He Holds My Hand: Experiencing God's Presence and Protection

By Carol Kent

2018 Christian Book Award finalist (Devotion and Gift category)
He Holds My Hand is a page-per-day 365-day devotional. Based on Scripture, this devotional is written as if God the Father is speaking His words of comfort and protection directly over you.

When Carol Kent’s son was sentenced to life in prison without parole, Carol was consumed with grief, sadness, and despair. She was distraught wondering why God permitted this to happen. She had prayed for her son since he was a small child. He had been raised with biblical principles and daily prayer. As Carol tried to make sense of everything, she couldn’t help asking, Where’s God when it hurts so much?

In the middle of her sorrow, Carol turned to the place where she had always gone for comfort—the Bible. She was desperate to hear God’s voice. She soon discovered that the best way for her to “listen” to His voice was to meditate on Scripture and then write out what she believed He was saying. She wrote it as if it was His prayer over her life, and it comforted her. It was as if He took her by the hand, as a father would guide a child, and He gently led her in the direction of unconditional love, renewed hope, and fresh faith.

Know without a doubt that God is with you and stands ready to protect and guide you. He holds your hand, and He won’t let go. Listen to God’s voice and put your hand in His. He is your Comforter, your Healer, your Teacher, and your Joy. Remember He holds your hand, and He won’t let go.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Tyndale House Publishers
• Release date: Oct 3, 2017
• ISBN: 9781496421685

Carol Kent

Carol Kent is the bestselling author of When I Lay My Isaac Down and Becoming a Woman of Influence. Carol is an expert on public speaking, writing, and on encouraging people to hold on to hope when life’s circumstances turn out differently from their dreams. She speaks internationally on the subjects of her books. With vulnerable openness, restored joy, and a sense of humor, Carol helps people to discover the secret of maintaining an enduring faith in the middle of an imperfect world. She and her husband, Gene, live in Florida.

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INTRODUCTION

Have you ever received an unexpected phone call that completely threw your world off its axis? It might have been a devastating diagnosis of cancer. Perhaps it was the shocking news of an accident that took the life of a family member and left someone else you love permanently disabled. But sometimes, unexpected calls bring magnificent surprises. You might have received good news about an upcoming wedding, or the announcement that a long-awaited baby is on the way. Or maybe you were offered a job or ministry position ideally suited to your gifts. Good or bad, in one moment in time, you knew your life would be forever changed by what you just heard. That’s what happened to me.

The phone rang at 12:35 a.m., awakening my husband and me from a deep sleep. Gene picked up the receiver while I tried to figure out who was on the other end of the line. His face was horror-stricken as he looked at me and said, Jason has just been arrested for the murder of his wife’s ex-husband.

Nausea swept over me. I struggled to get out of bed and stand up, but my legs wouldn’t hold my weight. I slumped to the floor and crawled my way into the bathroom. Thoughts swirled: What is happening? Our son has never been in trouble before. He was a good student, a high-achieving graduate of the US Naval Academy. Did they pick up the wrong person? Is this a bad dream? Or a cruel joke?

Soon after our son’s graduation from the USNA, he had met a woman with two young daughters. We were all thrilled when they got married, and Jason loved being a husband and stepdad. Still, something unforeseen hovered on the horizon. The girls’ biological father had been accused of abuse on multiple occasions, and these allegations had prevented him from having unsupervised visitation privileges. The abuse was never proven, but Jason firmly believed it was true.

Jason’s first military assignment outside the continental United States was in Hawaii, which meant he, his wife, and his stepdaughters would be living far away from the girls’ biological father. To complicate matters, the visitation restrictions for the girls’ father were likely going to be lifted. If that happened, they would have six weeks of mandatory visits with their dad in the summer. Jason, fearing for the girls’ safety, began to unravel mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Then he did the unthinkable—he took matters into his own hands.

