Competability: Solving Behavior Problems in Your Multi-Dog Household
By Amy Shojai
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STOP THE GROWLS!
People love dogs--and often "double their pleasure" by sharing their hearts (and pillows) with more than one. But dog behavior puzzles the most savvy pet owners especially when you add more pets to the furry equation. And behavior problems are the #1 reason pets lose their homes.
This book helps any dog lover (whether you share your home with one or a dozen canines). It demystifies common behaviors and dog disputes, explains aggression (it's NORMAL!), solves pet potty challenges and dinnertime woes, and redirects normal (but aggravating) dog-to-dog behaviors.
This guide explains aggressive dog behavior and dog fights, dog language, positive dog obedience training techniques, how to stop dog biting and prevent dog behavioral problems. You'll find detailed prescriptive how-to advice from premier dog trainers and behaviorists on the most common problems found in the multi-dog household. Step by step tips from this award-winning author and certified animal behavior consultant uses dog psychology to address:
*Dog bites, dog aggression, and dog fights
*Scared dogs, noise phobias, dog fireworks fears, and canine thunder phobias
*Canine separation anxiety, dog separation behaviors, and dog destructive behaviors
*Dog resource guarding of toys, food and owners
*Manage dog nutrition and meals
*Puppy house training and dog marking behaviors
*Positive dog training tips including clicker training, lure training, and obedience training
*Proper dog introductions
*Introduce dogs and a new baby or kids
*How to introduce dogs to cats
*Reduce bullying behavior
*How to choose pet friends to reduce growls
*Solve common pet peeves: barking, puppy chewing, dog digging, puppies eating poop, dogs rolling in poop, dogs jumping up, and more!
Fun, practical, and eminently informative, ComPETability helps you devise strategies that enable multiple dogs to live in harmony within the same household. Written by one of America's premier pet experts, the book explains everything the loving dog owner needs to know. Most important, CompPETability provides crucial tips on how to evaluate and match your pets' personalities, improve their relationships, and make your home a sanctuary for canine fun and peace.
For more pet behavior advice refer to:
ComPETability: Solving Behavior Problems In Your CAT-DOG Household
ComPETability: Solving Behavior Problems In Your Multi-CAT Household
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Competability - Amy Shojai
ComPET ability
Solving Behavior Problems
In Your
Multi-Dog Household
AMY SHOJAI
Copyright
Second Print Edition, February 2017
Furry Muse Publishing
ISBN-10: 1-944423-24-9
ISBN-13: 978-1-944423-24-7
Cover image © lifeonwhite via DepositPhotos.com
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All rights reserved. No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever without written permission from the author or Furry Muse Publishing except in the case of brief quotations embodied in critical articles or reviews.
First Published by Cool Gus Publishing
First Printing, March 2013
COPYRIGHT © Amy Shojai, 2012
PUBLISHING
P.O. Box 1904
Sherman TX 75091
(903)814-4319
amy@shojai.com
AUTHOR NOTE
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The author has made every effort to provide the most current information; however, the understanding of veterinary medicine, pet behavior, and training is constantly improving. Provide optimum health care for your pets by regularly consulting a veterinarian. Ongoing behavior problems are best addressed by a professional pet therapist, behavior consultant, or trainer.
Neither the publisher nor the author is engaged in rendering professional advice or services to the individual reader. The ideas, procedures, and suggestions contained in this book are not intended as a substitute for consulting with your pet’s physician and/or qualify trainer/behaviorist. All matters regarding your pet’s health require medical supervision. Neither the author nor the publisher shall be liable or responsible for any loss or damage allegedly arising from any information or suggestion in this book. While the author has made every effort to provide accurate product names, telephone numbers and/or Internet addresses at the time of publication, neither the publisher nor the author assumes any responsibility for errors, or for changes that occur after publications.
Contents
PART ONE: UNDERSTANDING COMPETABILITY
Chapter 1: THE JOYS OF MULTIPLE DOGS
Chapter 2: HOW DOGS THINK
Chapter 3. TRAINING IS FUNDAMENTAL
PART TWO: COMMON PROBLEMS AND PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS
Chapter 4: CANINE AGGRESSION
Chapter 5: BATHROOM CHALLENGES
Chapter 6: EMOTIONAL ISSUES
Chapter 7. FEEDING CONCERNS
Chapter 8: DOG & PEOPLE INTRODUCTIONS
Chapter 9: CAT-TO-DOG INTRODUCTIONS
PART THREE: COMMON MULTIPET FRUSTRATIONS
Chapter 10. PET PEEVES
APPENDIX: EXPERT SOURCES
APPENDIX: ANIMAL BEHAVIOR SOURCES
APPENDIX: FURTHER READING FROM AMY SHOJAI
AFTERWORD
Author Biography
PART ONE
UNDERSTANDING COMPETABILITY
Chapter 1
THE JOYS OF MULTIPLE DOGS
People love dogs and they love us back. This treasured relationship has developed over many thousands of years, and continues to evolve today. We cherish dogs because at their best they represent what humans aspire to be: devoted, honest, faithful, forgiving, and ever ready for joyous fun.
