Making Room: Sharing the Love of Christmas
By Ed Robb
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Often our Advent preparations have an inward focus as we prepare for the significance of God breaking into our world through the birth of the Christ child. But in a closer examination of the Advent story, we quickly learn that the focus of the coming of the newborn king is outward.
In this book and Advent study, Dr. Ed Robb explores the warmth of welcome at Christmas following interactions with Mary and Joseph, the shepherds, and the magi. Just as Jesus made room in God’s kingdom for a host of people that society wanted to leave on the margins, beginning with the appearance of the shepherds, we too should be asking ourselves who we can make room for this Christmas.
Perhaps it is to the people in your community, or the newly immigrated family in town that doesn’t speak your language. Or maybe it’s the next-door neighbor who just settled in from yet another corporate move? The story of Christ’s birth encourages us to widen our borders and increase our sense of community—and make room for others.
Additional components for a four-week study include a comprehensive Leader Guide.
Ed Robb
Dr. Ed Robb is Senior Pastor at The Woodlands UMC in Houston, Texas. Serving the church for more than forty years, his vision and leadership have led the church to become one of the fastest growing churches in Methodism, with over 14,000 members. He is the author of The Wonder of Christmas, Under Wraps, and Mountaintop Moments. He and his wife, Beverly, have three adult children.
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INTRODUCTION
Perhaps your family, like mine, either read the book or watched the animated version of Dr. Seuss’s classic story How the Grinch Stole Christmas! every Christmas season. Our children—and grandchildren—were fascinated with the lonely, cantankerous, green-colored outcast, who lived on a frigid mountaintop far above the town of Whoville. It’s an imaginative story, and for me, the most memorable part comes at the end. The Grinch, seated at a long table with the entire Whoville community, is given the honor of carving the roast beast. His smile reveals his genuine delight in being warmly welcomed into the midst of their community feast.
The story’s imagery transports me back to a community table I delighted in visiting during my childhood: the fellowship hall of my grandparents’ church. Theirs was a small, rural Methodist church in Texas. The kind of small where everyone knew each other by name. The kind of small where visits and meals were immediately put into action when Mrs. Jones was admitted to the hospital. The kind of small where volunteers were quickly recruited to help Mr. Smith plow his field after his tractor broke down. The kind of small where, every five years, pastors were lovingly prayed over as they left for new assignments and where incoming pastors were warmly welcomed with, of course, a potluck dinner.
Sunday worship was an event we looked forward to all week long. Grandmother made sure we looked our very best before we piled into the car to head for church. Getting there early was the rule because it afforded us the time to connect with friends before the service began. And after the service, the entire church community headed to the fellowship hall. What great fun we had, racing up and down the hall between the tables with the friends we had made on our visits. While our grandparents got caught up on all the community news, we snagged enough doughnuts and cookies to power our sugar-energy reserves for an entire afternoon.
Food was never in short supply at that Methodist church’s fellowship hall. Potluck dinners were a regular event featuring culinary delights such as southern fried chicken, funeral potatoes, calico beans, fried okra, and blue-ribbon-winning brown-sugar-cinnamon apple pie. Also served up were healthy portions of love, laughter, and fellowship.
Looking back, the fellowship hall seemed to me to be twice as large as the church’s sanctuary. But that’s not surprising really since it held the heart and spirit of Christian community within its walls.
I often think of my grandparents’ church as I read through the early chapters of the Acts of the Apostles, because small churches like theirs captured many of the dynamics of the earliest Christian church, which was born through the giving of Holy Spirit at Pentecost. This is what Acts 2:42-47 tells us about the fellowship of believers in Jerusalem:
They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles. All the believers were together and had everything in common. They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need. Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved.
The word fellowship comes from the Greek koinonia, meaning community.
Fellowship includes two important elements: deepening friendship and developing a common vision, goals, and priorities. In the first-century church, fellowship was mediated by meals, an important tradition of Jewish Christians. Meals would always begin with a blessing over bread, as a remembrance of God’s provision for the meal, and then breaking and sharing it. (Jesus understood and observed this practice and added additional meaning to the act of breaking bread at the Last Supper with his disciples. His words from Matthew—Take and eat; this is my body
[26:26] and This is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins
[26:28]—expressed what he would provide with the breaking, death, and resurrection of his body.) After the breaking of the bread during those early church meals, the remainder of the time would be devoted to fellowship and encouraging one another in living the life God wants us to live.¹
This intimate, communal love for God and one another is the glue that held the early church together and is what I observed and experienced in the small-town and rural churches of my youth. But as our cities have grown and expanded into the masses of suburbia, I fear we are losing that glue. Some churches are growing larger and larger, offering many different worship times and venues. Worshipers must be in and out in an hour to make room for the next service, leaving little time for fellowship. Rare are the congregations where members know all the others by name.
The church I serve near Houston, Texas, The Woodlands United Methodist Church, has fourteen thousand members. It’s a big church with thirteen ordained clergy and a large staff. So many people attend on any given Sunday that a worshiper can easily get lost or overwhelmed. More and more I have come to realize that it doesn’t matter how many programs or how many square feet of space we have if we aren’t successful in getting members into small groups where they come to know one another and share a sense of community. In time, members are likely to become inactive, marginalized, and disillusioned.
We cannot grow as Christians while living in isolation since faith is always communal. This is not a new idea. John Wesley, the founder of the Methodist movement within the Church of England, believed that the gospel of Christ knows of no religion, but social; no holiness but social holiness.
Wesley scholar Steve Manskar explains:
[Wesley believed that] holiness is social because God is social. He created human beings in his image to be relational creatures. We become fully human when we share in the relationships God initiates with us through the people he places in our way. . . . If you truly love God then you must love your brother and sister in Christ and your neighbor. This requires you to be in relationships with the people God places alongside you in the church, and the people of your neighborhood, city, and the world. You need community, what Wesley called society,
for grace to nurture you into the persons God created you to be.²
[John Wesley’s] development of small groups revolutionized 18th century England and provided a framework to help people grow in ‘holiness of heart and life,’
the magazine Holiness Today says. Small groups provided a context in which seekers could receive support, accountability, and encouragement.
³
Jesus provided our earliest example of social holiness.
He very well could have walked out his ministry all by himself; he certainly was capable. But he didn’t. Jesus surrounded himself with community because he knew his disciples and the people of his church would need one another. He faithfully and tirelessly sought out the lonely, the lost, the stranger, and the marginalized. He broke bread with sinners, tax collectors, and even self-righteous Pharisees. Inclusion into his community—the kingdom of heaven—was so important to Jesus that, at the end of the last Passover meal he shared with his disciples, he gave them a new commandment: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another
(John 13:34-35).
This commandment soundly resonated with John Wesley. Shortly before his Aldersgate conversion, Wesley experienced a Love Feast with the Moravians in Savannah, Georgia. During Love Feasts (also known as Agape Meals), Christians gather and offer testimonies, prayers, and Scripture passages over a shared meal of bread and water. Partaken in unity and love, these feasts express the koinonia (community, sharing, fellowship) enjoyed by the family of Christ, as alluded to in the Acts of the Apostles (2:42).
Indeed, it was Count Zinzendorf and the Moravians in Germany who, in the early eighteenth century, reintroduced the Love Feast as a service of sharing food, prayer, religious conversation, and hymns. Wesley appreciated the practice: "After evening prayers, we joined with the Germans in