Grief consumed me, and I was deeply distraught with God. As a teenager, I had memorized Psalm 16:11, vowing to follow God wherever He led me: Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore (

KJV

). Now I was not feeling either joy or God’s pleasure as I lashed out at Him. How could You have allowed this to happen? I prayed for my son since he was in my womb. I tried to be the best mother I could be, raising my son to love and serve You! He was a loving husband and father who wanted to protect his stepdaughters from abuse. I am heartbroken. This is my only child, and You didn’t stop him!

Following seven postponements of his trial, Jason was convicted of murder and sentenced to life without the possibility of parole. (You can read the whole story in my book When I Lay My Isaac Down.) All the while, I wrestled with how to go on with life, how to reconcile what I knew to be true—that God is good and trustworthy—with the fact that even though He knew my son’s heartfelt reason for his actions, God did not intervene and prevent this heinous crime.

In the middle of my sorrow, I turned to the place I had always gone for comfort—the Bible. For decades, I had been in Christian leadership—first as a teaching leader in Bible Study Fellowship and then as a speaker at Christian conferences—and I had seen women come to faith in God and grow closer to Him as they immersed themselves in His Word. Could I find the personal solace I needed in its pages now? In the beginning, it was hard to read, partly because I was still mad at God, and partly because my tears blurred the words. Still, I was desperate to hear His voice, and I longed for answers.

As time passed, I started to read a verse or passage and then would stop to think about what God was saying to me. In the past I had always read the Bible in a hurry because my life was busy and I didn’t think I had time to ponder the Scriptures. But now, desperate to hear His voice, I intentionally paused long enough to comprehend the life-giving words He was speaking into me.

I soon discovered that the best way for me to listen to God’s voice was to meditate on Scripture and then write out what I believed was His prayer over my life. And it comforted me. It was as if God took me by the hand, as a father would guide a child, and gently led me in the direction of unconditional love, renewed hope, and fresh faith. The more I read His Word and sought to understand what He was saying to me, the more comfort I experienced and the more my intimacy with Him was restored. Some of the prayers you’ll read in this book were written during that difficult time.

Each day’s selection begins with a relevant quotation, followed by a prayer, and ends with a Scripture verse or passage. I allowed myself literary freedom by creating these prayers in God’s voice. However, the only part of each day’s prayer that has the authority of God is the quoted and referenced verses from the Bible. Writing as if God were actually speaking is a way to hear His words of hope and blessing over you. It is with a sense of holy awe and reverence for Him that I’ve prayerfully written these entries. I have sought to present God’s truth in each prayer, but only His words are absolute Truth. Whenever words included in the prayer are drawn directly from the Bible, they are in italics, with the complete Scripture included at the end.

My goal is not to provide all the answers to your tough questions, but to remind you that God holds your hand—in every situation. At His right hand there are eternal pleasures (Psalm 16:11), even in the middle of your darkest experience. Read this devotional as a complement to your regular Bible reading. Keep your Bible open as you read, and look for additional insights in the verses that capture your heart.

I pray that you’ll experience the Bible in a more personalized way than ever before. As you read each day’s Scripture, pause and listen to what you hear Him saying to you as you apply His truth to your daily life. Then try writing it out, making sure your notations are in line with God’s truth and His character. He does hold your hand—and He won’t let go.

January

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January 1

A NEW BEGINNING

God is able to accomplish, provide, help, save, keep, subdue. . . . He is able to do what you can’t. He already has a plan. . . . God’s not bewildered. Go to him.

Max Lucado

It’s a brand-new year, and there is much to do. As you look at all of your responsibilities and personal challenges, life may feel overwhelming and impossible. Your usual ability to engage in normal activities has been slowed due to unforeseen difficult circumstances. But I am a God who delights in giving new beginnings and restored hope. If you’d like a chance to start over this year, try praying: God, make a fresh start in me, shape a Genesis week from the chaos of my life. And I will listen. If you make Me your main priority and ask Me for wisdom about how to make good choices, I’ll provide discernment and guidance as you move forward. You are not alone. I know your name and I cherish you. If you take My hand, I will walk with you and provide light for the journey ahead.

