Half Truths: God Helps Those Who Help Themselves and Other Things the Bible Doesn't Say
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They are simple phrases. They sound Christian—like something you might find in the Bible. We’ve all heard these words. Maybe we’ve said them. They capture some element of truth, yet they miss the point in important ways.
Join Adam Hamilton in this 5-week Bible study to search for the whole truth by comparing common Christian clichés with the wisdom found in Scripture. The clichés include:
Everything happens for a reason.
God helps those who help themselves.
God won’t give you more than you can handle.
God said it, I believe it, that settles it.
Love the sinner, hate the sin.
Adam Hamilton
Adam Hamilton is the founding pastor of the United Methodist Church of the Resurrection in Kansas City. Started in 1990 with four people, the church has grown to become the largest United Methodist Church in the United States with over 18,000 members. The church is well known for connecting with agnostics, skeptics, and spiritual seekers. In 2012, it was recognized as the most influential mainline church in America, and Hamilton was asked by the White House to deliver the sermon at the Obama inaugural prayer service. Hamilton, whose theological training includes an undergraduate degree from Oral Roberts University and a graduate degree from Southern Methodist University where he was honored for his work in social ethics, is the author of nineteen books. He has been married to his wife, LaVon, for thirty-one years and has two adult daughters.
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- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/52.5-3 stars. Kind of bland and some of his arguments are just weak, around Biblical hermeneutics in particular. I tend to assume that’s because of the nature of the book, but I know he doesn’t go deeper in his book on reading the Bible, so...
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Half Truths - Adam Hamilton
INTRODUCTION
Most of us as Christians have things we believe, and tell others, and even count on, that we’ve not carefully examined. Some of the things we accept and repeat to others sound so true, and we’ve believed them for so long, that they become what some call sacred cows
—things above question or criticism. When these beliefs are questioned we become defensive or irritated. We may even worry that if the beliefs aren’t true, the rest of our faith may crumble.
I don’t think this book will make your faith crumble. But to the degree that I’m questioning something you’ve held deeply and repeated often, it might unnerve or irritate you. It’s okay to say: I think the author gets it wrong in this chapter. Maybe I did. Go on to the next chapter and see what you think. Hopefully I got it right in at least one of the chapters. And remember, I’m not suggesting that these statements are entirely untrue, merely that they are half true. (Okay, some may be less than half true, but certainly there is some truth in each of them.)
Here’s why it’s important to examine these particular half truths: I think they can sometimes hurt people. I think they can lead people to conclusions about God that not only are untrue but that may push some people away from God. Some of these half truths are used to avoid careful thinking about complex issues. Some are used to justify our own biases or prejudices. Some, when spoken to others, can bring pain.
All of us occasionally use half truths. In fact, the subtitle of this book may be a half truth! My publisher and I discussed several subtitles and finally settled on this one: God Helps Those Who Help Themselves and Other Things the Bible Doesn’t Say. But the truth is that you can find Bible passages to support nearly every one of the half truths we’ll discuss. For that matter, you can find Bible passages to support all kinds of things. People who beat their children can support their practice from Scripture: Those who withhold the rod hate their children
(Proverbs 13:24). I was taught as a teen that Christians were not to drink wine, for Wine is a mocker; beer a carouser
(Proverbs 20:1). When a young woman is repeatedly abused by her husband, her parents can urge her to stay with him because I hate divorce, says the LORD
(Malachi 2:16 NRSV).
Scriptures must be interpreted. Sometimes their meanings seem to conflict, or a particular message given in one context appears to be contradicted in another context. It is important to read any Scripture in the light of its context and the Bible’s broader message and themes. It is not enough to find a passage or two or six to support a particular view. We interpret all Scripture in the light of Jesus’ life and teachings, as well as with the help of the Spirit’s witness, the wisdom of scholars, and our intellect and life experience.
Because Scriptures must be interpreted, you and I may sometimes disagree about our interpretations and other issues of faith. This was brought home to me recently when I spoke at a conference on one of the topics in this book, Everything Happens for a Reason.