According to the American Pet Products Association 2015-2016 National Pet Owners Survey, there are 77.8 million owned dogs in the United States. A previous APPA survey found:
Thirty-nine percent of U.S. households own at least one dog
Twenty-eight percent of owners own two dogs, and 12 percent own three or more dogs
On average, owners have almost two dogs (1.69 percent)
The proportion of female to male dogs is even
Twenty-one percent of dogs were adopted from an animal shelter
For many of us, pets are furry family members, surrogate children, barking buddies, and a nonjudgmental support system that buoys our spirits. What a gift that they also return our love!
If one dog provides these benefits, two or more multiplies the pleasure. Sharing your home with more than one fur-kid offers the best of all possible worlds, allowing you and your family to experience the myriad personalities dogs represent. Having more than a single dog can mean more work, but the benefits are worth it.
Young pets clown and play, prompting our forgiving laughter even when they make mistakes. Who could resist the puppy snoozing amidst the unrolled flourish of toilet paper? Adult dogs know when we’ve had a hard day at work, and silently commiserate with welcome lap snuggle, slurp away tears, or transform frustration to fun with a spontaneous game of fetch. Aged pets represent milestones in human lives, because they stood by your side through the good, the bad, and the challenging, a constant reminder of love and support. When you have more than one dog you increase the potential to have the best pet partnership for every situation.
Dogs come in an amazing array of looks, sizes, and personalities so you can always find the right match when adding a new kid to your family. Many pets develop strong, loving relationships with each other. A confident pet can help bring a shy one out of his shell, while high energy youngsters give stuck-in-the-mud older animals a fun kick in the tail.
Sharing your home with a pack of dogs means all the humans in the house have a good chance of finding their ‘heart dog’ able to share not only love, but even special interests. For instance, human athletes enjoy a morning jog with a likeminded canine, while introspective owners relish the snuggles of a lap-lounging furry muse. A variety of people-pet activities are available such as dancing with dogs
that increase the pleasure for both you and your pets.
THE PET GENERATION
There are several reasons for the current surge in multiple pet families. You may be adopted
by a stray mother dog with a litter on the way, and end up keeping some or all of the offspring. But most likely, the makeup of your human family evolves, prompting change in the pet count.
Blended families combine pets from both households when couples re-marry—his Doberman and her Pug. A newly divorced adult child may return home and bring her dog to join your existing pet family. Situations in which a single adult family member or friend becomes ill or dies may leave you to care for the pets. More and more, owners unexpectedly find themselves unprepared to face these situations, since they never anticipated having to deal with interspecies or multiple pet relationships.
Dogs encourage social contact and interaction. Walking a dog guarantees meeting the neighbors and other dog lovers, and you get exercise along the way. Interacting with dogs is a pleasant and painless way to increase human exercise and promote our own health.
Modern pet owners recognize that dogs have social and emotional needs, and try to satisfy them. People facing career demands that keep them apart from their pet for long work hours may try to balance the animal’s increased alone time by matchmaking him with a furry companion. In one American Animal Hospital Association survey, 44 percent of pet owners acquired a pet simply to keep another pet company.
NOBODY’S PERFECT
More pets double the fun, but also increase the potential for problems, today more than ever before. Historically, owners living in rural communities enjoyed canine companionship with few conflicts, since dogs spent a large percentage of their time in the back yard, the barn or the field. That dynamic changed when pets moved into the family room, and were asked to co-exist.
It would be ideal if all dogs loved each other at first sight, played nicely together, and read our minds so they never made behavior mistakes. All owners of multiple pets will be faced with minor-to-major behavior problems. If you’re experiencing problems, you are not alone!
When we welcome a dog into our lives and homes, we must accept that they are individuals with very different needs and desires. Just as human siblings don’t always agree, a few squabbles are inevitable. But that does not mean owners or pets must accept rude behavior, irritating or dangerous antics, or constant warfare.