God, make a fresh start in me, shape a Genesis week from the chaos of my life.

PSALM 51:10, MSG

January 2

LET GO OF WORRY

Worrying is carrying tomorrow’s load with today’s strength—carrying two days at once. It is moving into tomorrow ahead of time. Worrying doesn’t empty tomorrow of its sorrow, it empties today of its strength.

Corrie ten Boom

You’ve been stressed and anxious about future events. There are work concerns and family issues, along with financial challenges. It’s hard to concentrate on what you have to do today, because you already know the week ahead is filled with impossible situations—and you’re not sure what you should do. You feel the weight of uncertainty, and it’s too heavy for you to bear.

Instead of worrying, talk to Me. I love to respond to your requests. Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. Worrying about what hasn’t happened yet and about what might never happen is fruitless and only robs you of the strength you have today. You will find Me if you look for Me, and I will provide all you need in perfect timing. I am never late.

Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.

MATTHEW 7:7-8, NIV

January 3

REMEMBRANCE

Remember your own history with God. Think back on the times when God expressed his love for you. . . . Remember the love you felt for him, the joy, the tears? Remember how he touched you, embraced you, and led you?

Ken Gire

My child, you’ve been focusing on My past blessings in your life. When you felt My favor on your close relationships and life’s work, you had a sense of deep contentment and satisfaction. But life is harder now—less predictable, and more difficult to figure out. You’ve had the fleeting thought that I’ve been distracted and that I’m not aware of your challenges. But I’m in the same place I’ve always been—right beside you. The fact that you can’t see Me doesn’t mean I’ve left. Even when you think I’m the most absent, I am ever present, so close that I’m aware of every breath you take.

Pause, breathe deeply, and remember our experiences together in the past. List the times when you felt comfort and peace in My company, and then list the times when you were no longer aware of My presence. Remember Moses? I appeared to him in a burning bush and told him he was standing on holy ground. Listen to My voice. Wherever I am is holy ground, including right here, where you are. Never forget that.

Do not come any closer, the L

ORD

warned. Take off your sandals, for you are standing on holy ground.

EXODUS 3:5

January 4

WAITING

Waiting on God requires the willingness to bear uncertainty, to carry within oneself the unanswered question, lifting the heart to God about it whenever it intrudes upon one’s thoughts.

Elisabeth Elliot

I want you to learn the benefits of perseverance. Sometimes you think I move too slowly, and your agenda seems more important than what you’ll learn in the process of waiting. But hold on; be patient (Psalm 27:14). When you think I’m not responding to your prayer, I am already in the process of giving you an answer—just not the response you were looking for. I am choosing to be glorified in a different way than you anticipated.

Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a dream fulfilled is a tree of life. While you wait for your answer to prayer, read My Word; listen to My voice through Scripture, through the wise counsel of people who spend time with Me, and through the inner impression of your heart as you seek My guidance. Your unanswered questions will draw you close to Me—and that’s a good place to be.

Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a dream fulfilled is a tree of life.

PROVERBS 13:12

January 5

STRENGTH

God uses chronic pain and weakness, along with other afflictions, as his chisel for sculpting our lives. Felt weakness deepens dependence on Christ for strength each day. The weaker we feel, the harder we lean. And the harder we lean, the stronger we grow spiritually.

J. I. Packer

You are stronger than you think because you belong to Me. On the surface, you feel weak, unable to cope, filled with apprehension, and uncertain about how to make important choices. You face decisions that won’t wait until the road you’re traveling has smoothed out. There’s a mystery about the way I work that I long for you to understand: When you feel powerless and doubt your ability to handle simple decision making, that’s when you can hang your weakness on My strength.

Pause and understand the mystery of My strength in your weakness. When you are at your lowest ebb, you’re more inclined to surrender your will to Me because you know you can’t survive without My help. The moment you admit, I can’t make it on my own. I’m hanging on to You, God; You’re all I have, that’s when My power works best on your behalf. Develop a daily habit of speaking this verse aloud: I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.

I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.

