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Kim Sadler, 33, from Derby
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Scrolling through social media, I often interacted with the posts on my feed.
And when I came across a mutual friend’s selfie, my finger hovered over the like button back in 2018.
Posting a snap of himself flexing in the gym, I left a funny comment on the post.
I wish that I had the motivation to go to the gym, I typed, jokingly.
I’d known Robert, 35, for about five or six years – he worked with my ex-partner.
Having him on social media, I knew him well enough to say ‘hi’ if we ever passed each other in the street.
I had typed the comment innocently – I would have said the same on anyone else’s post – but Robert messaged me privately soon after.
It’s a small world, he said.
Starting a conversation, catching up with each other, my phone was soon pinging with his messages.
And I was a little flattered by Robert’s attention.
He was nice, charming and really liked me.
I’d never seen him in a romantic light before, but it wasn’t long until he was confessing strong feelings for me.
I wasn’t sure that I felt as intensely as he did – although I did