The Relaters Manual: A Guide For Men

By Dyann Bridges

UPDATED FOR 2022!
The Relaters Manual: A Guide For Men was first published back in 2014. However, the information in it is timeless and geared toward men. The guide offers men a genuinely unique perspective and foundational understanding of women. Without this basic knowledge, relationships with women will consistently be difficult.

The Relaters Manual was written by certified massage therapist (C.M.T.) energy worker, and somatic therapist Dyann Bridges. A woman in her middle years who loves men, but found that most men never seem to get women... even after decades of marriage.

There are good reasons why the genders are so different. It's part of the duality of life. Men and women are meant to support and compliment one another as Life always seeks balance.

The Relaters Manual doesn't waste time getting to the point. This is a gritty and intense look at relating to women. The author backs up her observations with science, stats and decades of experience dealing with men.

The Relaters Manual aims to be a sort of empathy handbook, and on that front... it succeeds. If men were to pause and take the advice offered in this book, it could well stop arguments, breakups and encourage fresh starts.

This isn't just a relationship manual, it's a technical thesis that doesn't get dry, stuffy or dull. Men have a lot to gain from it. The author understands that men are not entirely to blame! Women don't always know what they want from men or how to articulate it. The Relaters Manual is specifically aimed at a male audience.

There is a lot of advice in it that men should find reassuring, calming and practical, as well as eye opening. This is not traditional dating or relationship advice. Bridges highlights the areas of gender polarity, mutual respect and appreciating the essential nature of women as key themes throughout this ebook.

Dyann worked as a C.M.T. (certified massage therapist), energy worker and somatic therapist for 20 years. Over the last 7 years she's earned her living as a freelance writer and coach.

Dyann wishes you a very sensual day. relatersmanual.com

• Language: English
• Publisher: Writers Animus Productions
• Release date: Aug 11, 2018
• ISBN: 9780463217528

Dyann Bridges

The Relaters Manual: A Guide For Men (Updated for 2022) is an ebook which offers men a foundational understanding of women. Without this basic knowledge, relationships with women will consistently be difficult.The Relaters Manual was written by certified massage therapist (C.M.T.), energy worker, somatic therapist and coach for men, Dyann Bridges. She is a woman in her middle years who loves men, but found that most men never seem to get women... even after decades of marriage and relating.There are good reasons why the genders are so different. It is part of the duality of life. Men and women are meant to support one another as Life always seeks balance.The Relaters Manual does not waste time getting to the point. This is a gritty and intense look at relating to women. The author backs up her observations with science, stats and decades of experience dealing with men.The Relaters Manual aims to be a sort of empathy handbook, and on that front... it succeeds. If men were to pause and take the advice offered in this book, it could well stop arguments, breakups and encourage fresh starts.This is not just a relationship manual, it is a technical thesis that does not get dry, stuffy or dull. Men have a lot to gain from it.The author understands that men are not entirely to blame! Women do not always know what they want from men, how to articulate it or fully understand what is going on inside of themselves.The Relaters Manual is specifically aimed at a male audience. There is a lot of advice in it that men should find reassuring, calming and practical, as well as eye opening. This is not traditional dating or relationship advice.Bridges highlights the areas of gender polarity, mutual respect and appreciating the essential nature of women as key themes throughout this ebook.Dyann was a C.M.T. (certified massage therapist), energy worker and somatic therapist for 20 years and a writer for most of her Life. Over the last 7+ years she's earned her living as a freelance writer and coach. She wishes you a very sensual day.

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The Relaters Manual: A Guide For Men

Dyann Bridges

The Relaters Manual: A Guide For Men

Copyright © 2015 * 2022

by Dyann Bridges Publisher & Coach For Men

2nd Smashwords Edition

All rights reserved

Dedicated to

Every man who wants to be loved and respected by the women in his life

relatersmanual.com

*Updated for 2022*

INTRODUCTION

The Relaters Manual: A Guide For Men

This book was born of the many conversations I've had with men in my advisory, energy healing and bodywork sessions. I've also gained a lot of hard earned wisdom relating to men over nearly four decades.

I finally realized men don't understand women and never seem to. Even after many years of marriage and living together. I realized too that women are not good at communicating effectively about what they need from men. This is mostly because women can't articulate, even to themselves, about what's going on inside of them. It often takes time, practice, patient and a lot of self realization for a woman to understand how she can voice her boundaries effectively.

I first wrote this guide in 2015, but many things have changed since then and continue to... fast.

We live in phenomenal times. Every man needs to do better for women, for children, for other men, for our society and for themselves. Why? Because our societal existence depends on it.

We are at a critical tipping point in history. We need men to find their inner hero and to be inspired by women. Especially, by the women they love. We need men unafraid to take action in support of respect, honor and freedom. A man must know what he values so he can uphold and protect those values when they are threatened.

In my observation, the glue which holds the fabric of societies together is the desire between a man and a woman. All other aspects of a culture spring from that unshakeable bond. Economies, the medical system, educational institutions and especially governments would not exist otherwise. If it were not for the attraction between men and women and the natural evolution to create a family, no aspect of a society could form.

As I write this in 2022, too many non-sensical events have taken hold, gripped our global society and changed the world as we know it. Men are, after all, the leaders in relationships, as well as, most everything else in world. So, we need you at your best!

Gentlemen, you don't need to be perfect. Just stay strong as best you can. Be measured. Be con siderate, and use a little compassion. If you're a man of your word, that'll put you a cut above the rest and make you the hero we all need you to be.

Okay! Let's get to it.

Thank you and have a very sensual day, Dyann Bridges

Table of Contents

INTRODUCTION

SECTION #1 – Gender Polarities

Gender Polarity and The Brain

The Brain Matters

What The Brain Differences Mean For Women

What the Brain Differences Mean for Men

Right Brain - Wrong World

Building Neural Pathways

White Matter and Gray Matter

Gender Polarity and Appreciation

Respect for the Feminine

A Gift And A Tool

Understanding the Crazy

Stand In The Storm

Female Impotence

Stopping Too Soon

Gender Polarity and Taking Action

Now What?

The Ego Factor

Quick Stats

The Aftermath

Use Protection

SECTION #2 – The Pillars Of Masculinity & Femininity

The 3 Pillars of Masculinity

Strength

Stability

Structure

The 3 Pillars of Femininity

Serenity

Sensuality

Sagaciousness

SECTION #3 – The Biggest Mistake Men Make

PUSHING

What Does Pushing Mean?

Men & Women Are Equal (Just Not The Same)

Just Let It Go

Examples Of Pushing

Oh Obnoxious One

BACKING OFF

What Does Backing Off Mean?

Caving In

Second Guessing

Examples of Backing Off

Full Phone Press

On The Edge

Getting The Balance Right

When To Lead

When To Heed

The Firefighter & The Financier

Links To Sources (Sections #1 & #2)

SECTION #4 – Adventurous & Wild

An Introduction To Our Essential Natures

Climbing The Mountain: An Analogy

Women And The Mountain

Alone In The Zoo

The Meaning Of Wild

Seeking Awareness

Acknowledging The Wilderness

Quick Tips

**Tip #1 – When she doesn't let you off the hook

**Tip #2– How to be chivalrous

**TIP #3 – When she tests you

**TIP #4 - How to stand up for women

SECTION #1 – Gender Polarities

Gender Polarity and The Brain

The Brain Matters

Science can prove things exist. However, scientists can't always interpret what they prove exists.

Having said that, scientists have proven there are real physical differences between the female and male brain. These differences affect men's and women's thought processes and behavior.

Although, there is disagreement among researchers as