PHILIPPIANS 4:13

January 6

PRAISE WORKS

The climax of God’s happiness is the delight He takes in the echoes of His excellence in the praises of His people.

John Piper

It’s early in the year, and I challenge you to establish a new habit, beginning today. Start praising Me. You don’t have to be in a quiet place or even alter the schedule of your day. When you are alone, speak out loud to Me with words of praise. I inhabit the praises of My people (Psalm 22:3,

KJV

). As you focus on Me, your spirits will be lifted and your heart encouraged.

Begin by speaking My names and My attributes—Abba Father, Holy One, Redeemer, Healer, Protector, Savior, Comforter, Creator, the Great I A

M

, the God for whom nothing is impossible, the One who is altogether lovely, your Hope, your Strength, your Fortress, He who is present everywhere, all-powerful and all-knowing, the One who is just, the One who forgives, the One who loves you. Pour out your praise to Me and be amazed at how much you become aware of My presence in your circumstances. I will be all of those things to you and much more. Change your focus to Me and allow your heart to break free from any discouragement.

Let us offer through Jesus a continual sacrifice of praise to God, proclaiming our allegiance to his name.

HEBREWS 13:15

January 7

FINDING PURPOSE

Purpose in life is not just something we do. It involves who we are and our way of being in the world. . . . Our heart is broken by what breaks God’s heart, and we devote our energies to those purposes.

Jan Johnson

Take a moment to look back on your life—to a time when you found a purpose for living, a goal that made your life relevant and meaningful. There is great fulfillment when you do what I’ve designed you to do. You discover unexpected joy even when the work is hard, if you understand the reason why it’s important. I created you to be different from every other person on the earth, and you’ll find your deepest satisfaction when you use your gifts for My glory.

Lately it’s been hard to rediscover your purpose because of the disheartening conditions you face. But obstacles become stepping-stones when you say yes to temporary discomfort in order to walk in the path I’ve designed for you. Sometimes I give you choices—but they will always be in accordance with My Word. I never go against My Word.

For I know the plans I have for you, says the L

ORD

. They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.

JEREMIAH 29:11

January 8

ATTITUDES

We cannot change our past. . . . We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude.

Charles Swindoll

Attitudes are the quiet judgments that shape your life. The apostle Paul wrote from a prison cell in Rome, Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ (Philippians 1:27,

NIV

). Every day you have a choice—to give in to the negative voices that surround you, or to live in such a way that you are a credit to the Message of Christ (Philippians 1:27,

MSG

). Even when you encounter the toughest trials of life, you can choose to have an attitude like Paul’s.

Study the life of Jesus. He is the ultimate example of how to live in a fallen world while maintaining a mind-set focused on My ultimate purpose. You’ve been discouraged because you can’t control the negative actions of people close to you. When people wear you down, check your thoughts and ask Me for inner peace. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. . . . Keep putting into practice all you learned and received from me. . . . Then the God of peace will be with you (Philippians 4:8-9). Ask for My help. Tap into My power and I will give you the strength to have a godly attitude in the midst of challenges.

Do everything without complaining and arguing.

PHILIPPIANS 2:14

January 9

TALKING TO GOD

Beware in your prayers, above everything else, of limiting God, not only by unbelief, but by fancying that you know what He can do. Expect unexpected things above all that we ask or think.

Andrew Murray

Prayer is simply a conversation with Me. You talk. I listen. You share your praises, concerns, joys, and sorrows, and sometimes you speak to Me through tears about your urgent needs. I respond to you through My Word, or sometimes through the wise counsel of people who spend a lot of time with Me. Sometimes I speak to you through the inner impression of your heart when you’re meditating on Scripture and earnestly seeking My help or when you’re eager to do My will.

The biggest barrier to your prayers is unbelief. Sometimes you pray, but you don’t think I will answer or intervene in your situation. Have you forgotten that I’m the Creator of the universe and have immeasurable resources that I long to use on your behalf? Pray boldly and expect Me to respond. I may answer in a different way than you’re expecting, but I know what’s best for you and for those you love.

