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Do you hate your crush's texting habits? Consider this before calling it quits

When Sabrina Zohar first started dating her boyfriend whom she refers to as "tech guy" in her popular TikTok videos, she was doubtful about their connection for one striking reason. He barely texted her. After matching on Hinge in 2022, they went on several dates and saw each other at least twice a week despite living about 100 miles away from each other. (He lived in San Diego, while she was ...
For the last three decades, mobile texting has been a part of our digital lives, and it has become an integral part of the courtship process throughout the world.

When Sabrina Zohar first started dating her boyfriend whom she refers to as "tech guy" in her popular TikTok videos, she was doubtful about their connection for one striking reason.

He barely texted her.

After matching on Hinge in 2022, they went on several dates and saw each other at least twice a week despite living about 100 miles away from each other. (He lived in San Diego, while she was in Los Angeles at the time.) But Zohar still questioned whether "tech guy" was really into her.

About a month into dating, Zohar told him that she wanted to communicate more — they usually texted every few days — between their dates so she could feel more connected to him. His response shifted her perspective.

"He set a boundary that I will never forget," says Zohar, who's a dating coach and host of the podcast "." "He

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