The Marriage Go-Round Yours, Mine and Ours: Finding Happiness in a Re-marriage and Combined Family

By Judith Albright

Marriages fail every day, leaving in their wake vulnerable and lonely men and women who wonder how they will ever make it without a partner. Many choose to rush into a new marriage, but the odds against that marriage being successful are overwhelming unless old issues are resolved and a solid foundation is created on which to build a new relationship. It would be easy to assume that anyone who has gone through the painful process of divorce would have learned something from it and would be less likely to repeat the mistakes of the past. Unfortunately, this is not always so. Entrenched life patterns, if not identified and broken, can contribute to the destruction of a second marriage just as easily as they may have helped destroy the first one. Even when you wholeheartedly believe the breakup of your previous marriage is your ex-spouse’s fault, it is important to remember that it is rarely if ever just one person who “causes” a divorce. Often after it is too late, a second-time newlywed finds out that even though the new spouse is indeed different from the first one, old patterns have been carried into the new relationship by both partners. This e-book takes an in-depth look at the past and what helped create it, a succinct look at what is going on in a present relationship, and what needs to considered before entering a new marriage, especially one involving children.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Judith Albright
• Release date: Aug 14, 2013
• ISBN: 9781301164981

Judith Albright

When I was younger I naively believed that life progressed in a straightforward orderly fashion. I truly believed that, just like wine, relationships only got better with age; that each job would be better and pay more money than the last; that I had all the time in the world, and that l was in perfect control of my life. But “life” had different ideas. Over the years my life took all sorts of interesting twists and turns, certainly not in a straight line or all of them forward. Events such as divorce, death of family members, job losses, health problems and family issues all surfaced and had to be addressed. I spent years in corporate America holding down a series of jobs, some of which came close to being fun and fulfilling, but somehow the jobs I really liked came to an end, mostly for reasons beyond my control. Looking back, I realize I spent a lot of years on “sinking ships," forcing me to reinvent myself more than once. The final result of all that is that all these life experiences plus the specialized training I pursued is what prepared me for the work I do today. For the past nine years I have had a stress management practice in Ft. Collins, CO that focuses on helping others calm runaway emotions, release negative behavior patterns, and change false beliefs that are limiting them and sabotaging their lives. For more information about me and how I can help you, I invite you to visit my website at www.stressfreewitheft. Better yet give me a call--you can reach me at 970 218-8643.

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