If you don’t know what you’re doing, pray to the Father. He loves to help. You’ll get his help, and won’t be condescended to when you ask for it. Ask boldly, believingly, without a second thought. People who worry their prayers are like wind-whipped waves.

JAMES 1:5-6, MSG

January 10

COMPASSION

Compassion asks us to go where it hurts, to enter into places of pain, to share in brokenness, fear, confusion, and anguish. Compassion challenges us to cry out with those in misery, to mourn with those who are lonely, to weep with those in tears.

Henri Nouwen

Look around and find someone who needs help even more than you do. One of the ways I help you grow is by asking you to do what My Son did. Search the Gospels and you’ll find that Jesus looked compassionately on those who were in need, and in many instances, healing took place because He physically touched them. Begin by focusing on one person in need. Ask Me to help you find a creative way to perform a tangible act of kindness for that person. You may think you lack the financial resources to make a difference, but remember that money is often not the greatest need.

When you wait with someone who is longing for relational healing, or care for the child of a young parent who feels overwhelmed, or spend time with someone who’s lonely, or pray with a friend who was betrayed by a spouse, you are following the example of Christ. You’ll soon discover that when you show compassion to others, your own spirits will be lifted and My presence will surround you.

When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.

MATTHEW 9:36, NIV

January 11

GUIDANCE

God’s guidance is almost always step-by-step; He does not show us our life’s plan all at once. Sometimes our anxiousness to know the will of God comes from a desire to peer over God’s shoulder to see what His plan is.

Jerry Bridges

My child, you have a longing to move on from where you are right now because nothing seems to be falling into place. You know I have a plan for you, but you are still filled with stress. You know that I delight in gently leading you through My Word and by the inner nudging of My Spirit, but you still long to skip the lessons I have for you in your current situation.

Relax. My guidance is never rushed, and the details will be revealed when the right time comes. I have always known the best pathway for your life (Psalm 32:8). Concentrate on what I have placed in front of you today. Look for signs of My presence as you encounter people, problems, everyday activities, and new opportunities. As you keep moving forward, you will find yourself making surprising progress—emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually. I will work out My plans for your life—I won’t abandon you.

The L

ORD

will work out his plans for my life—for your faithful love, O L

ORD

, endures forever. Don’t abandon me, for you made me.

PSALM 138:8

January 12

OVERCOME REJECTION

Affirming words from moms and dads are like light switches. Speak a word of affirmation at the right moment in a child’s life and it’s like lighting up a whole roomful of possibilities.

Gary Smalley

The hurts you grew up with jump into your mind at unexpected moments. During your formative years, you tried so hard to please the significant people in your life, but sometimes they didn’t respond in a positive way. When you longed for encouraging words, you received rejection, criticism, harsh responses, or a wall of silence. It hurt then and it hurts now. You developed a hard shell to protect yourself from future pain, but it became a prison of your own making.

Hear My voice to you saying, "I have loved you . . . with an everlasting love. With unfailing love I have drawn you to myself." Allow My love for you to teach you how to lavishly love others. Be open and encouraging to those around you. Do not allow any lingering emotional debris to prevent you from loving your own family well. Use what happened in your past as a foundation upon which you can build a different kind of future—one filled with caring personal relationships. Be the first person to build up another by saying out loud what he or she does well. Because you are loved by Me, you can overcome the rejection of those long-ago years and write a different future for your loved ones.

I have loved you, my people, with an everlasting love. With unfailing love I have drawn you to myself.

JEREMIAH 31:3

January 13

FACING WINTER

The quickest way for anyone to reach the sun and the light of day is not to run west, chasing after the setting sun, but to head east, plunging into the darkness until one comes to the sunrise.

Gerald L. Sittser

Dear one, I know this feels like the longest winter of your life. Just when you thought there might be a shred of hope that you were entering a new season, you face yet another storm. The bleakness of winter—with no leaves on the trees, no colorful flowers in sight, harsh temperatures, and blustery storms—reflects your emotions. You’re tempted to turn and run away from the demands of people who are counting on you. It’s just too hard. Too intense. Too unfixable. Too unfair. I understand your longing for a better life.