The right pet matchmaking choices must be considered to keep the fur from flying. While we love having more than one pet, the potential for conflict increases when multiple animals share the same house or apartment, the same rooms—sometimes the same bed—as human family members. Conflict upsets the pets’ physical and emotional health, creates stressful or dangerous behavior problems, and damages the loving bond with owners.
WHAT’S IN THE BOOK
You’re reading this book because you already know how much fun multiples can be, but you anticipate or are already challenged with behavior issues inherent to loving more than one pet. This book provides expert behavior and care information for cohabiting dogs, and offers the tools needed to make educated matchmaking pet choices, prevent potential problems, and offer solutions when troubles occur.
You won’t find the answer to every behavior question here, though. While much of the information in this book translates to single pet homes, and you’ll sometimes be asked to train pets one at a time, the focus is on behavior problems and solutions of multiples. I’ve included the most common behavior challenges that directly impact the other animals living in the house.
For example, you won’t find direct advice about WHAT to feed dogs, but instead I’ve provided tips on HOW to manage dinnertime so all the pets munch from the correct bowl and don’t interfere with each other’s nutrition. You’ll read how to prevent a dog from guarding the food from other pets, for example. Rather than a section on house training your new puppy, discover practical tips for fixing bathroom problems that are prompted by the presence of other dogs.
The majority of the book deals exclusively with how pets interact and impact each other, and ways to manage this to fix or prevent behavior problems. Expanded information is included in aggression sections, though, since these dangerous behaviors not only affect the other animals but also the owners who must manage the problem. The stress of living in a multiple pet home can increase aggression toward humans in the house or even strangers who visit. Helping your dogs accept human family members and friends is a vital part of a happy blended pet family.
The book offers three sections of information. Part One, Understanding Competability
consists of three overview chapters. The one you’re reading outlines the general scope of the book and introduces you to the joys of a multiple pet home. The next chapters cover dog-specific information, and a chapter offering background on behavior modification and training techniques. These opening chapters also discuss how pets learn, dog communication, and social structure.
Part Two, Common Problems and Practical Solutions,
addresses the specifics of aggression, bathroom challenges, emotional issues, feeding concerns, and introductions in multi-dog households. Each of these chapters discusses the most common behavior problems you’ll face with each situation, and include practical solutions. Suggestions from a variety of expert sources offer choices so you can decide which tips work best for your individual situation. Choose the sections and individual chapters that best address your multipet challenges.
Part Three, Pet Peeves,
addresses the top behavior complaints of dog owners. You’ll learn tips for dealing with barking, digging and chewing, for example. Throughout the book, several running sidebars point out information of special interest. Calming Signals offer the best bet tip from experts; Comfort Zone suggests helpful pet products; and Vet Alert! warns you about situations that need expert help.
Part Four, Appendixes
lists a number of the expert sources who provided information presented in this book. I’ve also provided a Further Reading
list of behavior or other books that you may find helpful.
RISKY BUSINESS
While behavior problems in dogs prove challenging and annoying to owners, they become life threatening to the pets themselves. Shelters overflow with animals relinquished by those unable or unwilling to deal with often fixable
problems. Most of these fur-kids never get a second chance and end up losing their lives. ComPETability
can help you resolve a large percentage of behaviors and preserve the loving bond you share with your pets. Advice must be interpreted correctly so that you can apply recommendations to the right canine.
Certain kinds of aggression have far reaching consequences, though, and prove challenging to even the most savvy professional. Aggression not only puts Rex’s life on the line, it risks other cats, dogs, and people and becomes a liability issue for you. Dogs bite an estimated 5 million people each year, with 800,000 individuals requiring medical treatment. Approximately half of all children in the United States will be bitten before their 12th birthday, but most of these injuries can be prevented with appropriate training of both the dogs and children. Learn how to keep your child safe with the tips in Pet Peeves, Chapter 10.
Anytime your pet has caused wounds in another pet or person that require medical care, you will need help beyond the scope of this book. Refer to the Appendix to find professional animal behavior consultants and trainers for help.
If you diligently follow the tips outlined in this book but see no progress—or you feel so frustrated that you want to scream at your pet—yell for a professional instead. Individual people and pets absorb information in different ways and speeds, and a demonstration by a veterinary behaviorist or using a behavior modification program under the direction of an expert trainer may help you better understand the tips in this book, save your sanity, and preserve the love you share with your special dogs.
USING THIS BOOK
It’s not always easy to find the best way to present information so that it’s understandable, accessible, and covers all the bases. A challenge with this three-book ComPETability series has been presenting similar advice for both dog-to-dog and dog-to-cat issues while avoiding repetition. Also, if you’re like me, it offends you to have a pet referred to as it,
yet it can be awkward to