in a climate of widespread verbal promiscuity and word wars.
Richard Mouw, former president of Fuller Seminary, put it this way in his thoughtful book about civility, Uncommon Decency :
One of the real problems in modern life is that the people who are good at being civil often lack strong convictions and people who have strong convictions often lack civility. . . . We need to find a way of combining a civil outlook with a passionate intensity
about our convictions. The real challenge is to come up with a convicted civility.¹
To speak or write with convicted civility
is to speak out in ways that shock, disturb, and indict readers’ complacencies without leaving those readers defensive, overwhelmed, or in despair about issues they feel powerless to address. How do we write so as to educate, encourage, and clarify? How do we craft sentences that survive and subvert organized confusion?
I offer the strategies in the coming pages not as an expert, and certainly not as a person who is politically or theologically neutral, but rather as a writer who is still gratefully learning from those who seem to me particularly effective in speaking truth to power, speaking for the poor, speaking up when it’s needed, speaking out for those who are silenced, and speaking for the rest of us when they are the ones who are in a position to do so and who recognize the call when it comes.
Sometimes we are the ones who are called. There are moments when we have to recognize that neutrality is complicity and to enter the conversation with clarity, conviction, and a good op-ed piece. It’s good, on the one hand, to avoid becoming a self-styled prophet—I’m aware of the temptation to think one has access to a God’s-eye view. On the other hand, it’s good to be alert to moments when our situation and gifts oblige us to enter public controversies in hope of offering a stay against confusion.
The practices we’re going to look at are those of writers who offer and model what we need now. Each of them has helped educate me and has informed my political, theological, and writerly sensibilities. I hope these brief reflections on their ways of seeing and saying may help equip us for opportunities to speak for the common good on social media, in classrooms, in interviews, in op-ed pages, and in city council meetings, university chapel services, service club meetings, conferences, and sermons with clarity, sanity, and grace.
So let us begin by turning our attention to the challenging matter of defining our terms.
1
Don’t Rely on Webster’s
In case you don’t get enough email, here’s a subscription that will bring a bit of education to your in-box: you can receive a Word of the Day
direct from Merriam-Webster, a company started by two word lovers that has, since 1828, provided Americans with hefty dictionaries that offer standard spelling, definitions, and updates on the evolution of American English. Even the words I think I know sometimes surprise me. Rather than deleting the word of the day when I know
it, sometimes I open the page and discover nuances of meaning or odd facts about the word’s history. (Shambles,
for instance, once meant meat market.
For more, see Webster’s!) The moments it takes to read those little backstories are, I believe, time well spent. Ordinary
words become a little more mysterious, their meanings shaped and shaded in new ways, and my awareness of their resonance heightened.
One of the newsbreaks I’ve had to deliver to students over the years is that words’ meanings are malleable. When defining terms in papers or speeches, they’re not allowed to start any sentence with According to Webster’s
(or even the OED). Rather, defining key terms
means considering carefully how they have come to understand the word, in what contexts it’s used, how those may be specific to this historical moment, to what (and whose) purposes, and what associations they bring to it. Justice,
for instance, has a slightly different range of meaning and associations in the phrase the justice system,
or as a title (Supreme Court justice
), or as an office (Department of Justice
) than it does as a justification for the American Revolution or as a biblical idea (To do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God
; Mic. 6:8).
Words, in other words, float in a fluid medium—a river of conversation, written and spoken, that has run a winding course over the centuries, through a wide variety of social landscapes, turning to rapids in times of crisis. To leave that metaphor and think of them in a more mysteriously literal way, words occupy fields
of meaning; their color and weight are affected by the words around them. Standing alone, they mean
much less than in sentences, poems, headlines, or homilies.
Meaning is malleable—context-dependent, somewhat dependent on the idiosyncrasies of a particular wordsmith, layered, shaded by irony or obliquity. We need to hold one another accountable for the meanings we make. What do you mean?
belongs somewhere in every conversation. It’s not a simple question, and it rarely calls for a simple answer. It sometimes brings a speaker up short or elicits a defensive parry: What do you mean, what do I mean? I mean what I say.
So we rephrase the question: What’s your understanding of that term?
Could you give an example of what that might look like in action?
Are you using that term in the same way your opponent recently used it?
An even more important question is What do I mean?
Ask it as you reread your draft, as you peruse the bullet points for your presentation, as you fish for a way to explain greedy
to a five-year-old—or to a Congressperson considering further tax cuts for large corporations. It’s a habit I’d venture to call a spiritual discipline: as I pray for kindness, clarity, and courage in my writing and teaching, it’s simply good practice to ask myself, What do I mean by good
poetry or by responsible
reading? What does it mean to develop
a point? What’s the difference between making an appropriate
concession and capitulating? What is enough
? Who is the we
in question? When do kids get to see adult
material? And what do I mean when I stand in a congregation and affirm, I believe . . .
?
Believe,
by the way, once meant to hold dear.
The Latin word for believe,
credo, was derived from an earlier form, cor do—I give my heart.
Attention to etymology has its place in spiritual practice: it often serves to remind me of the deeper layers of meaning that enrich the words I use, widen my sense of their consequence, and enliven my sense of what Flannery O’Connor might have called their sacramentality.
Every word has a history. Some of those histories are adventure-laden, war-torn, wild, idiosyncratic; some of them are decorous, fairly linear, and more or less predictable. But even the latter remind us of the longitudinal dimension of language — how words connect us to the long conversation
and to those who have given them life in prayers, poems, position papers, political documents, encyclicals, laws, and letters.
Disconnecting words from their histories is dangerous. It hollows them out, leaving them gutted like fish—edible, perhaps, but no longer beautiful, sunlit, and alive. Words naturally evolve and change, but that process is