The Unconditional Respect and Love: How Positive Parenting Can Elevate the Relationship Between Your and Your Child

By Laurena Charley M.D.

Experience The Amazing Wonders That Positive Parenting Can Lead To Love and Respect Between You And Your Child Today

There are so many different parenting styles today, each one promising to raise a healthy, happy, and confident child. While many of the approaches have their benefits, they don't always take into consideration meeting the needs of your child not just at his or her developmental level, but as a unique and capable individual person. 

Positive parenting is an approach that seeks to always affirm and validate the child while understanding the problems and meeting the needs that underlie negative behavior. It is not so much a set of rules and guidelines as it is a way of life. At its heart is a belief in your own child and the assurance that he or she is enough and doesn't need to be anything more than he or she already is. It begins with the emotional health of the parent as the basis from which children develop their own emotional health and behavioral regulation. 

       

In "Positive Parenting: Love and Respect" You Will Learn:

• How To Empower Your Child To Make Good and Meaningful Decisions On Their Own
• What Positive Parenting Really Is
• How To Provide Loving Guidance To Set Kids On The Right Path
• How To Create Internal Drive For Correct Behaviour Without External Motivation
• To Treat Every Child As Valued Family Members Who Can Contribute To Decisions And Whose Input Is Valued 
• How To Create Secure Attachment With Your Child 
• Advice On Providing Your Child With Genuine Encouragement Without Flattery
• To Instill Good Behaviour, Self-Esteem, and Integrity In Your Child
• Set Your Child Up For Strong Relationships Outside the Family
• To Develop A Deep and Meaningful Connection Between You And Your Kid(s)

And so much more...

***Bonus***

It has a section on self-awareness because you, as the parent, need to understand your own personality and how it affects your interactions with your child to positively parent. It ends with practical advice on preschool issues such as toileting and eating so that you can get through the preschool years with a more confident and self-motivated child. If you want to change the way that you approach your child, improve your relationship, and learn more about raising a confident and self-motivated individual, then this is the book for you. 

Pick up your copy of the book right now by clicking the BUY NOW button at the top of this page!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Laurena Charley M.D.
• Release date: Mar 23, 2020
• ISBN: 9781393715184

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Unconditional Love and Respect

How Positive Parenting Can Elevate the Relationship Between You and Your Child

Laurena Charley M.D.

Copyright © 2018 Laurena Charley M.D.

All rights reserved.

CONTENTS

INTRODUCTION

Parenting is the hardest job that you will ever have. If you have a child, then you know that this is true. Your child will do things that push your buttons and even infuriate you, yet at the end of the day, you want to be able to go to bed knowing that you showed him or her in every way possible how much you love him or her. You want to have a positive and meaningful relationship with your child but imposing discipline and consequences always stand in the way.

Positive parenting is a parenting style that helps do away with these paradoxes by placing the child’s need for a relationship at the center of everything you do. When the connection comes before correction and relationship comes before rules, you put yourself and your child in a situation in which he or she wants to learn from and have a relationship with you. Positive parenting reduces the stress of the parent-child relationship, thereby eliminating many negative behaviors that are caused by stress. It also empowers parents to approach their children in ways that are meaningful to the child’s developmental level so that lessons imparted are not lost.

This book will guide you through some of the principles of positive parenting so that you can begin to use them with your own child and reap the rewards of a happy and healthy home.

CHAPTER 1: THE POSITIVE APPROACH

Karen was at her wit 's end. Her son, Josh, was getting into trouble at school; she got a call or an email from his teacher at least once a week. She had tried everything she knew to do: taking away his video games, prohibiting him from watching television, sending him to his room, not letting him go out with his friends, forcing him to do his homework before he could do anything else. She had even gotten him into counseling, but he smart-mouthed her every time he went. Karen had no desire to continue paying money every week for him to verbally abuse someone. Despite her best efforts, his behavior and grades continued to deteriorate. In fact, the harder that she tried to discipline him, the more he acted out at home, too. Her house was becoming an increasingly difficult place to be because her relationship with her son was so unpleasant.

Karen sat down at her desk at work, trying to focus on the project that she needed to finish by the end of the week. She got started on it, but after only half an hour, her phone was buzzing. She looked down at it and saw, with at least a small amount of apprehension, that the school was calling her. She ignored the call, hoping that maybe the school could handle this one. After all, they were the trained professionals, right? And nothing that she was trying at home was working. She put her phone on silent and got back to work.

Not five minutes later, her desk phone rang; the receptionist was calling her. Hello? she said.

Hi, Karen? There's a call for you on line 3. Can you take it?

Do you know who the caller is?

The principal of your son's school.

A knot of dread and anxiety filled Karen's stomach as she accepted the call. Hello? she said, trepidation filling her voice.

Ms. Jones, the principal said. Josh is in the office with me. He just cursed out his teacher.

I'm so sorry, she stammered. I don't know what's gotten into him lately.

"I'm afraid that your son's behavior has gotten out of control. He is going to be suspended for the next five days. Please come over now to