He Created Us to Victimize Us: The Shaffers’ True Biography of Horror
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This is a true story of a family who endured incest. Although incest is a family bloodline crime, no one could even imagine their father raping his own children, or a mother and homemaker having to survive her own husbands lifetime of damage to their children.
As the story unfolds, the mother learns through her children; she was the first victim at the age of fourteen. She was a young country girl who found her way straight through her children and her faith. Dealing with this unspeakable crime, she found herself raising five children on her own in the sixties, which was unheard of back then.
Facing her husband in court, with three of her oldest children testifying against him, almost killed her. The only thing she had left was her children and her faith in God. This incest case was the first ever seen in the Baltimore city courthouse.
The prosecution and even the judge never heard of such disgusting act from a biological father.
This unspoken crime happens daily, but is rarely reported. The families and victims involved are often ashamed. It is difficult for people to admit a family member could do such a disgusting act. It could be like in our casea father, step-father, uncle, cousin, or even an aunt; not all abusers are male.
The goal for this book is to raise awareness, help put child molesters and pedophiles behind bars, and change the laws as they are now. We all need to speak up and help stop this sick act.
This book seeks to open your eyes on incest and all the pain it causes.
Cynthia Eisenhart
Cynthia Eisenhart grew up in a family filled with shame, heartache, and fear. Her experiences have inspired her to write this book. Since she was the youngest child in the family, Cynthias mother tried her best to shield her from the horror. Her best attempts didnt work in the end. Cynthia moved to Pennsylvania and married her fifth husband. It has taken her years to try to have a normal life, but she believes she has finally made it.
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He Created Us to Victimize Us - Cynthia Eisenhart
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ISBN: 978-1-4525-8034-0 (e)
Balboa Press rev. date: 08/15/2013
Contents
Chapter 1 The Youngest victims
Chapter 2 A new life
Chapter 3 Finding new family
Chapter 4 Sickness in all capacities
Chapter 5 A new beginning
Chapter 6 Chapter 7
Chapter 8 The Shaffer family horror
Chapter 9 The pain never stops
Chapter 10 Trust in God
CHAPTER 1
THE YOUNGEST VICTIMS
In 1928 a child, born to and unwed mother, Cindy’s father in years to come, she named her new baby David Shaffer. Herbert Hoover was will president to 1933. In 1932 Anna Mae freeman gave birth to her second child, James Shaffer. Just two years later tragically came one the Freemans household. David’s and James mother was found murdered in a trash dump. Union South Carolina Police Department had no clues on the case.
The Freemans buried their daughter and now had tough choices to make. They were up in age and not healthy enough to raise a six and two-year-old boy which was, James and David. The decision was made that James and David was going to the Boy’s Home Orphanage in Union South Carolina. This would be the start of molding two boys’ personality for a lifetime. Days after the funeral of burying their mother the boy’s grandparents took them to the orphanage. The sign over legal papers to the state of South Carolina to take full custody of the children. The family did put one clause in the both of the boys had to be adopted together never to be separated. David would never forget this year of 1934, this was the year his grandfather took him in James to the orphanage.
As two scared little boys would do, they clung on to each other for dear life. With James only being two and David, six they still didn’t know really what was going on. All they did know was there mother was dead. As the boy’s grandfather walked out the door in the orphanage they never saw him again. For the first few hours James thought they was they was just visiting. The staff parent took the boys around to show them the orphanage
Attending church was monitory for all the children and staff.
Both boys had sandy blonde hair covering your ears a little of the straggly on both