The Oldie

Let's spend our lives together

By the time Luli Harvey reached her 70s, her entire adult life had been spent in London. It was where she'd worked hard, married – and divorced – twice, and raised her three children, happily forging a rich, busy existence. Even so, the countryside called to her.

It's a fantasy familiar to many of course, nourished by Escape to the Country and an endless list of books stretching back to H E Bates's 50s fiction The Darling Buds of May and beyond. The difference was that Harvey made the dream a reality – and not just as a septuagenarian, but single-handedly and during Covid lockdowns.

Its pursuit forced her to focus on a question that too many of her peers ignore until it's too late, she says: how to facilitate convivial, dignified living in older age.

The solution she hit upon

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