Woman's Day Magazine NZ

Hayley’s hidden pain ‘I MASKED MY SELF-HATRED WITH DRUGS’

After a decade of methamphetamine addiction, homelessness and arrests for gang-related robberies, Hayley Schofer finally gave up drugs at age 28.

Detoxing after daily drug usage was a difficult feat for the Wellington makeup artist, however, what came next was even harder. After a lifetime of self-hatred and keeping secrets, Hayley lost family and friends when she finally came out as transgender in 2019. But she also found herself.

“I was around six when I realised something wasn’t quite right because I wanted to wear my sister’s things, including her ballet shoes, but I didn’t want anyone knowing,

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