I was approached by a lifelong Christian, a man who for years had served on the staff of his church. He said, Your talk tonight really unnerved me at first. I’ve always believed that everything happens for a reason. I always tell people this to comfort them when things go wrong.
I was expecting him to say, But now that I’ve heard your talk on this, I understand that this may not be entirely true. I’m going to be more careful in what I say to people enduring suffering.
Of course, that’s not what he told me. He said, Well, I don’t know about all that stuff you talked about tonight. But I do know one thing: everything happens for a reason.
So much for the compelling case I had presented!
I’ll end this short introduction with another experience I had this week as I was ministering with an individual. Her little sister, a teenager, had just died tragically. I stopped by to offer comfort and care. Through her tears the young woman told me, I know it was her time, but I don’t understand why God would take my little sister now. She was just a kid.
The young woman had grown up learning that whatever happened, it must be the will of God. God must have predetermined that it was her sister’s time to die. Though I may have disagreed, it would not have been helpful to question her assumptions at that moment. I simply hugged her, prayed for her, and offered to talk further in the days ahead. But my hope in writing this book is to invite you to question assumptions such as the young woman’s before you find yourself in a situation like hers, when those assumptions might raise questions that challenge your faith.
Yes, there is some truth to be found in the truths
we’ll explore in the pages that follow. I invite you, though, to consider whether these truths are as Christian or as true as you may suppose. And, if I’m right, I hope you might think twice before you say them again.
More than that, I hope that examining these and other half truths will lead you to the greater truths we find in Jesus Christ.
1.
EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON
[Then Moses said to the Israelites,] I call heaven and earth to witness against you today that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Choose life so that you and your descendants may live, loving the Lord your God, obeying him, and holding fast to him; for that means life to you and length of days.
—Deuteronomy 30:19-20a NRSV
1.
EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON
Has anyone ever said to you, Everything happens for a reason
? Most of us have heard that statement from someone at some point. Many of us have said it to someone else.
The statement is true if, in saying it, we mean that we live in a world of cause and effect. Actions create consequences. Our own choices produce results. A result of choosing to text while driving may be a collision in which someone is injured. In the Scripture at the beginning of this chapter, Moses is preaching to the Israelites about cause and effect. Choosing to live under God’s law of love for God and neighbor leads to life and peace for the community.
Usually, however, when we say Everything happens for a reason
we’re not talking about cause and effect. Most often, we’re speaking in response to suffering. When something bad has happened and we’re trying to help someone through a difficult time, we say It was meant to be.
When someone dies unexpectedly, we hear It must have been their time
or It was part of the plan
or It must have been God’s will.
We seek to console—and others seek to console us—by saying that God has a particular purpose for bringing about (or at least allowing) situations in which people suffer. We may assume that while we don’t yet understand why it had to happen, all events in our lives unfold according to God’s predetermined and immutable plan. Since God is in charge of everything, whatever happens—a personal setback, an untimely death, a natural disaster—reflects the will and purposes of God.
If we extend this logic, we can arrive at some extremes that seem silly:
•God meant for my team to win (or lose) the World Series.
•Honey, I’m sorry I forgot your birthday. It must have been the will of God.
And we can get to some very troubling questions:
•Why would God will millions of Jews to die in the Holocaust?
•Does God really want little children to die in a school shooting?
So, does everything happen for a reason? At best, this is a half truth. I’d love to scrub it from the list of things we say to comfort people when they are going through difficult situations. The notion that God picks winners and losers in professional sports or the stock market, let alone that God intends car accidents, criminal acts, genocide, or mass murder, surely is worth examining.*
The Problem of Personal Responsibility
If we examine the notion that everything happens for a reason, the first problem is that it eliminates the concept of personal responsibility for our actions. If everything happens according to God’s immutable plan, then whatever I do must have been God’s will. God isn’t going to change it. In fact, God must have needed and wanted me to do it; otherwise, God would not have let it happen.
If I cheat on my wife, it must have been part of God’s plan. If my wife and children suffer because of my cheating, that must have been God’s will for them, even if they can’t fathom why God ordained it to happen. If I drink and drive and someone is killed as a result, it must have been the victim’s time.
Yes, I did a terrible