Be encouraged. If you face the hard place and lean into Me, I’ll teach you how to respond to the darkness and find light for your journey. Don’t be afraid. You are not alone. Place your trembling hand in Mine, and together we’ll face the obstacles until you see the light of day. Winter always turns into spring. I have a plan, and you will soon see My purpose unfold. Keep walking without wavering.

The L

ORD

is my light and my salvation—so why should I be afraid? The L

ORD

 is my fortress, protecting me from danger, so why should I tremble?

PSALM 27:1

January 14

HOPE

What gives me the most hope every day is God’s grace; knowing that his grace is going to give me the strength for whatever I face, knowing that nothing is a surprise to God.

Rick Warren

Wake up every morning with hope in your heart. Look forward to what I will do for you today. One of the tools of the enemy is discouragement. He will look for your most vulnerable place and tell you that things are getting worse. He’ll try to make you think that I’ve forgotten you and that you might as well give up. But hope brings a different perspective. Because you belong to Me, confidently anticipate how this experience can bring Me glory and be a catalyst for positive change in your life. Concentrate on My promises, and hope will replace discouragement (Romans 15:4). Instead of allowing negative thoughts to take over your mind, stay focused on what you know to be true about Me. My resources are available to you. I’m right beside you. I want the best for you. Your happiness is not dependent upon perfect circumstances or fluctuating emotions but comes through hope in Me (Psalm 146:5). I long for you to overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit.

I pray that God, the source of hope, will fill you completely with joy and peace because you trust in him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit.

ROMANS 15:13

January 15

UNSHAKABLE FAITH

Faith is deliberate confidence in the character of God whose ways you may not understand at the time.

Oswald Chambers

Your world has been turned upside-down. Your family’s life will never look like the happy, successful, trouble-free dream that you originally envisioned. Someone’s bad choices have not only negatively impacted his own life, but by default—just because you care so much for him—every aspect of your own future will be different too. This turn of events feels unfair and makes no sense. You find yourself questioning My love for you and wondering if I’m busy elsewhere in the universe, totally unaware of your pain. In your darkest hour, you question your faith. It is real? Does it work? Is it worth it?

Go back to what you know to be true about Me. I am good. I am trustworthy. I have given you My Word as a guide for your decisions. I am faithful. I am available. I love you. Open the Bible and read, Faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God (Romans 10:17,

NKJV

). The more you stay connected to My Word, the more you will realize that genuine faith is confidence in what [you] hope for and assurance about what [you] do not see. Unshakable faith is developed over time as you rehearse My goodness and My consistent presence with you during every step of your journey. Hold on.

Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.

HEBREWS 11:1, NIV

January 16

VULNERABILITY

Revealing our weaknesses helps others feel connected to us. Fully understanding and unconditionally loving us shabby humans, Jesus shows up best in our weakness. He shines brightly through the cracks in our flawed armor.

Brenda Waggoner

I care about every aspect of your life. I’ve watched you pull away from relationships because you don’t want to reveal wounds from the past. You feel too fragile to open yourself up to the possibility of being judged. Sometimes you are too afraid of rejection. You dread a look, a comment, or someone hearing your story and turning away. The potential humiliation doesn’t feel worth the risk. It’s easier to withdraw, to avoid social gatherings—even church—because your emotions are raw. You are isolating yourself by avoiding close, open relationships with others—even with people you used to call friends.

I have news for you. If you open up with others, people will be comfortable telling you their own imperfect

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He Holds my Hand is a 365-day devotional written by Carol Kent during a period in her life when her world was turned upside down. After learning her only son was arrested for murder, she turned to God and her Bible to find comfort. The result of all her praying and meditating is found in this wonderful devotional.
The devotional is splendidly written; under each day it begins with a quote followed byCarol's writings and then you find scripture to follow up the writings.

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