How to Survive School: A Practical Guide for Teenagers, Parents and Teachers
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Simple, effective solutions to 30 of the most common problems encountered by young people facing the pressures of exams and life beyond the school gates. Life coach, therapist, teacher and Exam Magic® founder Michael Warwick, explains how small
changes in the ways you think about school, can have huge benefits for your future exam results and present happiness and well-being. More than 3,000 students, teachers and parents have used the advice in this book to improve exam results and create better relationships both at school and at home. You can think of this book as having your very own personal coach to help you change the way you feel about school, exams and what you can achieve.
Includes tips, exercises and advice on dealing with exam stress and anxiety, staying focused and motivated, getting organized, and dealing with pressures both inside and outside of school. Illustrated and easy to read, this book helps students and teenagers to grow confidence, resilience and improve exam results whilst equipping them with the skills and attitudes they will need for continued success at school and beyond.
Provides practical help and advice for parents and teachers on how to improve communication and support students and teenagers through the challenges of school and exams. Comes with a free mindfulness and visualization app to increase focus, motivation and resilience whilst reducing stress and anxiety.
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How to Survive School - Michael Warwick
Thanks to all of the people who encouraged the making of this book. There are too many to mention by name, but some must be given special thanks: Danielle K Watts for life-changing advice and guidance. Ayse Enver Yusuf for championing Exam Magic and asking for more and better resources for her students. Jim and Sharon Adams for their enthusiasm and support. Scott Cohen and Liviu Babitz for their friendship and expertise. Vikki and Toby Skinner for going over the manuscript with a fine-tooth comb. Seth Godin for responding to my emails. Nick Troop for coffee, cakes and data crunching. Sherife Tayfun for walking the talk and lighting the way. Louise Barnard for her brilliant ideas. My parents for believing in me. And of course Chiara D’Anna for her love and patience.
Most of all I want to thank all of my students for challenging and motivating me to bring my best self to school.
Michael Warwick
Table of Contents
Acknowledgements
Introduction
Why I Wrote This Book
How to Use This Book
Two Key Ideas at the Heart of This Book
Problems and Strategies
Home, Family and Friends
Problem #1: There’s too much pressure on me
Problem #2: My parents nag me and don’t understand the pressure I’m under
Problem #3: There are family problems that upset and distract me
Problem #4: I’d rather spend time with my boyfriend or girlfriend
Problem #5: I have duties at home that take up my time
Problem #6: My parents compare me to my brothers and sisters
Problem #7: There’s no quiet space to work in at home
School and Teachers
Problem #8: I find lessons boring
Problem #9: I have too much homework—I don’t have time for exam prep
Problem #10: I don’t have the right notes or resources
Problem #11: I don’t like my teacher
Problem #12: My teachers nag me and put me under too much pressure
Problem #13: I prefer to mess around or chat with my friends
Problem #14: I’ve got out-of-school clubs and sports that are important to me
Self
Problem #15: I can’t be bothered
Problem #16: TV is too interesting
Problem #17: Social networks are important to me and I spend a lot of time on them
Problem #18: I can’t not check my phone
Problem #19: I’m not organised
Problem #20: I’ve got better things to do with my time than studying—I want a life!
Problem #21: My Saturday/part-time job takes a lot of my time
Problem #22: I’m scared I’ll fail
Problem #23: I can’t concentrate
Problem #24: There’s too much to do in a short space of time
Problem #25: I’m too tired
Problem #26: I’m too stressed
Problem #27: I feel embarrassed about what people will think of me
Problem #28: I have no motivation
Problem #29: I’ve got too much on my mind
Problem #30: My hormones are out of my control
What Next?
Consultancy
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About the Author
Introduction
Do you have exams to take?
If you’re worried that you might not get the exam results you want, you’re not alone. This book came about because a teacher wanted to help his students stop worrying and get the best exam results possible.
Let’s start with an obvious fact; at least, it’s obvious once you see it. Do you realise that exams are not passed in the exam hall?
Exams are passed in your bedroom, or at the kitchen table or in the library or online, and in your classroom with your teachers. Wherever you do the preparation and study is where the exam is passed. The better the preparation, the better the exam results.
Imagine that you are a musician or an actor and you have to perform a new song or play in front of an audience. Would you practice before you went on stage? Of course you would.
The problem with practicing or studying for exams is that we’ve all got plenty of other things we’d rather be doing. Plus there’s the fear. We have fears and doubts about how our exam results could affect our future and about our ability to pass the exams. On top of it all, it’s not nice feeling judged.
Let’s put it another way: Do you accept that preparing for exams is the best way to pass them? If so, then we need to be honest about what gets in the way of doing that effectively, and then we need to use strategies to overcome those obstacles. That’s what this book is for.
Why I Wrote This Book
Here's how this book came into being: I was running an Exam Magic programme in a school and everything was going very well. The school liked the work so much that they asked me if I would take the whole of the upper school off timetable for the afternoon and ‘do something with them’. I should’ve said no. The interventions I deliver have been developed and tested over many years so that they work. To attempt an untested workshop with so many students, for a whole afternoon, was foolhardy, but I was eager to please, so I agreed, coming up with the idea of the group’s writing a book together. The students would identify all of the problems that they are grappling with and then work in teams to come up with strategies and solutions to solve them.
What I hadn’t realised was that almost a third of the students in the room were feeling very vulnerable and in some cases overwhelmed by the pressures of school. Many students were not, at that moment, able to access the resilience needed to go through the process I was facilitating, and I hadn’t thought the idea through sufficiently to support them with it.
A significant number of students disengaged from the work, and as the room lost momentum, I began to wobble.
A lot of teachers go through this kind of thing. You start to sweat, and sometimes you hear your own voice as if it’s coming from outside of yourself. It can feel like rolling a boulder uphill when the group energy splits like this. I actually got so flustered that I mistimed the workshop and finished ten minutes early, by which point I’d lost the whole group, and because we were using lots of paper and pens, the hall was a mess.
To make it even more fun for my ego, there were staff from the school in attendance who seemed to me to be watching in horror, but not really helping out. I was, after all, meant to be the big-shot expert from London!
In the end, I felt like the session went so badly, I just wanted to put the whole thing behind me and forget about it. I took all of the work the engaged students had made and stored it in my basement at home. The fact that I had publicly announced the intention to write a book slipped my mind.
Some months later, I attended a large motivational event with a very well-known British speaker. He announced from the stage that if anyone would read three books, he would personally mentor them free of charge. I took him at his word and read all three books. I got a lot out of the experience, and I’m thankful to him for that, but when I contacted his secretary to arrange the mentoring, I was met with a bemused comment about the speaker ‘often getting carried away’ and ‘saying all kinds of things from the stage’.
At first I was angry and felt cheated. How could anyone be so irresponsible? Then I realised that I had done a very similar thing. What a valuable lesson. I vowed then and there always to keep my word, and so down I went into the basement and up came the students’ worksheets. I began to piece this book together from their insights, adding ideas of my own from my experience of over a decade running workshops to help young people make the most of their education.
If anything, this book is a testament to resilience. It demonstrates that no matter how difficult things get, we can all dig deep and find