Searching for My Adopted Son: Born May 24, 1964
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Searching for My Adopted Son - Melinda Martin
Acknowledgements
PROLOGUE
I wrote the following October10, 1964. The other things seem important to all those viewing the world where a child remains the supreme ruler of my domain today and every day since his conception and every moment as attempts to escape which is now the essence of a memory. The child is the most dear and emotional fact of my existence affecting all of my life to follow, perhaps necessary for ultimate self-realization.
What follows is my story in the dream that my soul designed for this lifetime. It began in 2012 and was completed in 2014. It is with great disappointment that the State of New York continues as of now to keep adoption records sealed. I so hoped for my son to know my history, especially my medical history. It seems a shame!
INTRODUCTION
My dear son, you were born May 29,
1964 and named Ross Martin Knight. I
named you Ross after your great, great
grandfather James Grant Ross, M.D., Esq.
and your grandmother's maiden name which
I choose as a last name. My legal name is
Melinda Martin Mouquin (ex-husband), but
I go by Melinda Martin in my therapy
practice to keep it simple. My nickname is
Nini. My name at your birth was Melinda
Martin Knight. So many names! You can
find me at www.melindamartin.net.
Are you alive? Per the New York State
adoption the records are sealed. You were
born in Lennox Hill Hospital in New York
City and placed for adoption through Spence
Chapin in New York City. I carried you for
nearly 10 months – didn't want to let go! I
was 24 and had been told I couldn't have
children – that my ovaries were enlarged as
was the rest of me. No drinks – ate right,
played classical music. The morning of May
29 I awoke with pain and you were coming
fast. I was on the third floor apartment. We
called the police and they took me down
with a stretcher and we went the blocks to
Lenox Hill Hospital in an ambulance. As
they rushed me into the hospital I left my
body and looked down at myself in pain –
rushing through the doors like a Dr. Kildare
or Ben Casey TV episode - no time for
enemas. In the delivery room and a stern
nurse was saying, Don't yell, push
, and at
10:11 you emerged – big and beautiful with
brown hair. I cared for you for five days.
The nurses said you were so good and
peaceful. Then they took you away and,
after binding my breasts full of milk for you,
I went back to the apartment – devastated
and in shock. Several days later I returned
to Spence Chapin – where had you been?
Prior to signing the surrender papers, they
requested that I hold you. You were handed
to me dressed in your yellow layette that
they had asked me to purchase at
Bloomingdales. Holding you, I was
overwhelmed with grief and sadness and
was soon in tears. I could not sign you away
in that state, gave you back and said I would
return composed. I went back to the
apartment to ponder any choices I might
have to enable