Don't Make Me Come Up There!: Quiet Moments for Busy Moms
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A calm moment is a rare find in a mom’s chaotic day. But she needs it. She needs the moment to refocus and refresh her soul. She needs the inspiration to find God in the mess and the mundane that often defines her. She craves the solitude of a moment with the Master to quiet the storms. She needs to laugh and remember why she loves being a mom.
Don't Make Me Come Up There! is filled with inspirational and hilarious true-life stories and reflections written by a very human mom. Moms will recognize themselves in the pages of this book written for real, everyday mothers who know what it’s like to catch vomit with one hand while starting a load of laundry with the other (and never confusing the two!). The fifty-two reflections encourage moms to revel in the everyday beauty of their lives and grow closer to God through it all.
"I couldn’t help thinking of the last time my children had scattered up the stairs and disappeared into a quiet abyss. Initially, I thought they were just delighting in one another’s company, holding hands, and making paper daisies. But that thought lasted for 1.2 seconds before I snapped out of my delusion only to discover my oldest giving her brother a “haircut” and my youngest smearing soap all over the bathroom. . . " from the book
Kristen Welch
Kristen Welch is a mom just like you and me--only funnier. Her blog, We Are THAT Family (www.wearethatfamily.com) is read by over 70,000 women a month, who enjoy her often-hilarious, always-honest reflections on motherhood, marriage, and Christian life. In 2010, she went to Kenya as a blogger for Compassion International, and regularly contributes to online magazine Blissfully Domestic and (In)Courage, an inspirational blog for women. She lives in Texas with her husband and three children.
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Don't Make Me Come Up There! - Kristen Welch
1
If the Mom Genes Fit
When I first started birthing babes, I was shocked at how hard it was to juggle everything. I'm not just talking about playdates, housework, and school projects.
I mean literally, juggling a diaper bag, a 100-pound baby carrier—not including a baby whose thighs resemble those of a small Sumo wrestler—and a purse, all while trying to keep a two-year-old from scraping gum off the sidewalk.
I've always thought that with the title Mother we should grow an extra appendage or two. Because, seriously, an extra arm would come in handy when I'm stirring dinner, loading the dishwasher, calling out multiplication facts, stepping over the mock kitchen my toddler has created underfoot, and paying bills online—simultaneously.
In one day, I accomplish more than some small companies. Heck, I am a small company. I've spent a combined total of nearly forty hours in labor delivering more than twenty pounds of human.
When I became a mother, I put on the mom jeans and developed mom genes. I can hear my baby blink in the middle of the night, read my tween's mind when she's giving me a dirty look, and unlatch a nursing bra without my hands.
And I'll be honest, when someone has the nerve to ask me in a questioning tone, "What do you do all day? I've decided this will be my forever answer:
I'm a mom. What's your superpower?"
God created mothers to nurture, protect, and love their children unconditionally. He understands that children are their mother's heart because he designed us that way. When our tanks are empty and exhaustion is our middle name, God is the one who says, Come to me. I will give you rest.
Lean on him. It's in our nature to do it all, but when we can't go on, he is there to sustain us. He is there in the middle of the night when our kids are sick. He is there when we don't know how to discipline. He is there when one goes astray.
As much as we love our children, he loves them more. Trust him.
Trust in the LORD with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding.
Lord, sometimes I feel invincible and sometimes I feel exhausted from trying to do it all myself. Help me trust you with my kids and with my own life. Thank you for making me a mother. Give me strength to accomplish all that you've set before me and give me joy in my journey. Amen.
2
They Will Let Anyone Be a Mom
These Days
Iwas leisurely scrolling through the latest posts of the blogs I read every day. I was unbathed and pajama-clad. (Actually, I had lost my pajama bottoms somewhere along the way of rushing my older kids out the door, so I was half naked.) My priorities were in order: I was reading other people's business before I took care of my own.
My one-year-old sat in my lap while I worked on my laptop at the kitchen counter. My baby dug through the kitchen drawer as I intently read. She started squirming, so I sat her on the floor with a piece of plastic in her hand. At least that's what I thought it was, until she started screaming.
I whipped around and IN SLOW MOTION BECAUSE I'M A SLOW THINKER realized that the said plastic was SUPER GLUE, which was now dripping and full of teeth marks. I scooped her up and ran to the kitchen sink.
These words began flashing in my head: YOU ARE NOT MATURE ENOUGH TO BE A MOTHER. FIND AN ADULT IMMEDIATELY.
My daughter's hands were covered in Super Glue and her lips were glued closed.
Let me just pause and let that sink in: Baby. Lips. Glued together for eternity. Jesus, help me.
I'm crying. She's crying. I'm splashing water on both of us, praying for help, and begging for forgiveness. It did dawn on me in a surreal way how perfectly still my child became. She knew it was bad. And I think she was hoping for another adult to arrive.
The warm water and a little pressure helped part her crusty lips. THANK GOD. She didn't ingest the glue, and that seemed to be very good news.
I nearly passed out when I heard the key in the front door.
A host of heavenly angels ushered my dear hubby into the kitchen in search of something he'd forgotten. He saw the Super Glue, our crusty hands, and his baby's lips and took over.
I googled baby lips and super glue,
which I'm sure helped child protective services home in on my whereabouts. And I'm sure this was an Internet first.
According to reliable resources, acetone is the enemy to Super Glue. It's the kryptonite to the super mega adhesive. We dipped cotton into nail polish remover and scrubbed. Our one-year-old perfected her dirty look, and my husband didn't even ask how it happened.
I've got to get to work,
my husband said as he grabbed his jacket.
What? You can't leave me. I cannot be trusted. It's not even 8:30 a.m. and I nearly wounded your baby,
I said as I grabbed his pant leg and held on for dear life. He smiled at me. And left.
Have you ever felt unqualified to be a mom? I made a mistake that could have caused severe injury to my child and I couldn't get past the guilt. I was horrified at my negligence and berated myself until I finally had a good cry in the tub. I reminded myself that I wasn't a bad mom, just human. But God reminded me that I wasn't alone. He equips us to handle the tough mom stuff, the things in the future we can't even imagine. He won't give us more than we can handle.
Don't be too hard on yourself. It isn't an accident that you're a mom. God will enable you!
Please forgive your servant's offense, for the LORD will certainly make a lasting dynasty for my master, because he fights the LORD's battles. Let no wrongdoing be found in you as long as you live.
God, thank you for your protection. Please watch over those I love. Guard them with your angels. Keep my spouse and my children safe from harm. Amen.
3
The Magic Eraser
Confession: sometimes I ignore my children. The other day, I was busy at my computer. My kids were home from school and done with their homework. Usually, I'm rushing around getting snacks, going through backpack papers, and trying to decide what to make for dinner with one potato, two cans of corn, and a link of sausage. Instead, I was in cyberspace.
My kids asked if they could use my giant box of Sharpie markers for coloring. Now, every mother knows you don't let your young children color with permanent markers. But shopping on the Internet for squeaky shoes for your toddler who isn't toddling can distort this. I said yes. So it seems.
About twenty minutes later, I looked up to see my children at the dining room table coloring away.
What do you think you are doing?
I demanded, vaguely remembering I had approved their activity.
When I looked closer, I freaked out. Underneath the notebook paper was an entire scene of flowers, bugs, and robots in permanent marker on my beautiful table.
I am not proud of what happened next: I yelled. I screamed. I shook my fists in the air!
My daughter rolled her eyes at me and said, You said it was OK,
and stormed off to her room. My son's lips trembled, and he burst into tears. He grabbed my legs and begged forgiveness.