Marriage Has No Formula

By Naomi K. Molefe

One of four definitions of the word FORMULA is “a general law”, and examples are given of
mathematical and chemical formulae.
Another is a list of the substances used in making something, such as a medicine, a fuel, a drink,
and so on, sometimes also including a description of how they are to be mixed.
A third definition defines FORMULA as a combination of things, events and the like, that will lead
almost unavoidably to the stated or expected result.
And lastly, FORMULA can also mean a combination of suggestions, plans and so on that can be
agreed on by both sides.
Let us explore these definitions to find out if we can successfully apply a formula to marriage. As
you read the book you will realise that sometimes you getting it right, and at other times you have
got it wrong - but, what the heck? We are all works in progress!
“Blunt but necessary.” Didi Bilwane
“A very relevant book in our day.” Thulani and Portia Wilson
“Excellent work. I think the institution of marriage in South Africa is going through turbulent times
and its ‘wheels’ are coming off. This is largely due to a lack of Biblical values in the building and
running of our families. This book brings to our attention that our society’s cohesion and strength
lies in families that are God-fearing and driven by biblical values.” Pastor George Mahlobo

• Language: English
• Publisher: Naomi K. Molefe
• Release date: Jul 14, 2016
• ISBN: 9780620688345

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